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I have often wondered how accurate the percentage quotes about our lifestyles are. How many times have you read that the majority of crossdressers are heterosexual? What's the real story? Moi? hetero....
I answered no, I'm not out and out gay I'm bi i know i shouldn't have but I've had a few hook ups with some men, I'm a married man and I've been unfaithful with my wife but only with men never with another woman, i know it's no excuse but the last one was about 4 years ago, I'm not asking for forgiveness because I know it was wrong and I have no desire to repeat my previous actions x
As long as I discover my inner female soul, I realise I may be bisexual.
I haven’t had any date with men (and the last one with women was in 2015).
I still find women more attractive when I walk on the streets, however there’s something I can’t explain that pushes me towards a date with a man. I know it’s gonna be a huge leap into an unknown world, but someday I should try.
I've said this before, I consider myself a lesbian when I'm with my wife because I am a woman and love getting male attention when I'm the real me. I started experimenting sexually when I was 14, I figured I dressed as a girl I must be gay and I loved every minute of it, still do.
i voted yes for i am only interested in women even when dressed up i have no desire for men but some time i would like to be with a man dressed up as a female. that is a tricky question also.
I have never been attracted to men; I am attracted to women, and want to emulate them, but its' not a sexual thing (that fire has burned out). So, speaking in the past tense, my answer is yes.
I agree Lucinda. I have never had gay leanings but I think dating a guy as Janice would be thrilling.
I answered no, because during the past 5 to 10 years, I have begun to experience strong sexual urges for MTF transgender and CDs, genetic girls, and some straight men who are not Alfa, in that order. Clearly, I feel my sexual orientation is changing with time. But I have not acted on these longings outside my SO.
Hugs and Love,
Ellie Hope
No ma’am, but I’m pansexual. I’m not necessarily attracted to a body, but the mind behind it. Yes, appearance does play a small role, but is not a true deciding factor.
Hugs, Ruby
I do like a nicely presented man.
I voted heterosexual.
I have spent many long hours questioning my sexuality, but it was not until I accepted myself as a CD and came out to my wife that I realized that I was simply a heterosexual crossdresser. I say simply... It's not exactly simple🙃
I answered no simply because I have always been attracted to men. But it is more complicated, to me at least, than a simple yes/no answer. When I first began dating men, I considered myself as gay, but as I matured and lived and identified more and more as femme, I didn't think that gay quite applied to me. I began to see myself as female and still attracted to men. If I was able to transition and go through SRS, I would still be attracted to men, but being fully and legally female then, I would slip into the heterosexual folder, and how others labeled me would not have anything really to do with 'gay', I would think.
I am me and that's all. I have several very good friends who are gay, and I have been cussed and put down by other gay men for being femme, so even the gay slice of society does not know where to put me, and many girls like me that I have met and corresponded with, so we just accept ourselves as we are, and labels be darned.
Okay, my soapbox is put away.
PaulaF
I somewhat agree with Ellie. I answered no, because of my desires for MTF transgender and CDs, genetic girls, and guys who lean toward femme. I’m bi as a man.
I chose “Yes.” At the time I voted (9:40pm CST), my vote seems to have split the poll evenly at 31 to 31. That surprised me, for I was almost certain that I would see the results tilting more toward heterosexual. However, I respect the orientation of each and every one of my CDH sisters.
I agree 100% with Bettylou and with everything she said. I enjoy the company of women much more than men, although no one would mistake me for a “manly” sort of a man. My “fire” has long since burned itself out and is now mere embers.
I have never been “attracted” to men in that way, however, since joining CDH I have had an abiding curiosity for how it might be to spend time with a small group of CDs (preferably from CDH, since I feel I “know” many of you), all of us dressed as fully femme as we are able.
I voted no as I have been Pansexual all my life and my first experience was with a guy in a tree fort as a kid. True
But I too am surprised at the outcome of this vote as I always thought most CD's where heterosexual.