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I know this subject has been broached in the past. ---- 
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Before you had a significant other and where free to Crossdress at any time.
Did Girls ever notice your Girly clothes showing thru your boy clothes and teased you about it?
@janetbarr Girly clothes aren't my style, for now, so beyond a couple of, "Are you a man or a girl?" questions, no.
@janetbarr My ex-wife gave me a bra she was throwing out. One evening i put it on under my male clothes and it was obvious I was wearing it. My ex entered the room and busted a gut laughing at me.
It was a good time for her and another nail in the coffin of our marriage for me.
C💋
@janetbarr In High School I got teased a bit by 2 girls that knew I wore panties at times. One of them knew because growing up I used to stay at her place and have to wear her nightgowns.
@janetbarr Before I started wearing thongs (mostly when I dress en femme) a girl notice my visible lines...fortunately, she just assumed I preferred briefs over boxers. She definitely made the point to say "well I see you're a briefs guy".
When l was with my ex wife l secretly had panties l wore however she never knew and after we broke up l wore panties under my clothes. I stopped crossdressing when l first got with my current wife however now she will suggest and even buy things for me and she does my make-up and nails for me.
We even go shopping for make-up, jewellery and clothing for me and she told me she loves doing it as long as it makes me happy
Not quite, but my first wife caught me, wearing a bra underneath a shirt and an over shirt.
She was pretty pissed off lol. She hated it though. She caught me underdressing several times and expressed her displeasure lol.
Needless to say, it was a big reason why our marriage ended.
We have a lot in common my ex wife could not deal with me dressing as a woman. Life is so much better now with my current wife she accepts me as the person that I am. I love being able to express myself as a woman without fear she is so understanding.
@shelly-lynn Yeah, I got really lucky when I met my partner a year and a half ago. I told her maybe a week after we started talking and seeing each other. I’ve only saw a couple people since my last marriage ended in 2017, but I’ve made it a point to tell them right away. That way if it’s something they can’t deal with, no biggie.
She didn’t have a problem with it at all. As a matter, fact, she’s very engaged with it as long as there is a balance between that and The male side. I told her I had no plans to do anything other than what I’m doing and she’s fine with that.
I think the vast majority of guys who dress up don’t have this luxury. She’s the first woman I’ve ever met and been in a serious relationship with who was totally OK with it. I definitely lucked out. I’m glad you did too.❤️
You are so right we are very lucky. I told my current wife while we were dating because I was not going into another relationship hiding my true self. Life is pure hell when you can’t crossdress and it means so very much to me. I knew I would never put myself in that situation again life is much too short
@shelly-lynn Yea that’s a fact 💯
I would NEVER quit dressing again for a woman. EVER. Life is WAAAAY too short! ☺️
@shelly-lynn Yeah, I pretty much said the same thing to myself after my second marriage ended. I was done hiding it from anyone.
Life is definitely way too short to live like that. I feel for anyone in a situation where they know they can’t come out because the consequences would be devastating. That’s gotta be really tough.
You are so right we learned that lesson the hard way. I would not wish that life on anyone, life is far too short to live in hell lol.
I have been married nearly forty years, and didn't dress prior to her, but i have underdressing for most of our marriage, so I can't imagine somebody hasn't noticed in all those years, but nothing has ever been said.
None of the choices really applies, because I went from living at home to being married. I didn't wear anything feminine under my clothes in public before getting married. My mom still did the laundry (we lived in a large apartment building of about 450 families with a large shared laundry room) so there was no way to wash anything. And most of the time I shared a bedroom with my brothers, again no place to hang anything that might have been hand washed.
Oh my! I under dressed all the time. A girl who worked for me (she was 15 yrs younger) in my office did more than that. While sitting in a booth having lunch at a watering hole we all frequented she touched my thigh where the garter tab was. She leaned near to me and whispered "I Know". Tracing her finger over the tab with a smile I told her "it's not what you think". After work we returned to the bar and she was quite open telling me that she observed me several times thinking that I had a bra under my suit coat that the outline just showed. "You must show me, let's go out to the car". She again traced her finger over the strap and tab. That began a two year adventure with her asking me to wear something she could guess what I was wearing. Of course in her apartment things progressed nicely with the both of us completely committed to me being her girlfriend. long term things did not work out and she moved to another state. I sometimes was terrified that others would know what we were up to. All that while she was quite discrete about us.
