How often do you feel the need to express your feminate side

Hi Paula I believe we are two spirits. Displaying both as one time is what we all want. I always felt i would have to hide or leave one behind .Does that make us Shemales?

I think about it far more often than I actually have a chance to do it! When I do it, it takes a couple of hours to do it right with makeup, shaving, nails, setting up for pictures, deciding what to wear. etc, I also like to stay dressed as long as possible.

M.

Wanting to express my feminine side, comes and goes, back and forth like waves at sea. Meaning it's so fluid it's just part of who I am. I don't "need to express" it just happens naturally. These emotions are also balanced out by my drab self as well. I think they complement each other nicely. I guess to answer the question.... "Some time you feel like a nut, and some times you don't"

-Almond Joy-

All. The. Time.

Unfortunately, I am mostly unable to indulge that need due to my still completely closeted status. Always thinking, feeling and wishing I could freely express this increasingly stronger part of me but pretty sure it would completely shatter my otherwise satisfying life.

Everyone I know would probably freak out if they knew that I like to wear women’s clothes and want to more freely express my mostly suppressed feminine side. The only good thing about it is that I know, by being a member of CDH, that I am far from being alone...

Hoping someday, somehow... (sigh)

Tricia

I if nothing else under dress everyday so I don't know if that means my feminine sire needs attention all the time. My feminine side is an active part of me all the time, and so is my male side (my sides merged a few years back)so I don't really think that I am a fair person to ask in this poll.

Hugs,

CB

My Female side is constantly there, its a battle between male and female. By default, i am femme, but i have to concentrate on being male during the week, which is quite frankly, tiring!! weekends are a stress free zone for me because i can just relax and be my true self 🙂

Fee xxx

I did think i was nuts at one point in my life. I believe it was When i went on a buying spree make up .shoes out fit. I think i did buy a wig that time not sure any more their has been so many. The nuts part come when purging. All those pretty clothes. Such a waste . Denial again. Good thing is sometimes you donot feel like a nut. It just feels so right. Luv Stephanie

Hi Fiona I am right where you are. My weekends have become just for me. Me means the she me. During the weekends no matter who askes me to what they will see me in my cute fem jeans and tee or some cute top. I will be completely tucked and smoothed over. I love it . i love looking down and seeing no lump nothing I am in heaven. I look like any other woman. Maybe slowly I will extend my weekends to week days and night. Luv Stephanie

I think about it pretty much all the time, but I only really get the opportunity to transform at the weekends and on Tuesdays when I'm off from work. Sometimes I wear panties under my man gear when I'm at work, but I'm a bit self conscious about it. I have an underlying dread that if I had an accident while in the car or something untoward happened to me while at work and I needed hospital treatment, my gallant rescuers would be shocked or at least titillated to find their charge wearing tight girly panties under his drab combat trousers. I also get really frustrated if I don't get chance to dress on my days off as well. This past weekend my A/C broke down and it got really hot in my house, so I had to shed my entire outfit and  switch back to man mode before getting all crappy while trying to fix the problem. I was so annoyed. It usually takes me 3 hours plus to make myself pretty and by the time I had done my best to fix the damn A/C it was far too late to dress again. GRRRRR!!!

Yours frustratedly

Vicki Scott

XOXO

Hi Tiffany if that is the worst thing that could happen then i am going to learn how to breath underwater

Hi Vickie I now just keep my thong  on all the time. This a special thong that i use for tucking it is comfortable and works well. I put my hipsters on to smooth out that area. I wear my fem jeans all week end i have three pair .i do have. My favorite that is really cute. My go to pair. I was surprised that no one noticed. I did my normal boystuff visiting and hardware store just talking with neighbors no one noticed. I am walking the line I know. I think make up is crossing that line. So now i have toe nails are done in a pretty shell. Legs are shaved jeans are fem . panties My tucking panties Bikini line shaved. Under arms shaved. I wear cute tee tops. Facial hair smooth hair washed conditioned and fluffed. As i told you my wife told me she liked the new look She thought i looked handsome. Grrrrrr. Luv Stephanie

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Tricia,
I know exactly how you feel and I need to express my feminine side 24/7 however, like you, I cannot express my feminine side do to me being closeted and "manly" responsibilities.... I take advantage that I can express my feminine needs twice a week.
I too, am grateful to the ladies here at CDH who have offered support and encouragement. Leonara is looking forward to her being introduced to the "world" at a cd/tg venue next month...
Leonara

Early in this I was satisfied with any opportunities though they were extremely low keyed as fully dressing wasn't  never ever  thought of and likely ever reached  but as time passed and my dressing improved so did doing it fully. So once a week usually weekends I was happy with and looking forward to. I see now that being contented with  that seams to be conflicting with desires of dressing more so likely a few extra pretty up sessions should be starting soon..lol...

Stephanie 🌹

I think it means, since you have merged your feminity gets attention all the time. So you have arrived, must be wounderful. I believe your new life as a woman began at the marrige. Luv Stephanie

<p style="--original-color: #333333; --original-background-color: #ffffff;">  You have got that right Tricia, you are not alone Sugar and I think we have all been through this on some level. Having all these sisters to speak with makes all the difference in the world. Coming to CDH was so good for me and my development, it has given me so much strength and such an understanding of myself that I am finding it much easier to meet others and I am even coming out to more people with much more ease than before, so thank you all  and I truly love you all for helping me and will do the best I can to help others on their journey also. Lots of love, Coral</p>