Does your SO approve or disapprove or just put up with your CD style

Somewhere between approve and put up with. Approve because she recognizes how important it is to me.  Put up with because she doesn’t want to be a lesbian and why do we need to add another woman to the relationship.  We have gone out together with other couples and she always likes talking to other cds.

I'm all over the place.  When she first found out, she was definitely disapproving, even to the point of blackmailing me with exposure if she was losing a fight on a different subject.  With a breakdown in the marriage, I went out for a makeover and trip to a diner without her knowledge.  About a half a year later, I went out to a party run by the woman who did the makeover.  When she saw the photo of me smiling, I think she relented.  I'm not sure if it was accepting or approval, it seemed to vary.

Now I'm divorced (unrelated to my dressing) and so there is no SO in my life.

Absolutely DISAPPROVES! When I first told her that I am a cross dresser, she told me that I was a deviant. If she had known this before we got married, she wouldn’t have married me. I only found my happiness in cross dressing about 4 years ago.

I have to wear my heels at night after she’s gone to bed. When she’s seen me in heels, “you know I’m very uncomfortable with those”, as she points to my shoes.

So far those that ok with it is that just in the house or allowed to venture outside and go to public places

depends on the day, My wife is a bit like the weather her in Melbourne some days she Hot then other days she is icey

My wife  knows and does allow me to dress at times, but she has a lot of rules. The big one is I cannot leave the house. Of course, I have cheated on this one a few times but nothing where I interacted with others. My wife has gone shopping with me ( in drab) and has bought me many items over the years. I know she doesn’t like it but has told me she realizes it is part of who I am. Still I know she wishes it could some how just go away, we all know that isn’t possible.

And of course Lexie said, “they are a little pinchy in the toes, but otherwise pretty comfortable”.

Clara, stirring the pot🙄

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Actually, my newest shoes are very comfortable all the way around!

Whole heartedly approves and encourages.
Hugs, Regi👸💕

Mine encourages me to go out,, Donna, and would be quite happy to accompany me when we are able
Hugs, Regi👸💕

sounds like have a great thing going on Regi

hugs

Donna

I truly do, Donna, and I realize every day, just how lucky I am
Hugs, Regi👸💕

Truly are Lucky when I was married told her and she gave me 2 options keep lifestyle or divorce so been free to do what wanting to do. Plus felt more fem why going through a transition now.

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Donna

Honestly I don't know if she would be okay with me dressing in the house in the evenings. She already said she is concerned about where it would lead. Right now she doesn't say anything about my sleeping attire but that is not in front of the kids. They already know and said they would be okay with it.