what did you do this year to make you more womanly

Thanks to the lockdown and pandemic, I've been able to :

- hone my makeup skills.  While I am far from perfect, I feel I'm taking small steps towards improving my make up skills.  For example, instead of gooping on tonnes of makeup, I'm taking more of a "less is more" attitude when applying makeup.  Results have been way better.

- bought a decent pair of girl prescription glasses.  This has enhanced my appearance as a girl.

- re - examine my wardrobe.  I'm buying more solid colours rather than floral patterns.  I've also donated items that I no longer wear due to sizing or collecting dust.  Refinine my wardrobe so it suits my style.

- purchased wigs that match my face and skin tone.  I used to buy light blonde colours and styles that make me look like a guy in girl's clothes.  With the proper wig colour and style, this has enhanced my looks as a girl much more.

- I used to wear a tonne of shapewear to squish my muffin tops in.  Thanks to gyms opening I am able to shed some fat off and reduce the shapewear required.  This has made it more comfortable to wear for the day.

It has taken a year and a half to grow my hair long.  It is now just past my shoulders.  With that I have also learned to care for my new hair style with the necessary hair products for shampooing, conditioning, moisturizing and setting my hair.  That has added about 45 minutes to my getting ready time.  I have also realized that the good hair days and bad hair days are very much a reality.

Hugs, Mary

my plains are to learn more on applying foundation and cover up, shave more on face real clean.  dress like a real woman that is up to date, nothing old or too sexy, wearing a dress, nylons heels make up, wig, eye shadow, lip stick, clip on ear rings and a nice necklace, maybe some day paint my nails and also have sick on long nails to look more feminine looking nails. this year i have made it more perfect to look and pass as a female for i am getting better at most of it.  i have my own collection of dresses and nylons and make up, perfume and tons of color nail polish but do not wear them for now but some day i will

Last February I was working with self help materials to improve self acceptance and self love and out of the shadows stepped Kay. I have since bought a lot of makeup, wigs and some clothes. My goal is to continue to improve makeup skills and continue my inner work on self acceptance of my true self.

Once again I have grown my hair out too and back into styling and caring for it. Yea the hair curlers have come out and once again being used

As I've done the last couple of years at the end of the summer I grew my hair out a bit and had it styled into a pageboy, I like it and I can get away with not wearing a wig.

I'm definitely becoming more aware of trying to treat my skin better, making tweaks to my diet, hydrating my skin etc... I guess that whilst this isn't specifically just a feminine thing to do, my motivations are definitely towards helping me to achieve softer skin and to feel more confident when I  dress up. I kinda believe that if this wasn't the end-goal, I would have probably stopped by now.

Hi girls

Living alone, I decided that I was going to dress EVERY day, simply because life is too short.

I now only wear drab for work or emergencies... haha.....smiles, grace 💋

I recently bought" HipPads".

I am having fun experimenting with them in my other foundation garments.

There is always something to improve upon. We' all never be DONE...EXHAUSTING!!

So, just accept it...work to do, never done!!

Love to all...Dr.T.J.

I just bought a high waisted open bottom Girdle, side zip, Black with 6 Garters and Berkshire Stockings.

WOW--They Both make me Feel so Feminine and out of site Girlish.

My makeup skills improved this year. While I look about the same, I am much more consistent. Previously I was good about 50% to 60% of the time.  That has jumped up to about 80% to 90%. I also am better at correcting mistakes.

The next thing is losing some weight. 4 years ago I had a mild stroke and became much more sedentary after that. I gained ~25 pounds, lost 20 and regained 10. I haven’t been on my bike since the stroke and that’s the reason for the weight gain. Before I was good for 55-60 miles. Unfortunately there was one one-going issue after my recovery. My balance hasn’t come back to what it was before. It is better now, but I would rate it as ~90% of what it was. Anyway, I hope to test the waters soon...

This has been the Year of the Gurl for Bettylou; I started early, by piercing my ears for Christmas and halting  haircuts.  Greatly expanded my wardrobe and started using it on a regular basis, along with my forms (which I bought earlier this year).  In May, I had my first perm at Ulta, with another set for next week.  And I go out shopping, fully-dressed at least once per week.

Also, though I can't take the credit for it, Bettylou has had three lunch dates, a movie date and a Girls' Day Out shopping with my wife (Bless her).

Growing out hair( it's a classy senior white). Trying to stealthy fem style it. May have a conversation with my stylist. I thinks she has suspicions. That' s ok.

taking care of personal hygiene matters. Skin, hair, nails. Moisturizer, mani-pedi, conditioners. Shave head to toe, including privates. I'm smooth.

Daily sunbathing ( I'm in a great climate)in string bikini for maximum tan-line effect. Love the look .

serious successful weight loss program ( 45 lbs so far). Diet/exercise gurls! Transformational. Possible prep for transition. I want to be "skinny" before hormonal replacement treatment and boob job.

i want to pass vocally and mannerly. Physically, not likely. But at 6"3 before heels , nice slim figure, Makeup, I feel/ look sexually attractive. Wearing perfume more often......it works!

reasearching transition.

thinking orchiectomy with estradiol patch. I think I could do this.

but I guess I could just buy the boobs instead.

more on that.........in the meantime .

i'm doing more tucking as I strive for the camel toe look in leggings/ shorty shorts. I like those faux vagina undies.

This year I have enlarged my collection of undies from 5/6 bras to 25 ,more panties, more pantyhose a few more suspender belts and girdles ,  more earrings and 3 rings ,started painting my toe nails and since the lock down wearing these items every day  (underdressed)for various periods of time during the day and wishing I had done this years ago ,but you can't turn back time ,so now can't wait to get out of bed and put on my lovely undies ,today should be able to wear all day .  Michelle  xx