Wow, Laurie, I love your story and agree with Caroline!
There was a girl in my office once who was much younger than I asked me if I was a "transvestite" in front of two other co-workers. I denied it and hopefully didn't turn too red-faced. That was twenty years ago and to this day I don't know why she had such a thought. Keeping it low-key, I always wore dress slacks (Dockers) a nice shirt and tie with a jacket. Sometimes I went a little more casual with an open-collar button-down shirt and sports jacket. I never under-dressed with a bra, but I loved wearing scandalous silk panties with lace trim under my dress slacks and they were always color coordinated. I've often thought about this and wondered how on earth she could have known.
@lisadouglas The girl in my office who discovered and worked for me told me that several of the younger girls often spoke to each other about who would make a cuter girl among all the men working there. They actually had a "top three" who they thought could be the prettiest. I really never made the list since at the time I was a bit older than them and also sported a mustache. As the two of us progressed my facial hair was one of the first things she wanted gone. I eagerly complied and so began the investigation into makeup for me.
The girl I was going steady with in 1967 and I were playing a game. I forgot the name, but you would hold a string with a weight on it and ask a question to each other and the string would swing from yes to no.
For some reason my girlfriend asked if I have ever worn Girdle--then she said "I don't want to know". Good thing she didn't because the weight would have gone Way to the YES!
My wife of 20+ yrs suggested i purchase a pair of high heels which i always wished i owned two and a half years ago.
From that day, she has supported me in every way.... From makeup and fashion advice to shopping and social outings.
She helped me to discover my inner peace, I'm most grateful to her for all the support......my rock!
In return, she deserves honesty and loyalty....for which, I'll give her in bucket loads. 🥰
During my college years in Japan, my girlfriend was understanding of my fondness for Japanese sports PE bloomers, even though she didn't fully grasp my reasons for wearing them, as she linked them to women's attire. She made an effort to be supportive when I wore them, but it became evident during our breakup that she had difficulty accepting this aspect of me. She was also aware of my experimentation with wearing women's panties, though I initially didn't share my enjoyment of it with her. Looking back, I wish I had been more open about my feelings, as I resumed wearing panties after we went our separate ways.
No! I would have been so embarassed! I dated a bisexual girl in college who was very open minded. I always planned put on lingerie before meeting up with her and let her find out but never worked up the courage. A shame because in hindsight she would have probably been into it too!
I did get teased. Because my story goes way back to when I was in 3rd grade. I discovered a pair of my sister's nylon panties with lace ruffle trim around the leg openings and just had to try them on. They were so delicious that I decided I would wear them to school one day. Unfortunately the girls sitting behind me in class saw the waistband peeking out of my pants - "are those girls underwear?" they blurted out. I quickly pulled down my sweater and denied it, but my face must have been red. When you are 9 yrs old you don't think through everything. Anyway, I was more discreet after that little adventure.
When I was a student we had an evening when the bar staff cross dressed. I can’t remember why. (Students, eh?)
One of my friends leant me a dress with masses of net petticoats to wear for the evening. It felt divine.
I had a couple of pairs of my own panties, and I wore a pair under the dress.
To my great surprise there were quite a few girls who were very intrigued by us bar staff dressing en femme. Later in the evening I found myself dancing with a girl. She was a couple of years older than me, and very beautiful.
When the dance finished she pushed me up against a wall and kissed me. Of course I didn’t resist. It felt so good being dominated like that.
She slipped her hand up my skirt and felt my knickers.
I remember her kissing me even more deeply as she fondled me through my knickers.
I was incredibly embarrassed but also turned on by the whole experience.
Whenever I saw her afterwards she’d smile at me, and discreetly ask me if I was wearing knickers.
@beckyw Awesome!
I was surprised maybe three times. One I was too young and naive to understand how to make the best of the situation. Another was some great good night kissing on her front porch. The last one would be harder to explain. Nobody every groped me, though. 🙂
Wow, Rebecca, I love a great confession. I'm blushing just reading your hot little comment.
Thank You!
Lisa
