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(@carolyn)
Prominent Member     Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Everyone needs to have friends to talk to and share your life experiences, that is particularly true for us. We need to know are friends are understand and not judgmental when we are talking to them. Do you have a friend (or friends) who are either a CD or a TG you can confide in and talk openly about what is on your mind?

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(@kmsmst)
Honorable Member     South of Omaha, Nebraska, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

No. That's why I am here.

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(@raleighwoodtgirl)
Eminent Member     raleigh, North Carolina, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

I have some very close friends in the TS community that unfortunately live across the state or a couple of states away, but when we see each other it is as if hardly any time passed since the last time.

Locally, I have some TS friends as well, but nothing approaching the level of connection as some of the others.

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(@queenofdiamonds1960)
Estimable Member     Seattle, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

I had one briefly, local, we met once then not immediately, but shortly after, she stopped returning my e-mails.

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(@carolyn)
Prominent Member     Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Honey, it is the reason we are all here!!!

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(@Anonymous)
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I have a TG  ( MtF ) aquaintence that hopefully moves into a  friendship , if not aquaintence is perfectly fine , Tiff

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(@skippy1965)
Famed Member     Richmond, Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

I've met several dozen site members at conferences and had some stay at my house when in town. Also blessed to have Cloe living just 40 minutes away so I see her fairly often.
Cyn

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(@qtestephy)
Noble Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

When I was much younger I had a best friend and a few acquaintances. I know you are right. We all need a friend, someone who you can share your fears and and concearns. CDH is a great starting place. We all have so much in common with our basic needs to be accepted as people who have fallen between the crack of female and male. Some of us just want to show our selves only at home or in a safe place. Some of us are brave enough to go out just for walks in day or night just briefly to breath the air and get to feel what it like be the a woman just out for a walk. We all need friends to join us in that walk. Luv Stephanie ❤️

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(@carolyn)
Prominent Member     Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Stephanie, I love those walks. Sometimes I take a drive while dressed, it is nice to be out of the house. Like you said, breathing the air as a woman, it is liberating.

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(@alysson)
Active Member     kansas city , Missouri, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

MY WIFE SUPPORTS ME UP TO A POINT ,I REALLY WISH I HAD A GF TO TALK TO ,MY WIFE IS VERY BUTCH AND I AM THE PRETTY ONE ,IN A SMALL TOWN OF 10K IT GETS LONELY , NOT VERY MANY SISSYS AROUND MORE LIKE OLD REDNECK FARMERS WHO DONT WEAR HEALS OR HOSE YUK , CONSIDERING RELOCATING SOON ,A FRIEND WOULD BE NICE

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(@ryanpaul)
Famed Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 7 years ago

My response is a real mixture, so lets segregate it as follows.

a/. In person CD friends. At least two, one of whom I met via this site not so long ago. We have regular coffees and a month or so back we went "public" for her first parkwalk/shopping trip.

Another  lives on the other side of OZ in Perth, but we met at "Transformal" (aka Sparkles Keystone etc)  up in Katoomba behind Sydney in 2017.

b/. A wonderful little  (8 or 9) closed e.mail group with members mostly fromthe  East and West sides of OZ, but with a couple of welcome "extras" from the UK and maybe one day the USA.

Some of (b) are in irregular phone contact as well.

So there you have "our little lot"..

Caty

 

 

 

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(@rochellem)
Estimable Member     Eastern WI, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Wow, Tiffany, I feel like we are on a parallel path. I also joined CDH in March and have enjoyed getting to know some CDs from my area in person for the first time in my life. Although we have not known each other long, I feel we have established a bond of sisterhood. The open and more emotional/heartfelt discussions I've had with my new CD sisters has also helped me do better emotionally connecting with my wife. CDH has played a big part in expanding my circle of friends in midlife.

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(@qtestephy)
Noble Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Caty I still find it facinating that I am in another hemoshere half way around the world and have similar very basic needs. The need just just to be recognized that we feel we are a woman and we like to be able to express that without ridicule. There are not many of us in the grand scheme of things. We should all keep close at the very least a monthly check in..Just to say hello I am still here . sounds like you are doing that and more All the best luv Stephanie

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(@qtestephy)
Noble Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

We can be very fickle at times. One of the  many things we have in common we can go into the denial mode and start hiding again.  Eventually we all get tired of hiding and we will need a friend or two when we do.  All the best Stephanie

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(@qtestephy)
Noble Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 6 years ago

Hi Tina sounds like you are doing it right. I have friend ships that I may only speak to every five years and it was just like no time has passed at all. Thats when you know you have a friend. All the best. Luv Stephanie

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