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Morning. Sitting here dressed and was thinking what is the number 1 item that makes us the most feminine? For my self I must say my breast forms is my number 1 item that makes me feminine, nothing like the feel and look of breast forms. Gives me the true look of being female.
What is everyone's number 1 item that they feel the most feminine ?
Have fun! tc
@erinb i understand breat forms. Its a great item and makes a girl a lady. But my heels make me a queen!
Lets go in deeper, whats your second favorite?
Ps. I love this is the only place onbthe internet where this kind of poll does not turn into a lewd topic. Im proud to be part of this community!
@crazycynthia thank you for being a part of this wonderful community your question would be tuff it be hard between the dress and heels
@crazycynthia I wish I could do heels but at 6'6" I just can't pull it off. I don't love my flats
@erinb Gappy Thanksgiving, making pies for our family get together, and home alone so I a wearing Pink panties, Spanx's Legging, Bra 38D with my forms, knee high Uggs lined boots. Happy Baker.
Lynda
@lyndajones happy thanksgiving sounds like a lovely day in the kitchen I’m just relaxing in my all out purple outfit with my 9in heels
OMG! This is SO easy! Without doubt it's estradiol valerate. It's what makes my world go round!
/LK
@lizk had to look that up I had no clue what that was lol understand indeed thank you ☺️
I should clarify for everyone reading this thread.
Estradiol valerate is a form of estrogen. It's used in HRT.
/LK
@erinb While I selected breast forms and heels, I also chose Other, for stockings.
While I do have a pantihose, they really don't interest me as much as sexier stockings.
@harriette I'm with you on the pantyhose or tights as we call them in the UK is a no no for me. I way prefer my stockings and suspenders and try alway's to wear daily both
@erinb only tried my 1st forms 2 or 3 weeks ago and immediately fell in love. I've always loved my bras, panties, dresses, etc. but the forms do so much feeling feminine. Excellent poll BTW. Thanks.
@rikiinla thank you for participating these your first pair if so they be addicted in good ways always want wear them even if it’s 10 minutes then you start buying more of different sizes oooo yes I do love my forms thanks again
@rikiinla I must agree.
I had grown accustomed to wearing dresses and low-heeled mules at home (with of course, panties and bralette/camisole) underneath, but when I first donned some silicone breasts, it became a complete revolution.
Obviously, I then had to go on to acquire a wig and have made some headway since in the mysterious arts of mani/pedi and make-up.
It is truly a rabbit hole.
Love,
Katherine
@katherineboesemann since receiving mine I too have seen the Rabbit Hole up close and understand Alice In Wonderland's wild slide a little better. The look, feel, weight and bounce of my breasts are driving me further down the hole. lol
Riki
@erinb Heels and breast forms, but also skirts (especially tight fitting skirts), stockings, loose knit tops. Wow, I’ve got to go get dressed.
Hugs Christine
@erinb I'm definitely a shoes girl. I love my heels and boots so much. High heel over the knee boots are just the best! Of course, a cute dress to go with them is amazing too.
I put dresses first. That's when I can of course. Panties always. Then wig, makeup, bra. Along with shoes and sometimes hose.
Fran 🥰
@erinb: I voted panties, any style; except boyshorts. Panties were the first feminine item of clothing I ever tried on when I was 8 years old.
My last count from April 2023 was 194 pairs; some a pair and a spare, depending on the price. I've bought more newer panties since my last count; so I'm definitely over 200, maybe 300.
@brittney2016 wow 😮 that’s a few indeed I’m way behind I think I have 8-10 pairs lovely indeed
@erinb: Hi Erin; a couple of other reasons why I have so many panties. I bought my first panty in late 2015, I still have it, and I've never purged any of them. Also, I'm unable to wear panties while any of my family is at home; so they're not worn daily and I take very good care of them.
I bet your 8 to 10 panties are just as lovely as all of mine.
@brittney2016 completely understand mine 99.5 percent of the time only gets worn alone when dress .05 sometimes they sneak out the bedroom 🤗
@brittney2016 I’m not sure how many pairs of panties I own - I’ve lost count. Has to be in the hundreds but that includes lots which no longer fit me but I can’t discard - just in case lol.
Middle age spread is a reality but a terrible thing lol.
