Teen Caught

When I was a teen my CD desires were something that I was deeply ashamed of. I kept it all very much secret.

It was not until I was 18 that I told my then girlfriend, now wife.

I did get caught when I was 14 and the man blackmailed me for sex for 6 months or so. The next time I was at a party and somebody slipped something in my drink and I came to hours later all dressed up and people had sex with me and taped it. I was blackmailed into prostitution for 16 months so no I didn't want to get caught. Welcome to my world and people wonder why I'm always on my guard and defensive. It took me a long time to trust anyone again.

Now, I don't care whether I'm caught Dressing; I even want to talk about it (other than my wife's restrictions on me). But when I was a teen and the urge to wear a dress hit me, I was terrified that  I might be caught, labeled "queer" and even jailed.  When I resumed Dressing almost 5 years ago, I still thought there was something "off" in my head, and I was careful to stay deep in the closet.  My, how things have changed, and CDH gets a lot of the credit.

NO I hid it so well . I wish I had came out when I was in my teens or twenties I was a hot babe . I have been married now for thirty nine years I told my wife about Bobbi ten years ago . She did not have a clue it did go well. To day if I want to be a woman I do it and I do it a lot and I love to go out . When people figure out I am not a woman I don't call it being caught I call it being seen we need to be seen.

Hi Gail good question.

Recently I was caught or as Bobbi said seen.

I was dressed and stopped and got gas at a truck stop I normally don't frequent while driving our old jeep we don't drive much anymore.

A week later an old work friend of my wife ran into my wife at Walmart and asked if we still had the jeep as she thought she saw me getting gas and giggled to my wife.

she never mentioned me being dressed as a woman.

My wife played it off saying we don't drive it that much she didn't think I had been driving it.

Any way it really blind sided my wife and I am sorry I did that to her, but I must say it was kind of a rush to be seen en femme.

It kinda felt good.

Unfortunately this person knows a lot of my friends.

I haven't heard any gossip yet.

we will see what happens

silly I guess.

Paatty

Not been caught, but it's one of my fantasies!!

I answered Yes to the question. Though the context is slightly different. When I was a teenager never once thought of going out dressed. I was much too shy, and very ashamed of myself for wearing women's clothes.

However, now I do go out dressed as often as I can, and am not ashamed of myself anymore. In fact I want to be more open about my feminine side, and have gone shopping in our small town dressed up. It would be a bit scary, but thrilling too, to be seen by someone I know, but then they would know!

Amy

Amy,

I believe that once you accept yourself, the fear goes away; and makes it possible for others to accept you, also.  Your note sounds like you are there....Congratulations.

Hugs,

Bettylou

Bettylou;

I believe  you are right, and I do feel I have reached a level of personal acceptance, and am so much happier. I still like being male, and presenting as a man, but also love being feminine, and presenting myself as a woman.

Amy

Bettylou;

It wasn't until I was in my mid teens that being homosexual, as it was called, was still a crime in Canada, that the legislation was finally changed, thanks in big part to our current Prime Minister's father, Pierre Trudeau who famously said "The State has no business in the bedrooms of the Nation".

So to be caught out dressed as a woman here in could of had serious repercussions, as most would assume you were gay.

Amy

Amy,

I'm not sure when being gay stopped being a jailable offense, but the medical journals classified it as a mental disorder until sometime in the late eighties.  It could, and also still does occasionally result in being attacked and beaten.  I'm straight, but so many folks still believe you cannot be straight AND a Dresser.

Bettylou

That's so funny you asked this question I dressed up I put on my mom's pantyhose at 5 years old anytime I was alone I was wearing her clothes I'm sure she knew she had to Mom's know them things but she never confronted me on it when I was 15 she was going out with a guy and staying at the hotel about 10 miles away from our house and I planned on dressing and driving the car around all night in fem it was about 7 in the morning I've been dressed sense like 6 at night and I did not want to get out of my beautiful for my mom's beautiful pink dress the only thing I owned was the pantyhose and the four inch pink pumps that I had bought and that morning in preparation for my night out anyway like I said I think she knew I like to dress I mean maybe dressing as a girl for Halloween every year was a little bit of a tip anyway when she called me in the morning and said to pick her up I said I need to change she said no hurry up I want to leave right now so I just built up the nerve and went picked her up totally holy dress and a pink silky dress sheer energy pantyhose 4 inch pink pumps one of her wigs my makeup was flawless at least the best I could do at the time and I pretty much got myself caught LOL there's more to the story if any of you would like to hear the rest of my day which include going to breakfast as their daughter hit me up in a private message I'll be happy to tell you the story 💋

I always dressed in secret. I was often mistaken for a girl from about ten yrs old and rather than make me angry, I was really, really pleased deep down. I longed to go out but was simply too afraid even though I was completely passable then. I think that if the opportunities that are available now I might well have opted to transition but it was not to be. I have spent all my adult life hiding it and have mostly been OK living as a man, a long ten hetero relationship was the best thing that has ever happened to me but I lost her to cancer at just 41 yrs old. I've been single ever since but now I find the urges are much stronger and I spend all my time at home dressed. I fantasize about being caught by another cd or trans which excites me very much. I just wish I could meet others in real life but have to accept that that is highly unlikely now although I still look OK for nearly 57. Simply too afraid to come out now, but you never know I suppose.

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when i dress up i was always careful on not getting caught dressed up, but one day my daughter seen a pic of me i had o my dresser she seen it and showed mom the pic, nothing was said, but wife knows now, she does not like it at first but when no other adult child is not home wife will let me know i can do what i like to do. i dress up and be free, wish i could of been caught years ago. it would be nice that no one would care that i cross dress and i could dress up and go out shopping and be female when dressed up.