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Hi ladies!
For many of us, being a crossdresser is a solitary pleasure and we only get to express our femininity and live as a woman for a few hours at a time, and then it's back to hiding our things and moving back into our male lives. But for those of us who have come out, we often have the opportunity to dress and live as women for longer periods of time -- days, weeks, and for some of our really lucky sisters, they're even able to live permanently as a woman. Now I realize that this may not be for everyone, and it may not be everyone's goal, but for those of us who have that desire and need, it is truly amazing!
I'm very fortunate and have had that opportunity several times, so I've been able to dress and live completely as a woman for days at a time. I can tell you that there is nothing quite as exhilarating as knowing that when you get up, you'll be dressing and living life fully and completely as a woman! Knowing that I'd be able to go out in public, run errands, go shopping, do housework, and do all the things I'd normally do, but do them as a woman has been just an absolutely wonderful, amazing experience! I'm so thankful I've had those opportunities to be seen, treated and accepted as a woman while I've just been living my life, because it really is an incrediblly overwhelming thrill in so many different ways!
So of course, that got me to wondering...
Have you ever had the opportunity to dress and live as a woman for more than a few hours at a time?
Hugs,
Holly
On average 23 h0urs a day, bar Tuesdays and family holidays. Sometimes all day. I like the idea of being full time and this is the closest I can get
When the family goes away to visit out of state friends and family I stay home to care for the pets. Usually anywhere from 3 to 8 days. I spend pretty much the whole time en femme. The wife knows but asks that if I go out not to go during the day because even though I don't care she would rather not have the neighbors see me. I agreed and everyone is happy that way.
All day, everyday for years and just starting to think that I might have figured it out. Thank you Holly for this interesting poll. Marg
I'm still working from home so technically i could very easily transform into wendy and show up to work fully dressed.
Alas, I keep the transformation to the weekends, and if I take a day off, I'll try to get changed first thing in the morning.
The best I can do is almost a full day, which to me is absolutely fantastic. Given the chance I would go 24/7 and see what it is like to live as a woman.
Hi Holly, thanks for another wonderful post. I have been fortunate enough to be able to be Trish for extended periods and as you say it is heavenly. To be able to dress and go out doing normal girl things with no rush to get dressed nor any rush to go back to guy mode is the most exciting and liberating feeling I've ever had. I told one of my girl friends that it's very easy to get used to and each time your addressed with the right pronoun or have a guy hold the door for you it's almost addicting.
Hi Holly and hi Ladies
I lived totally feminine when I went to Cyprus in 2016.
As soon as I arrived at the airport, after taking my suitcases, I entered the women's bathroom together with my best friend gg Greta and finally I came out in women's clothing..... an unforgettable holiday!
24 hours a day for 15 days living for women in hotels, beaches, restaurants, discos and pubs; in those days i introduced myself to other people as tgirl.
The only days of my life when I felt like I was myself.
XOXOX from Italy 🇮🇹
Greta ❤️
Holly, After becoming single again several years back, I took the opportunity to be Genivieve very seriously. First, I spent the entire day en femme, then decided to spend several days as Genivieve. I loved not fussing about little things like removing nail polish, or worrying that my lips might be stained from the lipstick I had been wearing. Over the next few months I increased the time I was en femme from a few days to a week on the way to my longest time as a woman 24/7 at just over a month. I shopped just like any woman would, for groceries, clothing ,lingerie, shoes, had my nails done at a salon, had a wonderful makeover at a Sephora studio, went to clubs, had lunch with a friend, and dated a very nice guy! It is to be sure a lot of work being a girl, but for me worth every bit of the effort.
Genivieve💋
Hi,
I have had accasions where I have dressed every day for a week or so but only one time overnight. I found it quite sweaty and uncomfortable.
Every new day I feel fresh with a new look and a new adventure.
Hi Holly the most I've been Roz was about 4 or 5 days at a time, mainly when my wife has been away on vacation, sometimes she needs to get away on her own for a vacation and she usually goes for 7 days so i get to let Roz out of the closet while she is away, but for the last 2 years because of the lock downs we had Roz has had to stay in the closet, I'm hoping that next year i can start to come out of the closet again, when she was away and i had to work i underdressed at work then when i got home i had a bath and then Roz was here for the rest of the night, I even wore a nightie for bed X
Hugs Rozalyn X 🎀
I live on my own in the country with no nearby neighbors and a long driveway so I can pretty much dress female from the time I get up unless I have to go out and do errands then I cover up with manly clothes.
Only been here a month so still building an inventory slowly because dealing with sizes is an issue and few things have gone to the thrift store drop box.
I have found that since finding this site and giving Sara her freedom I now feel awkward wearing man clothes.
Sara
Yes I've lived as a female for days at a time and the longest was about ten days. I dress casual to blend in and have had no problems at all. Its always so sad when I have to go back drab so I under dress every day.
I have had many opportunities to dress en femme for up to 9 days at a time. Recently I took a cruise with other CDs, spouses, and SOs. I did not pack any drab clothing and flew for the first time en femme. I loved every minute. There were no unpleasant moments created by the way I dressed, although I had to endure many difficult traumas, such as chasing to airport and back a few times to retrieve lost luggage (envisioning I might have to survive a week with no makeup or dresses- can you imagine how painful that would be for any woman?) and returning to find my car had been towed, requiring me to hire uber drivers to chase all over town to tow yards and deal with issues much better faced when not dressed en femme. There are some things a lady with any refinement should not do. Haggling with unsavory men with crowbars and wrecking equipment, demanding cash in junk yards after midnight, is certainly one of them! Fortunately I was able to satisfy their needs while retaining my dignity. I dare not say more.
Eve has taken me out of town for a vacation and packed only girl things for me. It is really fun knowing that I have not back-up boy things in our suitcase. Even around home, she sometimes has me in girl things for days at a time, the longest was my Birthday Month two years ago. We did all our normal activities with me as a woman.
It really does something to your mental attitude to be a woman for several days, you can really get into their world.
I only wish that something like that could or would happen. I am no "Sissy" but I dream that I would and could be a woman. Sadly at 73 very unlikely but that is what dreams are made of and for.
Sara