On vacation as a Crossdresser

Vacation time is a wonderful opportunity to crossdress because as you said Jamie, no one really knows you . Additionally  when you are on vacation one tends to be more relaxed and that can add to your dressing enjoyment.

My wife packed for our last vacation to a mountain resort. She only took girl things for me! Shorts, tanks, my hiking skirt, bikini, and one LBD just in case dinner at the lodge was classy. She enjoys showing me off!

Totally agree with JoJo...

Go for it, because if you travel anywhere, nobody is going to know you anyway. If it's a great holiday, you have found a gem and can go back without a care....

if it's the pits, there's a million other places to try......

Happy Holidays, grace 😎😎😎 x

I had a little femme time on my recent holiday in Dorset - absolutely wonderful weather!

My wife volunteered herself to drive the boys home, as the holiday was split family/anniversary - and the children stayed with their grandparents for our anniversary part.

So I grabbed the opportunity to put on a thin, flamingo pattern sundress, and white trainers - and headed off for a beach walk around Shell Bay.

Cost = 5 miles worth of petrol. Value = infinite!

It brought a warm smile to my heart.

The beach was almost deserted - all 5 glorious miles of soft, almost white sand. The sea was a perlescent turquoise, and almost perfectly still. The air was warm, with a perfect rosy sunset glow, and I removed my trainers to feel the soft warm ripples under my feet.

A perfect moment that lasted an hour!

I realised, after my walk, that I was low on petrol, so stopped to fill up the scarlet monster, as I like to call my car. It amuses me.

The lady at the garage treated me perfectly civilly, with a little sparkle in her eye like "I know, but won't let on!" - and I grabbed some chocolate for my wife, then headed to the holiday cottage to prepare drinks for my wife's return.

Cost = £1 for the chocolate (she only likes bars of Cadbury, not the boxes, over half of which she actively doesn't like!) and nothing for the water.

I'm not a cheapskate - I took her to one of the most expensive restaurants in Sandbanks (billionaire's row) the next night.

We agreed that the views across the bay were good, but everything else was disappointing...

So we went to a cheap Thai place in Dorchester the next night - "The King and Thai", where the view was across a street, the customers weren't all footballers - but the food was all delicious!

Only goes to show - it's not the money, it's the love and craft that makes something special.

Love Laura

My  vacations tend to be spent at home playing games and music. Just relaxing, but I've thought it would be fun to go somewhere else to have a makeover. It would be fun to spend some vacation time cross dressed.

A big part of my vacation time was planned girl time. I would be full time of not for work and some social functions. On vacation, there is no work outside of the home and those social functions are far away.

When we go on vacation myveife allows me to bring femme wear but usually only to be worn in our room. So it is not like I am presenting myself, but I can still enjoy a quiet evening at the end of the day.

If not for work and a few social functions I would be full time. So when I would go on vacation, I would take a few guy things but mostly femme items. My plan and goal was to be dressed femme all the time and be out as a woman. Most of my vacations plans centered around being femme, but that's who I am. Most of my life centers around being femme.

Your vacationing en femme sounds wonderful, but I do have a question. I've been wanting to vacation, or at least road trip somewhere, en femme as well. But, how do you handle public restrooms? I don't come close to passing and I know it. I am not comfortable using women's restrooms, but would certainly stand out like a sore thumb if I tried to use the men's restroom while dressed. And there aren't many places where I see a separate "family" restroom. So, I'm not sure where to go, without making a scene in public...

Birel

Hi Birel. I always use the women's room. Nobody notices but make sure to sit and use toilet paper. Seems like girls use a lot of it. Touch up your makeup and your good to go.

As for me driving to my destination I was a male during the enire time so could use the men's room at the rest stop. At the springs, I watched to see who went into the restrooms. I had a towel wrapped around me and my sunglasses on.Also I went early when the parks were not crowded I did use the bathroom before leaving the motel room. Now at some of the parks I got lucky as there were a few Porto Lets here and there.

I have daughters and restroom breaks were a challenge for me as they didn't like going in the men's room with me. Then it dawned on me that the lobby restrooms if many chain hotels are single use and usually very clean. That could be an option while dressed too.

A few years back, I had a friend who let me use his Maui condo while he was traveling. I made many solo trips to Maui and spent most of the "condo time" fully dressed as Kathy. Beach time and golf were in the Bob mode, I worried about my bra strap marks showing while at the beach in the mornings so I'd keep my tank top on till they were no long noticeable. My facial hair precluded Kathy going out and about, plus, I know many people here in South Maui, so Kathy kept to herself. I did go clean shaven during a two week stay and for the first time, I saw Kathy looking back at me in the mirror. I loved what I saw. I took lots of pix of the woman I had become. I caught hell when I got home, as my wife and adult kids had never seen me without facial hair. Wifey knows about "Kathy" but had previously forbidden me to shave - as a control factor to keep "Kathy" at home. I fondly remember that trip and often dream of doing it again.

Because I can't dress en fem completely free and uninterrupted at home; I'd love to go on a weekend get-away/vacation just so I could crossdress.