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Pajamas vs nightgowns ? Poll is created on Jan 24, 2024

  
  
  
  

[Closed] Pajamas vs nightgowns ?

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(@barbiegoldwin)
Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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I have both and I wear both. My favorite nightgown is a baby blue knee length baby doll. It's nylon with a sheer lace 2nd layer. I love the way it feels when I'm wearing my robe curled up in the big chair watching TV at night. My favorite pajamas are a silk shorts set. Navy blue with pink trim. The top is long sleeved and a button up. I've been known to spend all day Sunday at home wearing this pj set. They feel great being busy around the house wearing my big soft fuzzy slippers.

 

When I slip into bed at night wearing either I feel pretty much the same. The girl in me sighs and that great feminine feeling relaxes me. So, I had to vote for "BOTH".

 

 

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(@ellyd22)
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@barbiegoldwin 

Ooooh ... it's not as SIMPLE as just 'pajamas vs nightgowns' though, is it?

This is a multifactorial problem.

  • How pretty are the pajamas? How pretty is the nightgown?
  • What sort of fabrics are we talking here? Are we REALLY going to lump cotton nighties and satin nighties together? And surely quality comes into play. Are we talking Walmart, or Jane Woolrich?
  • If we're going to go with 'nightie', regardless of the material, what length are we thinking?
  • Mood is really important. On a particular evening, which are you most drawn to?
  • Seasonality definitely has an effect. In winter, I LOVE calf-length satin nighties. In summer, a pair of knickers and a t-shirt is the norm.

So ... um ... I ticked 'other' because I didn't want to commit exclusively to any of the other options 🙂

Ellie x

(@barbiegoldwin)
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@ellyd22 

your response pretty much sums up my curiosity on this subject. There are so many things that us girls like that make us feel pretty and cute I knew this was not going to be a simple cut and dry question. Thank you for your vote.

(@femmechristina)
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@ellyd22 haha, that’s thinking it all the way through for sure 🙂

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(@chrissydee)
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Estimable Member     Connecticut, United States of America
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@ellyd22 Stop reading my mind. 😊

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(@harriette)
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Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
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@barbiegoldwin Something Different: nude

I only wear a T-shirt if I am wearing a wired Holter monitor.

(@mocha)
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@barbiegoldwin

Both, but obviously it depends on the seasonal temperature, for example during the summer my bed clothes are a tank top and pantie, in autumn I wear light fabric nightgowns or pajamas, in winter fleece nightgowns, winter underwear + wool socks (not sexy at all but very comfortable and warm) or winter fleece pajamas and feet covered with wool socks.

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(@janetw)
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Reputable Member     Caterham, Surrey, United Kingdom
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@barbiegoldwin Nighties for me, especially satin.

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(@yaellyonssea)
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Trusted Member     Washington, United States of America
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@barbiegoldwin Nightgowns only. I love the feel of silk. Of course this is only when I travel alone or when my wife is out of town.

(@barbiegoldwin)
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@yaellyonssea 

totally understandable.

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(@jennap61)
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Trusted Member     London, Ontario, Canada
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@yaellyonssea interesting. Finally wife lets me wear nightgowns. She wears T shirts and her panties to bed. She found them so I had to come clean. I know have 3/4 baby doll shorty nighties. She will even launder them when I don’t  

y

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(@yaellyonssea)
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@jennap61 you are a lucky woman. I am going to have this discussion soon.

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(@lizk)
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@barbiegoldwin Voted something different.  I don't own any nightgowns.  Not my style.  In cooler months I'll wear long pajama bottoms or lounge pants with a t-shirt.  In warmer months it's short PJ bottoms with a t-shirt or just panties and t-shirt.

/EA

(@barbiegoldwin)
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@emilyalt 

there's nothing wrong with that. thanks for joining the conversation

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(@Anonymous 94603)
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@barbiegoldwin I replied both because I like to wear both, depending on my mood and whether is cold. I usually wear my PJs during the week and a nightie at the weekend. My PJs are cotton with a cami top and lace trim. I've got a grey set and a light blue set. I've got 2 cotton knee-length nighties, one black and one red, and I've got a mauve baby-doll with matching knickers for special occasions!❤️

(@barbiegoldwin)
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Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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well even anonymous girls are allowed to feel girly while they're in bed

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(@ozzyncs)
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Active Member     Hastings, Hawke's Bay, New Zealand
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@barbiegoldwin My favourite is the wear a full slip or other wise a half slip and camisole, Both my wife and i dress like this for bed at night 😍

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(@jennap61)
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Trusted Member     London, Ontario, Canada
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@ozzyncs that sounds so exciting. Love to hear stuff like that. You and wife have a special relationship hun.