Hi everyone, I think the item that makes me feel the most feminine would have to be a tampon. When I use them, it's like a button has been turned on in me.
@allena2021 I have never worn a tampon so couldn’t say what that’s like. I did once question someone on here for saying she wore panty liners. At that time I was like why???
Then I gave it a try and now I understand. I now have sessions when I wear a liner - nothing to do with women’s menstrual cycle I must add - and really do find some benefit from them besides the sexiness of wearing a liner.
@erinb I love wearing everything, especially pantyhose. For as long as I can remember, I've worn pantyhose, heels and dresses. I had so many dreams and fantasies about wearing pantyhose and showing off my pretty legs to others with heels and a short dress.
@pattyphose they are a hot item here on CDH I understand your thoughts and feelings thank you ☺️
@erinb With my dreams, fantasies and desires to wear pantyhose and show off my pretty legs to others, I needed a plan and a way to do it. If I wore heels and dresses with my pantyhose, that would be the right combination, but I didn't want to be a boy dressed like that. I thought looking like a girl was the way to go.
I needed breasts. I made some from old pantyhose and stuffed them in my bra. I knew heels would make my legs look much better and sexier. Very important for what I wanted to do. A very short dress, skirt or shorts for maximum leg showing, and I had to have pretty hair. I had to have a wig.
At 17, I bought a pair of platform wedge shoes. They were popular with girls back then and I liked them a lot. It was so exciting buying them, even though I was in boy mode. I've been buying my own pantyhose since I was 13, in boy mode, and had several pairs ready to go. I bought several short girl's shorts. I decided I was going to show off my pantyhose legs in a pair of short shorts.
I was over the moon with thrills when I wore my outfit and saw myself in the mirror. I was close to being able to go out. I just needed a wig.
Buying all those items in boy mode was often exciting but not scary. I knew the wig I wanted as I had been admiring it in the window of a wig store. Every time I wanted go to in and buy it, I chickened out. The weather was getting warmer. I so wanted to put on my pantyhose, short shorts, platform wedge shoes with my breasts and get out and show my sexy legs in pantyhose. It was such a long time dream and fantasy, but I needed that wig to make it happen.
After a couple of months of endless visits to the wig and always chickening out, I came up with a story about needing a long hair wig for a play I was going to be in.
I mustered up as much nerve and courage as I could and went in. I manged to stammer, I need a long hair wig and I like the brown wavy one in the window. The woman there got the wig and let me try it on. OMG! WOW! What a thrill. I looked like a girl. I had pretty girl hair. Then she recommended another one in the same style but a lighter color. WOW! I loved that one too. At that time, I so wished I was dressed in my girly outfit so I could get the entire experience and leave the shop as a girl. I ended up buying both wigs.
Getting out took a bit of planning. I wore my pantyhose, short shorts and bra under my regular boy clothes. My wig, breast forms and shoes were in the trunk of my car. I drove to a nearby park and got those items out of the trunk. I slid off my long pants, exposing my sexy legs in pantyhose. WOW! OMG! AMAZING! I was so thrilled and excited. I slipped on my platform wedges and was blown away at my incredibly sexy legs in pantyhose. I put my breastforms in my bra, and carefully in the rear view mirror put on my wig. I felt so incredible. I loved how I looked.
I opened the car door a stuck my legs out. Seeing my long sexy legs, with my pantyhose shining in the sunlight was so breathtaking. After admiring them and gaining my composure, I stood up. I shut the car door. I did it. I was out as a girl, showing off my pretty legs in pantyhose.
There was some people near enough to see me. This is my chance I waited so long for. I mustered up as much nerve as I could and walked away from the car. I strolled around the park for a while letting myself be seen.
Then I got back in the car, drove around, stopped in a few more places and got out and walked around, showing my pretty legs in pantyhose. Over time, I got bolder and more daring and got closer to people. I went into stores, walked around, rode the escalators, and eventually doing what I thought was the ultimate, buying pantyhose while wearing pantyhose.
I was. My legs in pantyhose were in full and splendid view. I was so nervous. I was sweating and trembling. But I stayed on the line, paid for my pantyhose and walked out of the store. That's when I felt such an incredible rush and thrill.
