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Maybe I’m a closeted voyeur or I just want to see the persons reaction to me but I think it would be fun to order a pizza or something as my femme self. I think it would be fascinating to see the reaction. My goal wouldn’t be to shock them so I would dress as passable as I can and act as normal as possible. Have any of you dressed for this specific purpose? I’d love to hear your stories about how it went, the good and the bad. Thanks in advance.
No … I’ve never done that — never even thought about it. But what a fun idea!
I ordered a pair of dresstech hip pads, and upon checking the tracking it didn't say anything about "out for delivery", so I decided to transform into Wendy. Well low and behold, the doorbell rings, the mail truck is parked in front of our house, and the mail man isn't going to just leave it on the porch and take off.
I did open the door but then my wife steps in and says "I'll accept the package". So I wound up hiding behind the front door.
One time I did get dressed up for a food delivery. My wife usually accepts these especially when I am Wendy. But this time she was busy doing something. The doorbell rings, food was placed on the front porch. Most times they just leave the food there and take off. This time the guy heads to the end of our walkway, and waits for someone to pick up the food. So I open the door, take the food in, and wave to him. He waves back, turns around and leaves. His reaction : nothing. Wasn't shocked or anything.
This next event happened very recently. We had to get new passports and on the form we indicated that they be mailed to us. I didn't transform into Wendy but over the weekend when I did, I painted my nails bright red.
I checked the status of the passports on friday and it said it was mailed out, with a tracking number. I thought it would take 3 - 5 days to get here. The morning of delivery I got really busy with work so I never had a chance to check delivery progress. So around 10 am, the doorbell rings. It is the mailman so I bolted upstairs because he needs a signature for the passports.
Only afterwards did I realize I signed for it with my painted nails. And get this, he only scanned one of the envelopes (there were 2). So close to 2 pm, he rings again and says he thought he scanned both but didn't. So I grab the other one, he scans it, and I sign for it, again with my bright red painted nails.
I know he saw it because he was standing right in front of me and was watching me sign for it, both times.
His reaction : nothing. didn't even bat an eye. We even joked around abit the 2nd time when I mentioned the next time i see him I hope he is delivering a big cheque from the lottery.
I think it’s more a thing for individuals who haven’t explored the outside world as a lady but could be a fun way to see how a person reacts, from the security of your home.
Dear CAMAHTA - but what about delivery of new lingerie or a nice new dress or skirt or heels? 😀
I do not specifically dress in feminine attire to be to be specifically seen by anyone. However, I also not generally select my outfit daily based upon who might see me. That being said, while wearing my black and white gingham sundress (a favorite of mine), I answered the door to a court officer who was delivering me a subpoena. He was clearly more shocked that I was expecting the subpoena than that I was wearing sundress. We had a brief, but professional conversation on my front porch before we both continued with our business of the day.
MacKenzie Alexandra
The problem is that they either dump the package on your door step and take off (sometimes you don't have to sign), or if you do open the door they're so busy thinking about their next delivery I could be wearing nothing but lingerie and they wouldn't notice (probably not a bad thing).
Katie xx
My delivery people never come in the house. I am talking here of the likes of the Postie, UPS, FEDEX etc. who just dump packages on the porch and leave.
Those that do come in my house, like the pest controller for his normal service, see me dressed but in stealth mode so it's not a big deal for either of us.
I’m glad you have had good experiences Michaela. Did the first time go smoothly? I should have been more clear about this I’m referring to delivery people like a pizza or Chinese food.
The first person besides my wife that saw me en femme was an hvac repairmen. I was dressed in my Sunday best when he rang the doorbell. I had mixed up his arrival time. A few awkward moments then we went about our business as normal. So I decided from then on anyone who rang my doorbell got me as is. Next step was to greet delivery workers en femme, then church recruiters, and eventually a neighbor. Likewise after 'awkward' we went about our business as normal. These experiences gave me the courage to go out in public. My experience has been that most people don't notice, and those who do don't care.
I've never greeted a delivery person that way, however, if I wasnt married and lived alone, I surely would try it. I dont mind doing it in front of total strangers, but as much as I love embarrassment, I dont know if I want people I know, or relatives to see me like that. For instance, I have gone into stores a good distance away from where I live and I've worn lipstick and eye shadow and a bra you see could see under my shirt. So it was obvious I was a man, but to the people who saw me, I dont know what they said to each other after I left, but while I was there, I felt as comfortable and normal as I could be. Kudos to people who work in stores.
I often open the door to the delivery person whilst dressed. They never comment.... Well, I say never...
One guy came to the door a year or so ago. I was in Rock chick mode, so blqck denim mini skirt, black band T-shirt, white pumps, necklace, earrings, watch and bracelet. Hair down, tits in.
The man took one look at me and said "Man, you is rocking that look!". I thanked him and he said "It's not for me, but rock on dude!"
I was smiling for days afterwards 🙂
Cerys
I have had fun with Church recruiters while wearing feminine attire. I love enaging them in conversation, debating scriptures, especially when the church to which they belong is clearly unapproving. A neighbor once comment how he had a chuckle watching two ladies chatting with me for nearly 10 minutes who were clearly uncomfortable and looking for any excuse to leave my property.
MacKenzie Alexandra
Good for you! And him, he seemed to enjoy seeing you. Cool story, Ty
I picked the last one as I’ve never dressed just for a delivery but have been dressed when I’ve ordered food and went to door to except it while dressed femme.