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Underdressing: Secretly enjoying your feminine side

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Lady
(@paulabigg)
Active Member     South, Brazil
Joined: 2 months ago

Thanks for the tips.

I really love lingerie, since I as little. Started with my mom's nylon stockings.

Have you ever worn lingerie outside the home? Unfortunately, not yet.

Do you have a habit of underdressing inside and /or outside the home? Just inside.

How do you feel wearing panties and bra under men's clothes? I do not wear them under boy's clothes. I will try. When I wear panties and bras must be with dress or lace sleepwear.

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Thank you!

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Lady
(@splitdecision)
Reputable Member     Doylestown, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

Hi girls

I wear panties underneath my guy clothes every day and have been for 40 yrs or more. To me it’s a quality of life issue. Wearing them calms and relaxes me. Relieves stress and simply makes me feel better. Plus the added bonus that they are so much prettier and fit and feel better than men’s underwear! Yes you. Red to take precautions if you can’t be detected. I find that certain panty styles work best. For me it’s mostly bikini style. I can easily bend over with out them showing. 
unfortunately with the weather getting warmer bra and camisole season is almost over for me. 
there to hard to hide in lighter clothing. 
if you’ve never worn panties under your guy clothes , give it a try! 

Natalie💋💋

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Bras and panties are so much more fun than boring male underwear!

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Lady
(@denises924)
Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 4 months ago

I have only underdressed twice. Both times with panties and stockings. I walked through the hotel early in the morning. It was  thrilling 😊 

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Thanks for sharing your experience!

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Lady
(@kathys)
Eminent Member     St. Louis, Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

I haven't worn traditional male underwear since I was 17 because no one really knows what kind of underwear we wear. I agree wearing a bra when I was younger much more challenging. Take the opportunity to wear pantyhose or tights under your pants when It's cold outside.

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Great idea!

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Duchess
(@juliarey)
Honorable Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

When I leave the house I underdress all the time; bra, panties and knee highs.  Usually women's slacks or jeans and a woman's top if I can wear a jacket over it.  I don't spend much time in the drab stuff anymore.

J

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Congratulations on your courage and evolution!

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(@kellyann)
Joined: 1 year ago

Estimable Member     Santa Rosa, California, United States of America
Posts: 97

Amen sister ❤️

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Lady
(@ria)
Reputable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Joined: 4 years ago

I have been underdressing for decades. I have often gone to work in panties, bralette, nylons and garter belt.

i much prefer en femme but underdressing allows me to go anywhere anytime.

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Lace bra is wonderful!

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Lady
(@ria)
Joined: 4 years ago

Reputable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Posts: 265

@marieclaire2 oh yes especially with forms

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Underdressing is life!

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(@samanthaxxxx)
Honorable Member     London, London, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 months ago

I have to work a uniform in my job but every now and again I wear panties underneath,  feels wonderful !! Lacier the better ! X

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

With a matching bra it's even better!

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(@samanthaxxxx)
Joined: 3 months ago

Honorable Member     London, London, United Kingdom
Posts: 255

@marieclaire2 Yes that's the next step !! I do wear one at home, and feel so comfortable,  I really have never felt so at ease with my feminity since I joined this wonderful forum , best wishes x

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Good idea! Good that you're happy. Thank you very much!

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Lady
(@annaredhead)
Reputable Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 months ago

I wear panties sometimes when in drab. I have painted toenails most of the time.

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Good idea!

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Duchess Annual
(@isabella22)
Estimable Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

Very informative article, I have tossed away my men’s underwear and only wear female lingerie. So much choice and trough trial and error, I have identified my favorite ones. As for the rest, I underdress frequently with bralette and female undershirts or t shirts frequently either at home or in public. Feels good and gives me the opportunity to enjoy some feminine times during the day.

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
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Congratulations!

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Baroness
(@ryanpaul)
Noble Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 7 years ago

I underdress 24/7and sleep femme every night with bra and forms on. Obviously this depends on the season. Summer is silk camis and panties, but I change the latter for french knickers at night.

Silk nighties in summer, heavy duty pj's in winter

Winter and cooler months, thermal cami and "normal" panties with either pantyhose or 40 denier tights over these on colder days

I also enjoy bralettes in the winter, (but sob sob) I cant wear them anymore due to "expansion". So I'm gunna get the back bands made larger and elastic across the back straps to hold them in place.

I've also just ordered a lovely long line 44AAA wire free bra from Little Women in the UK . I'll wear that during the colder winter days under all my winter drab. Mostly cos I can see where my little "male moobies" have been growing lately and may just fill a AAA cup nicely.(Old age does have some benefits...)

 

Caty.

 

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
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Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
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Congratulations!

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(@samanthaxxxx)
Honorable Member     London, London, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 months ago

Am really enjoying this topic and wearing my favourite panties is helping me have a good day despite the dreary weather!! Love to all x

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

I'm happy for you!
Thanks!!

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
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I'm glad you enjoyed it!
Thanks!!

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(@debbiedd)
Noble Member     los angeles, California, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I havve no male underwear just lots of panties and thongs and most with lace. i do wear bras too daily if not going somewhere where I will have to underdress like the gym. In cool weather have nylons (pantyhose or thigh hi under pants just for comfort and staying warm. all good tips Marie about being careful who you hug with a bra on under that skirt

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
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Congratulations!
Thanks!

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Lady
(@jamie001)
Estimable Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

It is important for me to wear feminine items that are externally visible to everyone so that they can see that I am a feminine male.

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Not everyone has reached this "nirvana" yet - neither have I!

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(@samanthaxxxx)
Joined: 3 months ago

Honorable Member     London, London, United Kingdom
Posts: 255

@jamie001 I'm still waiting to take a big step outside, but when I wear a bra under my shirt for work I've started to leave a strap exposed, it may not seem much but I couldn't have done this 6 weeks ago without the help and love of the wonderful ladies ok this forum

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(@bloomersandshorts9)
Trusted Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

Hi everyone

I wear panties or Japanese style bloomers underneath my guy clothes almost every day depending on the weather and season. I know many are “all or one” when it comes to crossdressing and I respect that.

I prefer to undress as I can dip into both my masculine and feminine sides as I don’t really consider myself a crossdresser

I wear Japanese style PE Bloomers in the fall and wintertime because of how they retain heat especially in the stomach area.

I wear panties especially in the spring and summer months when it’s warmer

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Lady
(@chanel)
Joined: 5 months ago

Reputable Member     New Jersey, United States of America
Posts: 135

@bloomersandshorts9 That’s wonderful Ichiro!! I am happy that you enjoy it.

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Good! Try on a bra too!

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(@bloomersandshorts9)
Joined: 5 months ago

Trusted Member     Wisconsin, United States of America
Posts: 45

@marieclaire2 

thank you and I have however bras aren’t for me. I’ve tried wearing bras with panties but they don’t work well for me(and yes I had the right size for me). Oddly enough bras make me feel fat (I’m a pretty fit person) and uncomfortable. I’m just a panties (and Japanese bloomers) type of person, but thank you for the suggestion….

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(@jamiec)
Trusted Member     Vienna, Vienna, Austria
Joined: 2 weeks ago

If you want to wear women‘s underwear, like panties, but are concerned with something peeking through or giving it away, you can always go with women‘s briefs or thongs from Calvin Kline (or similar). They share fabrics and design elements with the versions for men, and therefore not immediately distinguishable. They are not satin or typical lingerie, but I still feel the difference, feel the femme, feel the joy 🙂

Nevertheless, if possible I go all in with stockings and a belt 😍 

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Lady
(@marieclaire2)
Joined: 3 years ago

Noble Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 744

Good idea!

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