Advances from unknown men!

@mocha From time to time people will say, "You must get hit on a lot." In fact, very rarely (and only then in a very middle school sort of way). Either I have Advanced RBF, or something about my demeanor says *Hazard: Avoid Contact!*

While in some ways it's flattering, I'm not into the fellas, so whatever condition I have, I'm not overly upset about it. 🙂

I have received my share of compliments from random women and men in my limited experiences being out. But I have never really been hit on truly by either, havent has a person so much as buy me a drink to be honest, I am almost always with cd friends when I’m out so it doesn’t surprise me that I’ve never been approached and that’s just fine by me. 

Sometimes by couples. These occasions are pleasant. They have all happened as a tourist.

Gisela

In my limited time out I have been approached twice. I suppose I was not surprised to find out I was as shy about the encounters as I was while attempting to undertake such encounters from the male side.

A few times in Palm Springs. Offers to buy me a drink.  It is quite the ego boost.

After telling my wife we did a Halloween party and she did my makeup. All the women were so curious asking what I was wearing under the costume and who did my makeup, how did I feel.

As for men, well we were at one of the support group meetings and the hotel had a bar. I had gone there with another gal and we were getting drinks. A man came up to me and began chatting me up. I'm sure he knew so I didn't try to hide it or my voice. We talked while the drinks were being made. He complimented me on how I looked which felt So Good. Then when the drinks came he actually paid for them. We talked a bit more then I told him I had to take the drinks back. He said "maybe see you later?" with a smile. 

It was weird but admittedly felt nice to be appreciated.

Limited sampling. I guess I officially had an inquiry from an older gentleman at an event I attended. We had a nice conversation after I let him know I was married and didn’t have interest in general. He asked about my interest in general and never specifically about him.

He gave me some interesting history of his experiences as a crossdresser when it was much more taboo. He was no longer dressing when I met him.

i’m as sexy as my avatar here on the left.  it happens every time. BUT! 2x for women’s compliments for ever guy! some guys are so pushy, that i think physical confrontation to get out. not a nice place to be.  once cornered a passerby gf-bf passed me on the sidewalk. the girl smirked at me in passing cuz she knew my plight of trying to ditch this overstepping aggressive dude.  it was then i decided to dress down more.  the smirk said to me “your pretty, and this is what you risk! good luck.  you have at least another minute or two before you get out of this.” i don’t like guys. i want nothing to do with them.  

i would never and have never been as pushy as these guys are. on one hand i wonder if i have been wrong all my life and on the other i can’t believe it. 

I get the occasional complement from people which feels good.  What really sets me off is positive eye contact which lasts long enough to be flirtatious.  Now that is amazing!

From men I did when I was in my 20's and 30's but now compliments come occasionally from other women . Maybe because I go out of my way to compliment and converse with them when out.