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Poll results: Sit or not to sit
Voter(s): 87
Poll is closed Feb 01, 2025
Sit while in feminine clothing  -  votes: 41 / 47.1%
41
47.1%
Sit at all times  -  votes: 44 / 50.6%
44
50.6%
Stand  -  votes: 2 / 2.3%
2
2.3%

To sit or not to sit

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Posts: 191
Lady
Topic starter
(@abby24)
Reputable Member     BW, Germany
Joined: 10 months ago

Curious to see

everyones thoughts on bathroom us

being in Germany sitting to use the toilet is very common

me personally I only sit ( plus it makes me feel feminine) 

 

Abigail

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Managing Ambassador
(@lizk)
Joined: 5 years ago

Illustrious Member     North County San Diego, California, United States of America
Posts: 3814

@abby24 

I have been sitting for years.  If you're using Women's, please sit!  Standing will gross out every woman in there and you will instantly lose any respect you had.

/LK

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Lady
(@abby24)
Joined: 10 months ago

Reputable Member     BW, Germany
Posts: 191

@lizk I only sit

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 Dee
Baroness Annual
(@dianna)
Joined: 4 years ago

Estimable Member     Alabama, United States of America
Posts: 105

@lizk Liz, as usual, spot on!

And thank you for today’s most entertaining comment!

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(@sabrina66)
Joined: 3 weeks ago

Eminent Member     Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 10

@lizk hi I have sitting for years weather male or en femme plus it not sanitary to do it standing.

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3964

@abby24 This is really simple.

If presenting as a female and you are in a public washroom, then you don't want to be heard making that very distinct sound.

Even if you are in drab in a men's washroom or at home standing is unsanitary, unless using a urinal.

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Lady
(@abby24)
Joined: 10 months ago

Reputable Member     BW, Germany
Posts: 191

@harriette even if presenting male I sit.

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Lady
(@candycross)
Joined: 9 months ago

Honorable Member     Queensland, Australia
Posts: 310

@abby24 l usually sit when dressed as a lady but not always

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Lady
(@katey)
Joined: 4 years ago

Prominent Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 724

@abby24 always sit ad your right it does add that feminine feel

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Lady
(@abby24)
Joined: 10 months ago

Reputable Member     BW, Germany
Posts: 191

@katey it certainly does

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Lady
(@carlafirst11)
Joined: 2 years ago

Honorable Member     So. California , California, United States of America
Posts: 266

@abby24 

Yes and no, as I am a bit of a germaphobic when it comes to public restrooms, I try not to touch to ring of the toilet while sitting. But while in femme if using the ladies facilities, it is a must, sit down, be respectful.

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Joined: 9 months ago

I semi sit.  Basically a squat. When using a public toilet. Feet facing the door. Public toilets can be pretty nasty.  🥰

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Lady
(@abby24)
Joined: 10 months ago

Reputable Member     BW, Germany
Posts: 191

@gafran yes they can be 

 

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 3964

@gafran They can be, but they are usually nasty because males stand to pee at them. 😉

A good layer of toilet paper can take the edge off of them. Sitting to pee stops it.

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1053

@harriette 

 I've done that too. Some places have to toilet seat liner dispensers. 🥰

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Lady
(@katey)
Joined: 4 years ago

Prominent Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 724

@gafran I try not to use a public toilet but sometimes a girl can’t wait to get home

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Ambassador
(@gafran)
Joined: 9 months ago

Noble Member     Warner Robins, Georgia, United States of America
Posts: 1053

@katey 

 True. A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. Or I should say go!  🥰

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Lady
(@abby24)
Joined: 10 months ago

Reputable Member     BW, Germany
Posts: 191
Lady
(@abby24)
Joined: 10 months ago

Reputable Member     BW, Germany
Posts: 191

@katey sometimes

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(@caroline2k)
Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Joined: 2 years ago

As I replied in another thread on this subject recently, I sit.

Apart from it being part of the 'being feminine' illusion, I'm usually very well tucked which makes standing to tinkle difficult at best and often impossible. 

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Lady
(@abby24)
Joined: 10 months ago

Reputable Member     BW, Germany
Posts: 191

@caroline2k even when masculine presenting I still tuck 

ive been sitting since childhood 

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(@caroline2k)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 601

@abby24 Yes, I tend to be tucked most of the time too Abigail. I almost always wear panties and tights, and mostly women's skinny jeans when out and about, so I always tuck and present a nice flat front. Being untucked these days just feels weird!

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

It really has to be sitting when in the ladies.

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Posts: 5
Lady
(@barbra)
Active Member     Toledo, Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 1 month ago

I sit at home all the time. I stand in public rest rooms.

Barbra

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Posts: 65
Baroness
(@sienna106)
Estimable Member     Manchester, GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 10 months ago

Always sit

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Lady
(@abby24)
Joined: 10 months ago

Reputable Member     BW, Germany
Posts: 191

@sienna106 definitely

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Posts: 99
Baroness Annual
(@nickicd)
Reputable Member     Texas, United States of America
Joined: 4 years ago

I almost always sit. 

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Lady
(@abby24)
Joined: 10 months ago

Reputable Member     BW, Germany
Posts: 191
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Lady
(@cherylt)
Prominent Member     Honesdale, Pennsylvania, United States of America
Joined: 6 months ago

So many places now have "Family" or "Unisex" bathrooms it's so much easier just to use them. If not then it's "when in Rome". If I'm out dressed I use the Ladies room for my business. 

As for the sit or stand, I always sit. It's actually just easier. 

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