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There was a good question asked today in one of the forums about clothes purged by SO's. So I was wondering how do most of us obtain our clothes. and do many wear their ex SO's clothes if they fit, are you a lone shopper, does someone buy you items,how are your obtained.
Hey, Amanda!
My SO still has her nose to the grindstone for another year or two before retirement. So I buy clothes for HER! Of course I get a few accoutrements for myself while I'm at it. We get our credit card statements emailed to us both and nothing is ever said. Lucky me...
She's also half my size, so no we don't share clothes.
👗Barb :B
We shop together. for many years we were close enough to the same size that we could share most things. Now my breasts, shoulders, (alas, and tummy) are larger but we still share the same panty drawer.
I started wearing my older sister's clothes, then Mama bought me my own. During my teen years I was introduced to boy clothes and find them better for activities where I will get dirty.
I used to wear my wife's stuff (this was before I bought my own and before I came out), eventually I stopped as I noticed I was stretching out her clothes.
My wife rarely casts off any clothes, and her taste in style is vastly different from mine so no, I would not take any of her cast offs.
I buy my own and have been buying my own for a long time now.
Hi Amanda,
When my wife died, I pinched all her sarongs, but otherwise we were the wrong size, so that wouldn't have been an option. I used to add the odd knickers and tights and tops and then some plain tunic dresses, that sort of thing, to a big food shop at the local big store. Then to online for more choice and now I'm getting more confident at just shopping for what I want in stores and clothes shop.
Marti xxx
My wife and I are pretty much the same size (clothes and shoes). So while I would like my own wardrobe and because my wife doesn't know about my starting dressing again (told her years ago and she wasn't too keen on it) I wear her clothes and shoes. I do have my own panties and bras.
Hugs, Liara
I buy almost everything from Amazon. The hub counter pick up is very convenient, and discrete.
Perfect for this closet girl!
Hello honey.....
I buy all my own clothes, from anywhere that sells them....shops, boutiques, charity stores, supermarkets.....and on line too.
it's not a chore or a job for me....it's a pleasure and a 24/7 operation....and believe me, nowhere is safe from my clutches.....just ask my bank account!!!
Grace xx
Hi Amanda, I by all my own stuff, I'm addicted to shopping, it's my favourite part of dressing I think. Nothing like getting dressed and a hard day of storming the malls and boutiques for a deal and that thing you see that you must have. I think if I was an alien when I landed my first words to the people would be, take me to your shoe store and mall.
Thanks, Heather with a serious retail problem.
I obtain my clothes mostly through Amazon, but have bought a few things on my own. I love picking out the clothes and shoes.
Ummmm! You’ve forgotten some of the cute dresses I have given to you! LOL! (Always your butt looks better than mine in them!) 😊
My wife and I shared a few tops; otherwise, I bought all of my own, mostly in-person shipping (Lulu is a shopaholic).
I buy all of my own clothes from everywhere that sells them. Love shopping in person and I love looking for bargains. I also buy ninty present of my wives clothes. She says I have awesome tastes. I am a dress and shoe hound.
Hi Michelle,
That a great compliment from your wife that she trusts your taste.
Lol Amanda xx
Hello my sweetie lovely to see you here. Gosh yes you are like me, see it got to have it, only trouble is I don't always get it right, but it's fun.
Lol Amanda xx