I bought several more pairs of pantyhose that way. I always had the nervousness at first and the thrill and excitement afterwards. Then after thinking that was the most incredible thrill and experience ever, I decided to try shoe shopping.
That was an insane experience as was many other shopping and going out in public adventures. It was so many dreams an fantasies come true. I became a girl to show my legs in pantyhose and I was doing it. It was a crazy idea and ridiculous thing to do, but the excitement an thrills was incredible.
@pattyphose thank you Patty was a lovely surprise to read such an amazing touching reply so glad you where able to gain that confidence and courage and pulled the trigger regardless and adventured out thank you dearly for sharing with use lady’s TC
@erinb I had a fascination with legs in nylons for as long as I could remember. I loved to get close to the legs see the mesh in the nylons and touch them. That usually did not go over well with the ladies or my parents. So I was given my own stockings and pantyhose to play with and enjoy.
That nearly instantly increased my interest in other women's clothes. The ladies often wore heels. I found a pair and slipped them on. I enjoyed wearing them with my nylons. Then I noticed bras. They looked so nice and all the ladies wore them. I wanted one.
Then there was dresses. Girls looked so pretty in their dresses, nylons and heels. I wanted to dress and look like the and go out and have everyone see my pretty legs in nylons and my pretty dress.
This interest and desires started around 4 and 5. I wasn't able to get my own clothes and go out until I was 17, but I did begin buying my own pantyhose, bras and panties at 13. Every time I got a new item and put it on, I dreamed of the day when I would have everything I needed to be a pretty girl showing my legs in pantyhose to the world.
So as much as I loved and enjoyed the femme experience and dressing, I became a CD to wear pantyhose and show my legs in them in public.
@pattyphose did the ladys or parents question anything at that age or just thought you where having fun wearing them I wouldn’t even know what to think if my parents found out funny the small things we did as kids and what we became as an adult thanks for sharing ☺️
@erinb The ladies I got close to, usually under a table I'm sure were not pleased. So my mother, grandmother and aunt gave me their old hosiery, bras, heels and dresses. I was allowed to wear them in the house a long as my father wasn't home or we had company. So I did have support. They did know how much I loved being all pretty and showing my pretty legs in nylons.
@pattyphose understood indeed wonderful you had support at such a young age dose make me wonder what my mom would have done at that age probably hide everything 🤣
@erinb I sometimes wonder if I didn't have that level of support, encouragement and yes, even praise for being such a pretty girl in my nylons, i my interest would have just waned and went away.
But I do feel those early days of encouragement and support did give me the nerve and desire to eventually dress in public.
@pattyphose dose make use wonder I started young grew out in my teens probably cause I was always hanging with my friends probably wasn’t till my mid late 20s the fog hit me hard where I purged everyday know unfortunately I’m only able to dress a few times a month never been out still living the closest dream
@erinb I started out wearing stockings, pantyhose and heels at 4. I began buying my own pantyhose, bras and panties at 13. At 17, I bought a pair of platform wedge heels, several pairs of short girl's shorts, a couple of wigs and began going out dressed.
When I was 18, I got my own place and began buying every sexy femme item I always wanted and dreamed about. I had some incredible, sexy dresses, stiletto heels, lingerie and everything else a young, sexy girl could want. I dressed pretty much everyday and went out often.
Then I wore one of my sexiest and shortest dresses and a pair of stiletto heels, shiny tan pantyhose and one of my wigs to a Halloween Party at college. When I first got there and told some girls who I was, they looked at me with disbelief. Then I noticed guys looking at me. One of them told me, he never saw me before, introduced himself and began getting real nice with me. I told him who I was. He was shocked. These were people I went to school with. They were my classmates. We knew each other.
That night, I even met other dressers and socialized and partied with them often through college. If I didn't have classes, I would often dress femme and go about the campus. Even if I did have classes but with long breaks or just morning or afternoon classes, I knew of places I could change into femme mode and go about the campus. I never went to class en femme.
Unlike you, my dressing was at its maximum in my teens and college years.
@pattyphose so wonderful yes indeed I say so truly amazing adventure for ya especially the college years that’s so wonderful
@erinb That was my prime. I took every opportunity to dress femme and show off my legs in pantyhose. A college campus was an ideal place to do that.
