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Poll results: What would you do? You ..
Voter(s): 128
Poll is closed Jan 22, 2025
Go to the front door and graciously accept the parcel  -  votes: 73 / 57%
73
57%
Shout "leave it at the entrance" and pick it up a moment later  -  votes: 21 / 16.4%
21
16.4%
Cover your femininity and hope to arrive it time  -  votes: 15 / 11.7%
15
11.7%
Lay low and collect it from your neighbours later  -  votes: 11 / 8.6%
11
8.6%
Anything else  -  votes: 8 / 6.3%
8
6.3%

Parcel delivery

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Lady
Topic starter
(@astridt)
Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 months ago

You're fully dressed-up and enjoying yourself. Suddenly the bell rings and you see a delivery van standing right in front of your home.

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Lady
(@joannajoy)
Joined: 2 months ago

Reputable Member     British Columbia, Canada
Posts: 217

@astridt hi Astridt , Where I  live here in Canada, I have to have parcels dropped at work or pick up at post office . No delivery to the farm. So Jo can be Jo , and hopefully package is intact if it shows up at work😂… Jo

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Lady
(@astridt)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 102

@joannajoy Good to learn that there are out-of-the box options like emigration possible 😀

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(@katiep)
Joined: 3 months ago

Reputable Member     Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 142

@astridt I voted to shout to leave it but having a smart door bell is a much better idea. They are easy to setup Astrid with Alexa application.

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1209

@astridt I'd go to the door and accept the package.   Most package delivery people just want to get the package out of their hands and move on to their next stop.  In general, they don't even notice who is accepting the package.

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Lady
(@astridt)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 102

@lauren114 I could try, but being over 6ft tall (without 👠) makes me a bit anxious

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Duchess
(@loneleycd)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 2157

@astridt Astrid, having been a mailman for 30 years if I had an incident like that I would notice for a moment and then move on to the next house. 

Really no big deal. 

Cassie 

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(@lauren114)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Delaware, United States of America
Posts: 1209

@astridt I'm a tall girl too!  We rock!  Kidding aside, there are a number of tall girls out there so it's not all that out of the ordinary.

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Lady
(@astridt)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 102

@lauren114 we do rock, but for a middle-aged "girl" it is not that common. But I'll grow into it 😉

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Lady
(@candycross)
Joined: 9 months ago

Honorable Member     Queensland, Australia
Posts: 314

@astridt living in a small regional town means everyone knows you, so going to the door can't happen, however as my wife and l am retired,  my wife would accept the package

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4019

@astridt I would wing it.

To enter our building, the driver would need to buzz me. Then drivers here, generally  don't require a signature since they take picture evidence of delivery, but the postman might. Then whether I open the door or not might depend on how I am dressed.

The only time that something like this ever happened I was dressed androgynously, so it didn't matter. 

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Lady
(@gardie62)
Joined: 3 months ago

Trusted Member     Chestertown, Maryland, United States of America
Posts: 55

@astridt Breathe, try not to panic, let them come and then go  with out a response.

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1142

@astridt 

What could they do or say? Their job is to deliver and go on to the next delivery. 

No telling what stories they could tell. And not about us either!

Fran 🥰 

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(@cdashley)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1489

@astridt I’ve opened to door to get food I’ve ordered before while in pantyhose , jean mini , woman’s top no makeup or wig. 
Picked up a parcel from door but didn’t notice driver was still in driveway looking at his phone and turned at seen me fully dressed. I’m at the point where I don’t care about people I don’t know , seeing my femme side at all.

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Duchess
(@rozalyne)
Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 3 years ago

Hi Astrid, 

I'm the first to vote so i voted just go to the door and accept the parcel as long as i had my makeup on and i looked half decent, i would do now but before maybe i would have just hid and sorted later, nowadays you don't see the same delivery driver so he doesn't know you from Adam so the saying says, and anyway Roz deserved to be seen now and again if not by my family why not a stranger, 

Love Roz ❤️ 

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Lady
(@astridt)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 102

@rozalyne thank you for being the first responder! ♥️

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Duchess
(@rozalyne)
Joined: 3 years ago

Famed Member     Shrewsbury, Shropshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 2075

@astridt 

Your welcome Astrid, 

Love Roz ❤️ 

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 11 months ago

I've had to do the "leave it at the entrance" routine a couple of times

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Lady
(@astridt)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 102

@annaredhead Hi Anna, sounds like good advice. Changing quickly is very stressful, I even broke a necklace in the hurry to untie it. ☹️ Probably best to avoid it as much as possible, I regularly ask if anyone expects a delivery.

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(@rebeccabaxter)
    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

I put that I would go to the door and take the parcel as I have done this already. Where I might choose another option was if I'm not 'dressed to receive'. While a GG might go to the door dressed 'as is', I would not feel comfortable if I was caught halfway through dressing and had all my makeup on but no wig. 