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(@pixiemagic)
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(@barbiegoldwin)
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Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@pixiemagic 

if I love them anymore I would wear them all day long

(@lauren114)
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Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
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@barbiegoldwin I generally like a baby doll nightgown or a chemise.   I have an aqua chemise with matching robe that I just love.  Sometimes during the warm weather, I'll just wear a tank top and a pair of panties or of its really cold, I'll wear a tank top with flannel bottoms.  Of course, some instances require that the sexy lingerie is brought out.

(@barbiegoldwin)
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@lauren114 

all are great ways to experience the feminine side

(@marleneroberts)
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Honorable Member     Allentown, Pennsylvania, United States of America
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@barbiegoldwin  Interesting question. Depends on the temperature. Warm weather it is nude. Cooler weather a full slip. To keep the bottom sheet clean when sleeping nude I put a towel over the sheet. Best, Marlene.

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(@steffief)
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Trusted Member     Missouri, United States of America
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@barbiegoldwin 

I love sleeping in a satin chemise and panties. 

(@annalise)
Joined: 5 years ago

Estimable Member     Felsted, Essex, United Kingdom
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@barbiegoldwin     hi  most nights a nightie with bra ,panties and pantyhose underneath ,some nights no nightie ,I am a secret dresser daytime an underdresser so to wear female clothing without having to cover it up is fantastic and makes me want to dress 24/7   Michelle xx

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(@sashabennett)
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Noble Member     Wick, Caithness, United Kingdom
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@barbiegoldwin Neither, I binned all my nightwear when I left home. I don't see the point & like sleeping in the buff.

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(@kendrawhite)
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Reputable Member     Kansas, United States of America
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I voted nightgowns. I definitely have pajama sets and wear them, but I tend to choose the nighties more often. Usually thigh to knee length, but I'd like to try something longer 

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(@audreyw)
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Estimable Member     Savana, Georgia, United States of America
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@barbiegoldwin I voted something different.  Panties and a satin cami or tank top for me.

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(@candycross)
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Honorable Member     Queensland, Australia
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@barbiegoldwin l prefer both, it depends how warm the nights are, however l also like to sleep naked when the weather is warm enough

(@lauren114)
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@barbiegoldwin Definitely nightgowns for me!  They are uniquely feminine and I love how they make me feel.  Waking up wearing a nightgown reminds me immediately of who I am when I start my day.  I also love the pretty, lacy styles and the beautiful spectrum of feminine colors they come in!

(@barbiegoldwin)
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Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@lauren114 

me and you both sister

(@beth74)
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Trusted Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
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@barbiegoldwin I voted both. Right now I only have 1 item of sleepwear - it is a at-the-knee satin nightgown I bought at Kohl’s (XXL fit me even though it’s not technically plus size and I am typically a 2X). It has spaghetti straps that cross in the back and lace trim at the neckline. I wear it au naturel on top and it shows off my large A/small B cup natural breasts nicely. I wear it with a pair of Cacique Seriously Sexy panties that are a bit skimpier than I would normally wear under my DRAB clothes. I am fully closeted so only get to wear this when traveling, but have a big slug of work travel this month so will get to wear the nightgown more nights than not this month.

I also enjoy satin pajama sets with a cami top and shorts. When I wear satin pajamas I typically do not wear panties as I like the feel of the satin when it brushes against my parts. But I have 2 challenges with pajama sets - one is the bottoms will get soiled over the course of a night and they are harder to wash out in a hotel bathroom sink than panties. The other is that they are typically sold as sets, so I need to buy XXL or 2X for the top to fit but then the bottoms tend to be too large.

Regardless of what I am wearing I like to put on a couple of sprays of perfume before I go to bed.

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(@gafran)
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Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
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@barbiegoldwin I voted both too. P.j.s in the cooler temps. Teddies, sleep shirts ( I have a Deplorable one). For warmer temps. The shorter ones end up around my waist by morning. Lol

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(@clarissa2)
Honorable Member     jutland, Denmark
Joined: 4 years ago

Both wife and I looouvee our anklelenght victorian nightgowns, made of cotton fabric, they are sooooo comfy. When the summer gets really warm we just sleep in our skin.

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(@barbiegoldwin)
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Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@clarissa2 

I have one nightgown that is just like the one you are describing. It's bright yellow with a matching robe. It was quite expensive and I rarely wear it for that reason. Thanks for being part of the conversation.

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(@lisa55)
Prominent Member     Gloucester, Virginia, United States of America
Joined: 3 years ago

I have 3 nightgowns I wear. 2 above the thighs and one below the thighs. And I love the feeling of them. This and my panties summer winter or fall they will do. Once in a while I will wear a long cami, just to break it up. 
I have never liked PJ’s or anything flannel myself. 

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(@barbiegoldwin)
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Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@lisa55 

I hear you girlfriend. I always go to bed wearing my girly things. 

