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I’m lucky enough to have some loving supportive family, some not so and some that I’ve never told because of how I feel they would react.
My wife and daughter are both fantastic and they treat me the same as Cassie or in drab.
My sister hasn’t seen me dressed since we were living together over a decade ago but didn’t bat an eyelid when I turned up there today in skirt and top.
One brother and his wife know after he rocked up to my place at one stage to grab something out of my closet which was full of dresses. His wife asked me about them so I told her. Don’t see them as often as I used to.
My older brother and parents I wouldn’t dare tell as they’re still, let’s say, Old Testament. But, in saying that, mothers can be nosey so she probably knew exactly what knickers I had in my drawers as a teenager and into my 20’s.
Too many boxes. I will just say only my wife and a dear cousin know. Both are fine with me in a dress.
Alas my father passed before I came out. I have no S.O. but my sisters children are now adult and support and accept me, colleagues, friends and neighbours too so am blessed in being among wonderful people.
No Parents, but family and friends know, and are fully supportive.
Cerys
It would have been so much easier if there had been a button marked "NO!!! Not in a million years!" I'd love to tell everyone if I could - but the potential losses (i.e. almost EVERYTHING) outway the possible gains (i.e. I could find some peace with my wife.) I've only ever told one - very lovely and missed - lady friend... and until the revolution it's not likely to change!!! Love you all: Holly XXX
Hi girls,
In my case, the only member of my family who knows that I am a CD is my sister and fortunately she supports me completely, with her I can have girl talks, like about clothes and makeup and thanks to the fact that we have similar body sizes from time to time We lend each other clothes and shoes haha. I haven't wanted to tell the rest of my family because I don't think their reaction will be very positive.
Greetings to all girls
The only one that knows is my wife and she is supportive. Both my parents are deceased but I don't think they would have understood. As to my sisters and kids, they wouldn't understand.
XOXO
Suzanne
So many choices, it was hard to to figure out. In my case just my wife really knows, and she does support within her limits. I do think my daughters suspect, but we have have a don’t ask don’t tell thing going on. I think that is best for all four of them, why rock the boat at this late stage.
Yeah I was thinking that but thought if I left anyone out I’d get “what about….”
probably could have simplified it to fit my circumstances and just had male or female family know and support.
next poll I think up I’ll make shorter for sure
Cassie
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Makes it a lot easier when you can’t do simple daily tasks without worrying about who will see you.
Cassie
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It’s good to have supportive family. I just need to find some friends now 😂
Cassie
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I get the wanting to tell everyone but don’t think it would end well. I often wonder if I’m going too far with my daily dressing when I’m home and wearing what are clearly women’s tshirts out and about.
Cassie
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That’s great. Always handy to have an extra wardrobe to raid. I’m bigger than my wife & sister so no luck for me. But my daughter likes oversized tshirts so my drawers get raided
Cassie
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Having a supportive wife makes a world of difference. Give her a hug from me.
Cassie
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My daughter was the same. We never talked about it but I’m sure she knew. Then she walked in on me in a bra, froze for a second then carried on like it was normal. Love that girl 💕
Cassie
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