I think if I was in college today, I might have just identified as femme and dressed the entire time, even to classes
@pattyphose I love to show off my legs. The rest of me, maybe not so much, but at the risk of seeming biased, I do think I have a great pair. I just posted some photos on my profile, so I think you'll agree.
P.S. You've got great legs too!
@rayna Thank you Raina. I've been fortunate and blessed to have female family members who understood my love especially of pantyhose and other femme items and supported me by letting me have my own girly clothes.
My dream and fantasy some day was to wear pantyhose and go outside showing my pretty legs to other people. I spent many years working on making those dreams and fantasies come true.
You have great legs. You definitely should show them.
@pattyphose Thank you so much. I did show them, but very briefly last Friday while I was out for a drive and stopped for gas at a self serve. But I was the only one at the pumps and everyone else driving by didn't seem to notice. There's a McDonald's across the street too, so it was a pretty busy spot.
@rayna I think just being out dressed, wearing pantyhose and showing legs is very exciting and an incredible thrill.
When I first began going out, I kept a distance where I could be seen and where I was not so nervous. A little at a time, I got closer to people, walking past and even among them. What a rush that was. Then I went into stores, walked around, looked at femme clothes and got this idea to ride on escalators to show my legs in pantyhose to those behind me.
Then when I went as far as I thought I could go, I did what I thought would be the ultimate, buy pantyhose while wearing pantyhose in femme mode.
I was so scared and nervous when I got on the cashier line. I was sweating and shaking, but I saw it through, got my pantyhose and walked out of the store. That's when I felt such an incredible rush of excitement. It was so intense, I had to focus on walking and keeping my composure. I began buying lots of pantyhose that way. The whole experience was thrilling. I thought that had to be the ultimate femme experience, until I got the idea to go shoe shopping en femme and walk about the store modeling my shoes and myself to other customers.
After I did these things, I often wondered how I had the nerve to do them. It was desire and wanting the experience. In college I went way beyond the pantyhose and shoe shopping. But those were very bold and the building blocks to my college dressing experiences.
@erinb I a selected "dresses" on the poll but to me there's nothing that makes me feel more feminine than bracelets. I love big shiny cuffs and stretch bracelets and would love to wear stacks of shiny plastic bangles but my hands are too big for them. That said, I don't feel fully dressed without bracelets, and sometimes I wear them even if I'm not wearing any other feminine things.
@erinb first of all I want to say, I am absolutely a shoe w#$%e.
However forms are a 24/7 item for me. They are so very calming. They relax me and give me that fem assurance.
Trisha
@trisha283 unfortunately I only have 3 pairs of heel just actually received my 3rd pair today waiting for my new dress and my first breast plate supper excited to try one out I completely understand your feelings on wearing them I sure wish I could wear mine a lot more thank you for the reply ☺️
@erinb to expand slightly, i have 5 different sizes of forms. Ranging between 400g to 1600g. I where 1200 to bed 1600 when dressed and 400, 600, 800 during drab time. Size depends on temp. More clothes = larger forms. Haven't had a single comment so far.
@erinb on me, assuming for all, 200 is a B. 800 C etc. Each inch above band is a cup size
@trisha283 understood indeed also soon found out just cause you buy a size there based off the smallest band size so I usually have to go up to bigger ones to come down to my size I like if that makes sense
@trisha283 It doesn’t work that way. For example, cup size of a 38C is the same as a 40B or 42A (it goes by the name of sister sizing) so taking this example any particular weight of form could be a number of sizes depending on the band size of a wearers bra and therefore the size of the breast ( or forms) of any particular person. A large woman with small breasts may well have more breast tissue than a small woman with large breasts. Same goes for breast forms.
Morning. Sitting here dressed and was thinking what is the number 1 item that makes us the most feminine? For my self I must say my breast forms is my number 1 item that makes me feminine, nothing like the feel and look of breast forms. Gives me the true look of being female.
What is everyone's number 1 item that they feel the most feminine ?
Have fun! tc
I really like the part in the morning, lol. I love getting up early and showering then getting ready for the day. My favorite thing s to ware , pantyhose, panties, nice skirt, n heels. I’d love to go out f dressed , like a restaurant or nightclub, but haven’t stretched that far out yet. I have pumped gas n went in a store for awhile, n a park. Have you ventured out??