Becs

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Lady
(@irishlaura)
Eminent Member     Dublin, Leinster, Ireland
Joined: 2 months ago

Probably answer the door through the speaker on the doorbell to tell them I’m not at home and to leave it with my neighbour!

If it’s to the door I know it’s none of my feminine stuff because that’ll be addressed to Laura and I have it sent to a parcel locker because I’m totally paranoid that it’ll arrive when I’m not here lol

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Lady
(@astridt)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 102

@irishlaura Yes, a smart doorbell could do the job - not something my generation is used to. Never too old to learn 👍

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(@judevderl)
Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 months ago

I talk to them through the smart doorbell and say I'm on a call and get them to leave it on the step or under the car.

If they say they need a signature or a photograph, I tell them to hang on for 5 minutes and I'll be with them, at which point they often give up and just leave it on the step. If they insist and decide to wait, then it's a relatively quick change back to something resembling male mode. 

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Lady
(@michaela2001)
Noble Member     Goldsboro, North Carolina, United States of America
Joined: 8 years ago

Where I live now, there is no choice really, ALL the package delivery companies just dump the stuff on your doorstep and go. Most do send a text message, with a photo that shows it on your front porch. If I see them arrive, knowing they just dump and run, I just wait until they are off the driveway and then I go bring it in.

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Lady
(@astridt)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 102

@michaela2001 so every cloud has a silver lining... an appropriate proverb in your case, but with no cloud in sight, love your hair style

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(@ladymakenzie)
Noble Member     Brighton, Michigan, United States of America
Joined: 9 years ago

I have never let the clothing that I am wearing stop me from answering my door. even before I being basically full time.  I have two favorite experiences for answering the door while wearing a dress.

1. The first was a court officer who was delivering a subpoena.  The court officer was clearly more surprised that I knew the subpoena was coming than how I was dressed.

2. The second was a pair of door to door missionaries belonging to a conservative congregation.  It was so much fun engaging those ladies who where clearly very umcomfortable speaking with me.  I will admit that I really drew out that conversation while standing on my front porch.  Even my wife who was still feeling out how she felt about me being out in public enjoyed that interaction.

MacKenzie Alexandra

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

No hesitation in answering the door for parcels or mail. I also share with Mac Kenzies experience when church missionaries who have a view on trans appear, it can be interesting....

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Baroness
(@annaredhead)
Joined: 11 months ago

Famed Member     Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1841

@ab123 ooh, that could be fun

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(@finallyfiona)
    Leighton Buzzard, Bedfordshire, United Kingdom
Joined: 1 year ago

As long as I'm decent, I've opened the door to the postman, parcels couriers, politicians, Jehovah's Witnesses and other callers in various states of incomplete feminine presentation with no worries.  Having my full figure and a dress on, but no hair and still with yesterday's stubble is the most common - sometimes even with dangly earrings too!  None of them have been anything other than polite.  The delivery guys from all organisations just want to get the job done and move on to the next house.  Anyone else who isn't a neighbour (all of whom know about me anyway) I'm not interested to spend any time with, so I just politely close down the conversation.  I've not had a single second's misgivings about any of these occurrences 🙂

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Managing Ambassador
(@melodeescarlet)
Famed Member     DC/Baltimore, Maryland, United States of America
Joined: 2 years ago

@astridt I'm in my own home doing what I want harming no one. I can't be happy as Melodee if I'm ashamed of Melodee.

If what you mean is that I'm wearing something that is more, erm..."intimate", then I find a robe and then get the door.

Hmm...now you've got me aware that I don't have some fabulous dressing robe for just such an occasion. 🤔 

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Lady
(@astridt)
Joined: 2 months ago

Estimable Member     London, United Kingdom
Posts: 102

@melodeescarlet haha, the idea was that I was completely dressed! I agree that a dressing robe may be convenient in any other circumstances.

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Guest
(@Anonymous 88536)
Estimable Member
Joined: 2 years ago

Just answer the door , delivery man probably take no notice , and it's not again the law to be dressed in a dress .

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Lady
(@randialex)
Estimable Member     Shaftesbury, Dorset, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 months ago

as a live alone who always dresses at home I open the door as Randi, my "resolution" for this year is Randi rules OK and I don't care who knows it, I am a proud trannie.

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Lady
(@cherylt)
Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 7 months ago

I would just answer the door and sign for the package if necessary or just accept it if no signature required and thank the courier. At this stage it's no big deal anymore.

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Duchess
(@chrisdressing)
Estimable Member     Las Vegas, Nevada, United States of America
Joined: 2 months ago

I'd wait for them to leave it at the door, but not because I'm en femme but because I'm too dang shy 🙃 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4019

@chrisdressing Now that is shy. I hope that you can manage it as time goes on.

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(@rebeccabaxter)
Joined: 1 year ago

    Cornwall, United Kingdom
Posts: 1341

@chrisdressing If I looked lke you, I'd be rushing out to collect the parcel, shamelessly flaunting myself Laugh Loud

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