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Are you a crossdresser or underdresser?
Crossdresser: Loves to dress completely as a woman
Underdresser: Loves wearing feminine lingerie.
Which spectrum are you closest to?
CROSSDRESSER. I DONT STAY HOME. NEVER DID. why buy clothes and not show them off. i love going out. i love meeting new people. i play pool every weekend. another girl came up to me and introduced herself. i gave her a hug.
Marie, I consider myself a cross dresser, the opportunities to do so are limited for me but I'm always under dressed.
Sherri
I underdress every day. Bralettes and panties. No forms. I'm still in the closet but I've pried the door open to get a toe out. My morning joy is picking my panties for the day.
With roll models like Rachel I'm encouraged.
Hi Marie,
I added a poll to your topic 🙂
For the record (and I suspect quite commonly so) I began as an underdresser, but now would consider myself a crossdresser. I rarely go out in anything feminine unless I'm all dolled up.
When I started dressing, and when I couldn't really go out en femme, I underdressed a lot more. Nowadays, I hardly do. Sometimes I will if I am planning on some Natalie time but I have to do something in boy mode prior to that.
But otherwise, my viewpoint is that I am either in boy or girl mode and I don't really like crossing that line anymore. Since I know I can dress fully as Natalie, I want it to be all or nothing.
Foe me, I absolutely love wearing lingerie. I don't do it full time, and I don't wear it under my male clothes, but when I do put on my lingerie, I have found that getting fully dressed really adds something to the experience. I feel like I fall somewhere in the middle, if I had to choose, I would say that I am a crossdresser who does it to enhance the underdressing experience.
All of the above needs to be a choice. Yes, I love to fully dress, and yes I love to underdress, and I also love everything inbetween.
Myself definitely love to go full out dressed to the heels as a women
I have to dress completely as a woman. Underdress doesn't thrill me.
Gisela
I'm with Gisela. Under-dressing, for me, is a futile exercise as I like to be seen out as a woman. I do wear women's underwear and socks when in drab because it's more comfortable and because I don't want two lots of socks and knickers. In drab or otherwise, I always wear earrings, finger rings, bracelet and necklaces and most of the time, I have my nails painted. I expect a lot of people think I'm gay if they go by my drab appearance; I'm not, but hey, if it makes them feel better...
Becca
I’ve only fully dressed on four occasions, each time a professional makeover. While I absolutely adored doing these makeovers, I have been an underdresser for the most part, typically wearing a bra, and occasionally other lingerie around the house with my wife’s complete acceptance.
My category would be trans woman dressing as a woman 24/7.
Depends on the time of day. I sleep femme every night, bra, forms and nightwear according to the seasons. Right now in an Australian summer, its pure silk camis, french knickers, full length nightie or pj's.
Winter, panties thermal cami and fleecy pj's. Daytime, I underdress every day usually adding 40 denier tights or if warm, enough panty hose.
Used to have regular overnight stays and get my "Caty on" properly, but a couple of pesky health problems stopped that last year. Hoping to resume this year.
So I guess, I'd be a bit 50/50 depending on the season
Caty
I am a crossdresser who dresses fully and almost full-time (circumstances permitting!) when at home and usually underdress when in drab. Most of the time when I'm in drab, my clothes are mostly feminine, apart from the shoes - tights, lingerie, girls' jeans, tops and sweaters.
I like to underdress because I enjoy wearing the clothes and it makes me feel good.