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(@finallyfiona)
    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

A little blue shortie satin chemise does it for me.  And a mid-length smooth long-sleeved gown with inner & outer ties, for having breakfast in after my shower, before getting dressed for the day 🙂

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(@barbiegoldwin)
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Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@finallyfiona 

What a perfect girly morning !

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(@Anonymous 94603)
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@finallyfiona Oh yes, I too love to lounge in the morning before changing out of my nightwear.  To arise, make coffee, bask for an hour or so, before picking panties and bra to lay out, ready for me once I'm out of the shower.

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I have two retro design frilly nylon nighties I wear along with some full nylon slips that I sleep in.

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(@barbiegoldwin)
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Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@d44 

The feel of nylon when in bed is exquisite.

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(@Anonymous 94603)
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All of my pajamas are satin.  When I wear pjs, the ones with full legs are for extra-cold weather.  My favorite pair is a button-down style, pink of course, with ruffles on the hem and cuff.  Then another pair of matching top & bottom but these have a cute frilly sleep short.  Luxurious.  

I have always worn a bra and full forms to bed.  Gives my nightwear a pretty shape, and when I'm reading or looking at computer in bed, its reassuring to be able to see a beautiful bustline.

My nightgowns are mostly satin.  The short ones include a green floral design, then another is red -with matching soft sleep shorts.  I also like my cream shortie adorned with a pattern of small flowers.  I have three long gowns which are very relaxing and comforting to have caressing the full length of my shaved legs.  One in pink with spaghetti straps.  Another is a full red sheer mesh kind of fabric with a stretchy lace bodice and copious lace ruffles that decorate the neckline.  My favorite.  I just love this gown.  I bask in it.  A final gown is sheer, white lace and is ankle-length.  There isn't a bad one in the bunch.

I keep a sort of wish list on Amazon, putting them in my save-for-later list, then act when they go on sale.

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(@barbiegoldwin)
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Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
Posts: 83

@gina2923 

Oh yes, a girl after my own heart. My online wish lists stay very active also. Thanks for being part of the conversation.

(@bubbles63)
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Eminent Member     Dyfed, United Kingdom
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@gina2923 I am totally in agreement with your choices.I love the feel of silk and satin on my body and totally enjoy chosing between silk pj's or short of long nighties...heaven 🙂

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(@Anonymous 94603)
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@bubbles63 I'm a bit of a cheapskate when it comes to running the hot water, and tonight will be the 3rd night without shaving my legs so it will be my pink long pjs with the ruffled cuffs, with my 42D pink bra.

(@bubbles63)
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Eminent Member     Dyfed, United Kingdom
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@gina2923 I'm sure you look lovely...bless you 🙂

(@fabulous1)
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Reputable Member     Forest Hill, Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 145

Thank you for saying that you wear a bra and full forms to bed.  Now I know that I am not alone in enjoying that.

i have some satin short pajama sets that I wear occasionally, but my preference is to wear a nightgown.  To me, among all the great things that I enjoy as a CD, two of my faves are the feeing I get by putting on a nightgown with arms straight upward, then feeling the nightgown cascade downward over my body and getting out of bed after a restful nights sleep to watch my bosoms jiggle when I brush my teeth.  Both make me feel incredibly feminine. 

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(@ryanpaul)
Famed Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Joined: 7 years ago

Summer: silk silk silk, Cami, french knickers, and depending on the overnight temps, short or long nightie/chemise. even cooler nights, silk full length pj's Depending on the outerwear colour, all underneath must co ordinate or match. Matching bra and forms underneath it all, of course.

Silk dressing gowns for "nocturnal visits"

Winter fleecy pj's, thermal camis, panty hose/tights for my creaky knees and panties, Velour dressing gown. Bra and forms again of course.

I change from my nighttime to my day lingerie first thing in the morning, sitting in the edge of the bed. Tuck my "junk" back between my legs and hopefully, with my bra less forms still attached, don a new cami and daytime bra/bralette.

Ever so femme.

Sadly, the forms have to come off after the completion of the above

Happy (nocturnal) dressing,

Caty.

 

 

 

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(@barbiegoldwin)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@ryanpaul 

I  love that you stretch out that girly feeling for as long as you can. It sounds like you desire that sensuous feel. Thanks for the reply.

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(@sophie85)
Estimable Member     New Jersey, United States of America
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I have both nightgowns and pajamas and wear both depending on my mood.  My favorite nightgown is a black mid-thigh length babydoll that is low cut in the front and has sequins down the sides and at the bust line.  My favorite pj set is a leopard print tank top with soft black pj pants.  I have a couple satin robes that go with either my nightgowns or pjs.

I feel incredibly sexy and feminine lounging around in my nightgowns and pj sets.  Getting into bed wearing them is an amazing feeling as well.

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(@barbiegoldwin)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@sophie85 

thanks for being part of the conversation.

