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How do you cross dress?

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Lady
(@billy73)
Eminent Member     Albuquerque, New Mexico, United States of America
Joined: 1 month ago

I wear leggings and panties at home until family come home. Out in public I wear panties and sometimes ladies sweats or jeans. But usually it's men's sweats or jeans and panties. I've been wanting to try cami's or something more feminine instead of t-shirts.

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4158

@billy73 While the math is a bit odd, about half of us underdress, dress androgynously in public (or all of the time), or mix up some sort of en femme and androgynous.

I wish more members would vote. 🍿

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Fully dressed full time here. 

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 Ruby
Lady
(@razmataz)
Eminent Member     Blackburn, Lancashire, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 weeks ago

I like to dress up in Lace underwear and a leather corset dress and a long red wig but I can never get the makeup right. I'm very tall and love stockings on my shaved legs. Is there anywhere in the north west where I could maybe stay a day or two and feel lovely but without the family finding out please? 

Thanks in advance x

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Duchess Annual
(@emmat)
Joined: 10 months ago

Prominent Member     I don't do cities ;-), Powys, United Kingdom
Posts: 367

@razmataz 

Hi Ruby, and welcome. The answer to your question is that there possibly is.  No guarantees, but you'd need to do some internet trawling to find a cross dressing make over place and book in for a long session - who knows, they might do a bed and breakfast option too.

 

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Managing Ambassador
(@ellyd22)
Joined: 2 years ago

Majestic Member     Norfolk, United Kingdom
Posts: 5409

@emmat @razmataz 

Hi Ruby

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If you zoom in on your area you'll see there's a makeover service ('Reinvent Yourself') quite close to you:

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We're adding stuff to the map all the time, but you'll already see that there are a fair few safe and accepting places listed in central Manchester, an easy stroll from that hotel, if you were feeling brave enough to venture out.

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(@caroline2k)
Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

At home, I usually dress fully, although sometimes I don't wear a wig (I still have my own hair which is past my shoulders although it is now getting very thin and grey) and sometimes wear a minimum of makeup. My outfit will vary from full-on, sheer nylons and glam femininity to more casual, opaque tights and perhaps even leggings, but I will always be wearing my boobs, jewellery and perhaps a spritz of Angel perfume.

Outside I will at the very least be underdressed in lingerie and sheer tights, and usually in very skinny ladies' jeans, blouse or girly top and sweater, and of course, I'm always very well-tucked. 🤭

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I don't go out dressed per an agreement with my wife. With that being said I do underdress in panties everyday at home and on occasion short trips to the store. I have also gone out wearing knee high nylons and ankle boots. My wife is okay with that as the nylons are pretty well hidden and the ankle boots look like cowboy boots. I've also worn tights and pantyhose under my drab jeans.  My ears are pierced and I wear earrings 24/7, sometimes I wear dangling ones out of the house but nothing flashy. When at home I dress in the morning while my wife is still sleeping but don't wear a wig or make up. There are times my wife will invite Suzanne to spend the day and on those days I dress completely with wig and make up. My make up skills aren't very good from lack of practice so my wife will help me apply it. With that being said I do wear lipstick everyday, sometimes when I go out (I use Maybelline 920 - nude lust - as it is pretty neutral). Over the years my wife has gotten more accepting of my dressing and agreed to me doing more, time will tell how much more she will agree to. I am happy with what I am able to do.

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@rebeccabaxter)
    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

For the most part I dress full-woman as there is little point for me otherwise. If I am doing male things, I will wear perfume and jewellery but that doesn't really fit in with any of the poll answers as it's not really cross-dressing, just decoration.

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(@finallyfiona)
    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

I'm living full-time as Fiona.  That said, while I routinely only wear items from my feminine wardrobe, it may be some way into the day before I've got my make-up and hair on.  Especially after staying over at my partner's house, as there's no time before I have to set off on the commute back to my place for work.  But that's just in the car, and there's no-one really to see me getting in or out of it at either end of the journey.  The only time I ever leave my own house without being in full femme is when I'm going for laser on my beard at my local beauty salon.  That normally ends up being androgynous, jeans/jumper/t-shirt etc. but no hair or makeup, due to being unshaven (a requirement).  Still with my little earrings in and my nails done, though 🙂  

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Lady
(@margprodue)
Noble Member     Madison, Wisconsin, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

I'm full time.  Sometimes I'm beautiful and sometimes I'm ugly but most times I'm just adequate and in-between.  Marg

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(@judevderl)
Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 months ago

When the opportunities arise, I dress completely as a woman at home or when outside. There are some slight variations between the two in as much that I don't always bother with make up when at home plus my style of dressing is slightly different when I go out. Still feminine but slightly more conservative e.g. slightly shorter hair, no tight pencil skirts or high heels, though definitely not androgynous.

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Lady
(@kendra2024)
Estimable Member     Chicago, Illinois, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

I keep the "two of me" totally separate. Only variation is I have been blessed with facial features that don't absolutely require full makeup to go out and about. I just do lipstick and wig for fitness class; those plus eyes for casual, like fitness girls brunch, and everything for bigger "events".(concerts, CD/TG organization gatherings, outings with individuals...) I also don't do dresses. (body type 😕) Mostly jeans, leggings, some pencil skirts... Don't want to be a "bird of paradise"; just look like and experience being another bird 😉  

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Lady
(@sandymae)
Reputable Member     Tacoma, Washington, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

I am in the 100% group and always go out.

In a way it has been like an addiction with each new step the minimum. I would also say it seemed more a fetish at that time but once stepping out a huge door of opportunity and freedom burst! Never looked back and now I enjoy living part of my life as a female...

 

Sandy

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Duchess
(@irishgal)
Eminent Member     Springfield, Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 1 month ago

Wear panties and leggings or pantyhose at home, wear those out and about as well. Light lipstick which doubles as a lip balm. 

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Baroness Annual
(@lauriejp3)
Eminent Member     Rio Vista, California, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

When I reunited with my now wife 20 years ago I came out to her right away. She was overly accepting without hesitation. Most all of my clothing and shoes went to the recycle stores. As we became more comfortable with me dressing completely with wigs, makeup, heels, at home I indicated to her I would like to try getting out. We did give it a go in Las Vegas, once with the RV where I dressed for a few days. She was terrified that something would happen. I evolved to dressing nearly every day in something feminine, always with breast forms, jewelry, yet not with a wig or makeup all the time. The time and hassle of doing the complete transformation became more of a chore not so much of an excitement for us both. As we grew past the 70 year mark together her interest and enjoyment in my being the feminine partner much of the time disappeared. All the news and "trans" issues in politics has affected her in a most negative way. I still, each day awake with my forms, my matching negligee and gown on for breakfast with magnetic diamond studs and maribou heels slippers. I am able to enjoy holding on to the fantasy of more complete femininity dressing several times a month without guilt. 

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(@adrianaflowers)
Eminent Member     Edmonton, Alberta, Canada
Joined: 1 month ago

I get fully dressed when I get a chance, but mostly underdress daily

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Lady
(@msabber)
New Member     taylorsville, Utah, United States of America
Joined: 12 months ago

when wife is not home i mainly wear panties and nightgowns. I would rather be in a gown than pajamas. i did wear a dress a few times out in public and to see my therapist. I just wore the dress and did not do makeup or a wig though. 

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