@pattik unfortunately I have not stepped out of the closet except to my garage lol
@erinb Hi Erin for me I love nylons no 1 and pantyhose love the reinforced toes I do agree with you forms paired with a nice outfit mine is my vintage dresses love the thought of doing a photo shoot for males with Lilly all femme x.
@erinb Hi Erin,
for me what makes me feel oh so feminine is sheer thigh high stockings.
Thanks for the post girl.
@erinb my second favourite would be panties. But as l said my very favourite is skater skirts. I only have 4 skater skirts currently but l intend on getting more. I have recently started wearing them outside in the back yard.
@candycross understand unfortunately I have to many neighbors if I can’t cover it up I don’t wear I do swim in a speedo tho lol kinda makes me feel like a 2 piece with out the top lol 😂
@erinb l also wear kilts so l don't think my neighbours take any notice when l wear skater skirts
@erinb That's easy. Panties. I was pretty much just a panty wearing guy but now I have a closet full of dresses, bras, lingerie, and shoes. Panties were the gateway drug for crossdressing. I still remember getting my first garter belt (gasp), stockings, and then a bra and they I just went full crossdressing during COVID.
@mollylace understand indeed is the first item you put on and the last item you take off also a great item to wear 24/7 being able to cover very easily thank you ☺️ for sharing with use
@cdamber thank you ☺️ have to agree thongs are a hot item as a CD I only have a few pairs but many G strings I own lol as we see from the votes it’s the number 1 item
@erinb Love you thought of this idea. And love how it is showing what us gurl think is fem and sexy
Amber
To me, there is nothing more feminine then a pretty bra. I really enjoy skirts too. I can wear pants anytime while in male mode, but a skirt on the other hand... 😊
@erinb love the poll, I voted heels as they ooze femininity. Second would be breast forms. Katie.
@erinb I have to say my breast forms, but I just love Rago Lacette Shapewear. I usually wear a White 9357 open-bottom briefer with nylons. I love white lingerie. That started when I first began cross-dressing. The shaping is what I love. It enhances my body and makes me look more feminine. I have been wearing Rago for 15 years. My Rago is right behind my breast forms.
@elizabethjean thank you ☺️ tired a corset once but seem to suffocate me couldn’t do it lol 😂
@erinb I'm with you there Erin. Tried a corset at a makeover once and just couldn't handle the restrictiveness of it. Enjoyed the hip pads though xx.
@erinb One of my all-time favorites is the Bali Lace n' Smooth body briefer. It's an all-day lace style body shaper that is not restrictive and touches all the points. I consider it more lingerie than girdlesque.
@elizabethjean sounds lovely indeed I do have to apologize tho I haven’t herd tell of one these items I’m going to have to check this out thank you for sharing 🤗
I actually think it's the bra that welcomes the beautiful breast forms. I LOVE my bras!
@cdbobbi70 Absolutely agree. IMHO there is nothing that is quite so exquisitely feminine as the gentle hug of a well-fitting bra. I enjoy the way that the cup my moobs and the way the back strap hugs me just below my shoulder blades.
For me, wearing a well fitting bra is an absolute taste of the Devine.
@erinb for me it has to be my bra. I have just bought myself some new undewired bras which fit me hand-in-glove style, and that's without forms. They make me feel so sexy and feminine.
@erinb Don’t get me wrong Erin, I do love wearing forms in some of my larger cup bras or even going braless with a breastplate from time to time, but the feeling isn’t quite the same. If one has moobs that can fill the cup of ones bra correctly i.e. fill the bra without forms, then the thrill of wearing that bra is a whole new experience. Feeling the cups caress one’s natural breasts whilst feeling the band of the bra sitting, hugging, the back in exactly the right place, without riding up or having the bra straps dig into the shoulders, i.e. wearing a bra that truly fits one’s own figure is just a different level and much superior to needing forms to pad out the cups of (what is in reality) an oversized bra.
@lamm indeed I understand I must say I never bought one just for the natural may have to try this and see thank you ☺️
@erinb Oh Boy. Yes, I love my breasts, their bra, my long hair, pantyhose, my female boots, makeup, panties. Impossible to name just one.