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- When dressed does your feminine side take over, and do you feel like a girl, in and out?
I don't think so but by birth order, I was #2, after a son so my parents frequently said that I "should have been a girl". That might be an influence on my CD activity.
i enjoy dressing and looking for a playmate as i want to explore my fem side. i do not have any desire to become a female.
My Fem side is always there, both in work and play dressing does't make it happen. Dressing etc just relaxes the sole and makes me feel more comfortable about my self. Being in public as a male i'm in the background and quiet as Sharon I am positive.
Sharon
I don’t, although there's a definite femme part of me that is now pushing hard to come out.
Sabrina - wonder if it being summer and the desire for more sheer type clothes to keep cooler might be driving us to desire to explore more closely lately?
I love being feminine, as it brings out a nicer, much less trouble side of me. If I was 20 years younger I would definitely transform.
God does not make mistakes. So, I am what I was meant to be. If it were left up to me, and there was a button that I could push and be a girl, I would probably break that button from pushing so hard.
I chose yes and no. I can't honestly say I feel like I was meant to be a woman. I'm perfectly fine being a guy. I just enjoy the experience of being "female" on occasion.
Now, that said, I think I would be much the same if I was a woman, and there are aspects of the female persona - in general, not necessarily me - that I think are fun. So, had a been a woman, I'd be okay with that, just as much as I'm okay with being a guy.
If any of that makes sense.
The asterisk I want to be sure to include is that two years ago, I'd have never thought I'd deep dive into crossdressing in any way. So, is it possible my mindset could change in the future? Yes. Very. But, that's where I am right now.
I have no interest in changing at this stage of 67 years old. However I have always enjoyed the feminine more than the masculine. Women are just way more interesting.
I can't say for sure what it means to be a woman, because that is outside my experience to a degree. but I definitely feel like my life kinda led me to this point and that if I could be a woman, I think I would.
I have many attributes that might be deemed feminine. I am sensitive, nurturing, and loving. I would much rather dress in delicate clothing than the heavy boring clothing men wear. If Ibwere born a girl I am positive I would have been a girly girl. Ribbons, frills and lace for me. Would I change if Life wouldn’t be totally disrupted? I honestly can’t say. For now, I will enjoy the feminine experience, absorb all I can from the feminine roles I am able to adopt and be the best girl I can be. Huggs to All. Annie
No. I am happy being who I am.
I'm comfortable floating in the middle of the spectrum , however my parents were told that they were having a daughter , perhaps in the late 60's this was not uncommon , does give a pause for thought occasionally 😏
No. As a teenager, I used to ask myself that question, because I was so out-of-place with other guys. Eventually, I discovered it had nothing to do with gender; I just had a different perspective of the world, and a different way of thinking than did most others. In hindsight, this has made me more open to accepting folks who were "different", since I was one of them. Also in hindsight, I believe this is connected to Asperger's.
No, I don't think I was meant to be a girl...but I DO have a strong "feminine side", which takes control whenever I dress, or even dwell on the thought of dressing.