How would you prefer to go out in groups

Interesting question. I had to think for a minute. I want regular ggs. Purely as there is a group of gals I can't wait to go with at work. I think a trip to Manchester is definitely on a few ggs minds and I can't wait to join them. I think I was one of the first to float the idea.

I don't think it really matters to me.  I've gone out to parties at my friend's home.  She is a GG who ran a transformation business.  While a a majority of the people were CD or TG, there were sometimes a couple of men or women there too who were accepting of the community.  Sometimes  we would go for outings outside her home too.

My friend would often say that there is safety in numbers.  While I agree, you are also more likely to be read when out in numbers (if out in public) too.  If there are a lot of CD/TG folks about, someone will do something (a gesture or mannerism) that is more typically masculine, drawing people's eyes to the group for closer inspection.

This isn't necessarily a bad thing, but it is something you should be aware of.  A number of years ago my friend put on a play in a hotel conference room.  After rehearsal, we went out to dinner before the performance.  We left dinner on our own to make it back to the hotel.  As I was leaving, there were people waiting for the restaurant.  As I was walking out with others still at the table, I overheard an elderly woman tell her friend, "Do you see that table of ladies over there?  I don't think they're women.  I think they're men."  There was no malice in her statement, only a sense of curiosity.  I wasn't there long enough to hear her friend's reaction.

I enjoy going out with other CD/TG folk because I have become friends with them, having gotten to know them from the parties I attended.  But going out with cis folk (whether women or men or both) means acceptance, which gives me a different feeling.  I would say only slightly I have a preference for CD/TG people, but I suspect it is because I have become friends with them.

CIS ladies would mean acceptance into the community of women. I like that.

Lee Ann

Great question Shannon

I would be happier with a night out with other CD girls. I would feel more comfortable around other CD girls, although it is only during my thickest of pink fogs I could ever image going out socialising En-Femme.

Jen

There needs to be a third option as I have no preference.  My criteria is about character, and not as described.

MacKenzie Alexandra

Sultry Shannon...

Definitely with other women! Have done so before and am doing so with increasing regularity! Last time it was with five other women and one guy...
That is a level of acceptance and affirmation that cannot be ignored! Anyways, I don’t know any CDers in my city. Would I want to? Don’t know... probably not.

Polly 💋💋💋

I vote for option 3 I just want to go out with friend CD or GG.  I just love to be out enfemme!

I've never had the opportunity to go out with other Gurls-- Have been out with my wife & her female friends a # of times without problems-

Got to say both CDs and Cis ladies have their charms. I normally go out to lunch with other CDers. But I have had many great times on the town and in homes of real women.

Needed a " Both" vote.

Dr. T.J.

I definitely prefer going out with other trans women and/or CDs. A few summers back, I'd put together a gathering for a few girls at a nice hotel. after a few hours of drinks (we had our own volunteer bartender), we decided to go clubbing in DC. As we were all pretty buzzed, our bartender ordered an Uber x, and away the five or six of us went. When we got to Ziegfeld's/Secrets, the party was in full swing. Our group danced the night away. Bartender dude played security for our purses/drinks, so the night remained carefree. Can't imagine having the same level of fun with other mix of people.

I also would enjoy being out with both CD girls and regular ladies. I have only been out with my wife and we have had a lot of fun. I think it would be great to be able to go out with CD girls.

I enjoy both myself also

Hi Shannon.

I would prefer mixed...

CDs so we could meet and compare.... everything...

and regular girls to keep us on our toes and well advised...

best of both worlds!!!!

Grace ❤️

Both are appealing but I chose gg since I could see and talk about how close I came to being looked as a gg gf