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I was looking at my messages the other day and I discovered some conversations I had with members that are no longer here on our wonderful site. So it made me wonder how many of you have registered then quit just to come back later. This question goes hand in hand with purging, which most of us have done at least once in our lives. I was a member a couple years ago and got cold feet when messages popped up in my email. I wasn’t ready at the time to come to grips with myself and who I was. I erased my account and disappeared only to return again and I’m so glad I did. Have you ever done this and why?
No. Like you said, it's like purging. You can control what emails you do or do not receive from the site. So you can just leave the account dormant if you don't want to use it. The only reason to delete it is when you think you're through, you'll never want to come here again. Otherwise, just leave the account alone and don't log in if you lose interest for a while.
I was on a different site in the late 90s early 2000s that i quit/purged and went back to ~5 years later.
Once I joined CDH I knew that I had found a place where I could talk and share with others. I try to check the site almost everyday. The friends I have made here are absolutely wonderful. I have had a few friends who suddenly just disappear, I always wonder why.
November 2019 I was down about crossdressing and made an attempt to quit. This included cancellation of my CDH account. The quitting attempt was half hearted and I was back at it by February 2020.
I enjoy reading the forums on CDH and check them out pretty much daily.
Caroline
I haven't but I've only been here about three months. I hope I never do quit but you never know. Life takes unsuspecting turns sometimes.
Hugs, Liara
Hi MelanieElizabeth,
I first joined CDH back in September 2015 (if I recall correctly). I was intrigued by the website but felt I needed to explore some other sites before sticking with one. So I kind of left for about a month or so. I did go onto other sites. OMG, there were some really bad ones. On one site, I posted my photo (in hindsight a big mistake) and I was just hit on by trolls. One troll hassled me so much wanting me to visit him in Las Vegas at his expense. I told him I was married and not interested and he still persisted. So I quit that site and came back to CDH. I loved the way the Ambassadors here got rid of trolls. So I became an Ambassador here for a couple of years. And we got rid of a lot of people (thousands) who were here for the wrong reasons. For example, you wouldn't believe some of the photos some of those people tried to post. It seemed like my eyes were on fire at times from some of the photos I reviewed. I'm very appreciative of the work the Ambassadors do and by the very supportive members who I meet here. Hugs Krista.
Hi MelanieElizabeth,
I did try other sites before I found this one, as Krista has said in her reply, wow they were not what i was looking for. I started out on the open chat, but some nights depending on who logged on you were the gooseberry in a group of established friends. Other nights it was a struggle to type fast enough to keep up withe the conversations. Then I joined the forums and have been here ever since and it's really enjoyable and very social community with some fabulous girls from all around the world.
Lol Amanda xx
Hi Melanie.
I had a massive meltdown....gradually spiralling out of control...and quit the site. I just could not understand what was wrong with me...and it just got so dark!!!...like looking down a railway tunnel at the speck of light at the end....but I just could never reach it.
Eventually I sought help...and with my family doctor, I have worked myself back up the hill, out of the pit of depression ....I know I'm a motormouth, but you girls give me the chance to be the real me ...
okay, I still have my moments, but knowing what I'm dealing with is really half of the battle....
This site gives me the chance to try to help.... because you all really don't know how much you have helped me.... 💓💓💓..every single piece of advice I give is through a long crossdressing experience....or watching too much comedy.....and every thanks I get means it's been worth the effort.....which makes me smile and makes grace a happier person.....so you see, this really is heaven to me......
Grace x
Amanda....
"with some fabulous girls from all around the world"
and you are one of them my sweet...xx
Once I joined CDH know would never leave. Once was sent to the naughty corner but was able to come back. but all the ladies here are so supportive and friendly be hard to ever thinking of leaving. Do know at times everyone may need a short break. All understandable. Just know the light is always on at CDH.
Donna
Hi sweetie, if I could hug your doctor I would.
But there is an underlying message here, help is always available and it shows you have courage and a brave person to asks for it, and it's no shame to receive it either. We all at some times hit a wall in life, but a problem shared is often a problem solved.
Lol Amanda xx
No. I have never quit and don't intend to providing all goes well, and so far, so good. Joining this site has been a pleasant experience, and the sisters have been kind to me. It feels like family. However, I have known a few sisters that sadly quit and disappeared. I hope someday they will return.
Rev
You too sweetie, and I think I have the backing of most of the girls on here who simply adore you. I've just said to a reply earlier I could hug your doctor, I amend that and simply hug you both.
Lol Amanda xx
My ignorance of other crossdresser sites is bliss!
💓 to all on CDH!
Barb
