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The other day I was on internet looking for ways to made the illusion of wide hips and I find basically two ways: use hip pads or choose clothes wisely to create the curves. For example my body shape is inverted triangle so I can wear an A-cut skirt to made visually my hips wider.
So what method do you prefer? I would love to hear your answers.
Kisses,
Annette
Hi Annette, I use a padded panty that gives me wider hips, and enhances my bum all at the same time. I have tried hip pads on their own, but they move around a bit. Actually I have 2 versions of these, one that is longer in the leg, and has a tummy cincher as well, and one the is shorter in the leg, and no tummy control, and depending on what I'm planning to wear.
So, with some extra waist control, it gives me an acceptable femme figure.
However, I feel the same way about my hips, as a lot do about their breasts, meaning that I wish they were bigger. I have sometimes put the separate pads in with the padding in my panty, which gives me the wider hips I want, but I think that they get too lumpy, depending on what I'm wearing.
Amy
I do owna padded him and "rear" padded girdle but have not worn it in years. When combined with all my other "down there" garments, gaff panties etc etc, it just gets in the way.
So whenever I venture out, I wear a jacket or cardi long enough to go over my "non padded" hips.
If you get everything else right, outfit/hair, make up, shoes/handbag, unless you really want to be a "curvaceous" figure, just dont bother with the padding
Happy dressing
Caty
Works well for me and may do so for others.
I wear hip pads if the shape of a skirt requires it - some don't stay up otherwise.
The rest of the time I don't wear them. Either what I'm wearing gives me the right silhouette, or I simply don't stress about it.
I wear hip pads, I find I have to use skintac wipes to help keep them in place plus tights (pantyhose). I have never had a problem with them moving around. But in hot weather they can make you sweat. They do give me a good profile, I think. I have tried padded panties, they are ok but don't seem to have the same smooth shape silicon pads do, but you can get around that by wearing control briefs over the top, they are also much cheaper to buy and don't make you sweat so much. If i were you I would try padded panties first as the less expensive option and see how you get on, Good luck!
I'll wear hip pads if the outfit calls for them, especially with slim-fitting pants. But I do try to look for skirts/dresses to wear that have enough of an A-line not to need them. Much more comfortable that way.
I always wear hip and butt padding even though I have a defined waist. I'm one of those people with almost no ass as my wife would say. Clothes choices also help but I feel padding is essential!
Sandy
Hip pads, butt pads and waist-cinching corset - all three most the time. But I'm in the closet and only dress for single-day photo shoots, with time to catch my breath in between outfit changes.
Could never wear all that battle armor for an extended period. But I feel that I do need it all for maximum effect. Hey, a girl my age needs all the help she can get 😉
Hi Amy,
Thank you for your answer, I use too butt pads (with o without control panty) but I feel sometimes too constricted and sadly I can not wear my beautiful lacy bikinis, thongs o cheekies, so when I wear a dress I don't use any pads at all.
Kisses,
Annette
Thank you Caty, I completely agree with you, in fact I'm became a kind of "inverted triangle shape fashion expert" ha ha, it feel way more natural this way.
Kisses,
Annette
Rachel thanks for your comments, I agree with you in the sense I like a more natural feel, use clothes to enhance a woman body shape but sometimes when I wear a skinny jeans o tight dress I use butt pads.
Kisses,
Annette
Thank you Andrea, I think I would tried some padded panties to see how I look, also I was looking for silicone hip pads but they are way too expensive for just try.
Kisses,
Annette
Stephanie
Thanks for your words, I know exactly what you mean. I also have shapers and bodysuits but in sort of a help to look better that have a woman shape, as same as your I like too the way of women clothes feels so I try to maintain this feeling a long as possible.
Kisses,
Annette
Thank you Ashley, I completely agree with you, I love the feeling of women clothes so I try to keep a more natural way.
Kisses,
Annette
Thank you Roxanne.
Kisses,
Annette