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(@Anonymous 94603)
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@sophie85 I think I once saw a nightgown like your favorite - with sequins - and considered getting it.  Now these many weeks later I can remember if I decided it would be too short or if I ended up buying something else and then I forgot.  But since you have had good experience with it I will remember that.

Duchess
(@sophie85)
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Estimable Member     New Jersey, United States of America
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@gina2923 it is mid-thigh length on me.  I never realized when I bought it how much I would love it.  It is amazingly comfortable, flaunts my cleavage/curves nicely, and makes me feel really sexy wearing it.

I did a quick internet search to see if I could find it, but no luck.  If you happen to see something like this, let me know.  I wouldn't mind getting another color if it exists.

(@barbiegoldwin)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@sophie85 I'll keep my eyes open girlfriend

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(@harriette)
Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 2 years ago

For those of you who use breast forms continuously, do you ever develop irritated skin?

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Baroness
(@ryanpaul)
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Famed Member     Outer Eastern Suburbs Melbourne, Victoria, Australia
Posts: 2023

@harriette The answer to your question is yes. But after having my forms in a bra all night, as a part of my morning "get out of bed" routine, I just give my chest a rub with a good moisturizer.

Then I'm ok until I "do it all again" next morning

 

Caty.

 

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(@missylinda)
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Noble Member     Ft Worth, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 847

@harriette my wife is ok with my wardrobe at night.  I have some of each, total  about 10.  One is a regular slip.  All in nylon or satin.  Plan on buying a silk shorts PJ .  Wear a panty underneath gowns as it’s good to have a pant liner in place.  Sometimes wear a AAA bra, no forms.   Sometimes A forms no bra and adhesives to my chest.  As with Caty they leave a mild rash, but moisturizer works good.  This is my ultimate feeling of being a girl, going braless🤗🥰, but if I did it daily my skin would suffer.  I would buy a new one every week, but then I would be sleeping alone.LOL

Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3996

Thank you, Caty and Lorraine.

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(@delaware)
    los angeles, California, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

I voted something different ................a simple girl in lace panties and camisole ..............or a really old worn out t-shirt ...................karley 

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(@barbiegoldwin)
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Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@delaware 

there's nothing wrong with that. Thank you for your reply.

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(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
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I have several baby doll nighties and a pair of pajamas. The nighties range from2 with padded cup bras and then sheer to hip length, 2 satin nighties that are hip length and a red and black semi sheer hip length with a floral pattern and red trim. When I wear the nighties I will wear either panties or g-string in a matching color or black. The pajamas are light cotton, the top is short sleeve button down and the bottoms are capri length. I don't have any female dressing gowns but hope to resolve that soon. I only wear these things in the morning before my wife wakes up, although there have been a few times I have worn the pajamas when we watch TV at night. My wife doesn't want Suzanne in bed so I sleep au natural. I am okay with her not wanting Suzanne in bed - there have been a few times that she has been gone overnight and when that happens Suzanne gets to do whatever she wants.

XOXO
Suzanne

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(@barbiegoldwin)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@cdsue 

baby doll nighties always make me feel so girly.

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Lady
(@jess92)
Prominent Member     Florida, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

It's romantic lingerie on most nights for me with satin pajamas mixed in once in a while. There is nothing like wearing romantic lingerie, nothing. It's ecstasy.  

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(@barbiegoldwin)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
Posts: 83

@jess92 

I hear you girlfriend. I get the same feeling.

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Lady
(@denises924)
Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Joined: 1 year ago

When I get the chance, it's a silky slip or camisole with panties for me. Sometimes I leave my stockings on too depending on my mood. In any case, it is always sad to switch to guy mode in the morning.

Denise

❤️

 

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(@barbiegoldwin)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@denises924 

you are so right about that.

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(@rozalyne)
Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

As I'm still in the closet i only wear my drab man PJ'S to bed, 

If i was able to wear female night wear i would wear a nightie mostly, unless it was really cold then i would wear women's PJ'S, a nice silky pair in a nice feminine colour, 

Hugs Rozalyn X 🤗

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(@barbiegoldwin)
Joined: 2 years ago

Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
Posts: 83

@rozalyne 

I understand. I'm glad that you felt free enough to join the conversation.

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(@rozalyne)
Joined: 3 years ago

Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 2041

@barbiegoldwin thanks Barbie,

I've had a few weeks where I've been at home alone and at bedtime i wore a nightie it was fabulous X

Hugs Rozalyn X 

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Lady
(@jjandme)
Famed Member     California, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

I voted other since my wife and I have always slept naked. That said I do wear women's satin pajamas around the house and have a few nightgowns to get into bed, bed they don't stay on long.

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(@barbiegoldwin)
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Estimable Member     Gulfport , Mississippi, United States of America
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@jjandme 

I can certainly understand that

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