Would you allow yourself to become a fully feminised husband?

OMG

it's probably just my existential crisis talking but, hell yes 😀💕

What was your initial reaction Harietta ??

My initial reaction was interest. I am not yet married to this girl. But it would become an ongoing exclusive submissive situation. My activities, my mobility and my look would all be dictated. She is gorgeous and tasteful and has already given me some amazing dresses and shoes. She's a former hairdresser and already does my hair up in some lovely updos, braids and curls. I am due for what Sherrie calls an "inescapably feminine hair colour", something that I would not wear in drab.

I also love the male stuff I do. I like sailing, skating, x-country skiing, cycling, woodworking. It would be bye-bye to all that.

I'd like to dress more, and I am excited to be with someone who loves me as Harietta so I am going to see if it can be an occasional extended thing....

Yes, theoretically.  I find the idea tempting, also, but it would be impossible for my situation.  My wife could never assume the dominant role in our life, so I could never let go.  But the thought of being a full-time girl is an interesting fantasy to consider.

IMO, that poll needs a 3rd option, because for  some girls, the answer is conditional.

<p style="text-align: left;">Great Question Harietta.</p>
I would definitely give it a trial. O  I envy your circumstances!

It's possibly she does work in some of the activities you one enjoyed.  Can you imagine how awesome those outfits would look on you!  She may enjoy them too.

Please keep us updated!

Hugs,

Gabrielle

Hi Harietta i would definitely be interested in becoming a fully feminised husband if my wife would understand my desire to be a Crossdresser, to be able to dress 24/7 as Rozalyne would be a dream come true, it would not bother me if she wanted to change my fem name as long as i could dress up in my dresses and not have to wear my drab man clothes, it would be so nice to have her take me out shopping and pick any clothes she thinks would suit me xxxxx

I said yes for I would love it where I can stay dressed up all pretty and no care in the world what people think.   I love dressing up as a female but I am in the closet still and would love to come out of it., my wife knows I dress up but does not help with make up or even have me sit in same room as her when I am dressed up. but she lets me know when I can dress up for we still have a 22 year old son still at home.   but I do under dress every day, until this cold weather gets better.

The roles have been completely fluid for some time in my household.

Initially, I was the breadwinner, steady, respectable job, and my wife studied for her law degree and brought up our daughter, tending to the home and all the stereotype stuff.

Then she obtained the qualification and quickly rose to a senior position, taking time out for our two sons, while my job stagnated and I took on more household chores, school collections, kids teas and stuff.

She was now the breadwinner, and I got made redundant, putting me temporarily into a full time housewife role.

The days were great, as I could dress to my heart's content, in the house, do the chores and live the stereotype - but, at the time, I didn't dare go out like that.

The house, garden and kids were kept very well!

Then I got a better job, but my wife's commute meant that I had to squeeze as much into an evening as I could - kid collection, as my job was local, feeding, washing, etc.

Before I go through my life story, the summary is that I no longer think in terms of domesticated women as typical - in other words, housework is not a woman's domain any more than it is for a man. It's just something that needs to be done by whoever has capacity to do it.

Now our jobs are more closely aligned, except I have no intention of moving to the executive, being far more of a worker, at least a worker with pride in what they do and aspirations to be among the best at the job.

We share the chores equally, and get the children involved - working and playing as a family unit is the aim, and we all enjoy the benefits as well as sharing the horrible jobs!

Now, if only I can persuade my wife that equality also applies to clothing (which it logically does,  of course)...

I don't need to be feminised, just myself!

Love Laura

Hello princess, well my first impulse would be to accept and say yes, I think that everyone here already knows me a little enough to know how feminine I am and that I would like to assume the feminine role in a relationship, however if I were in your position, I would ask myself this question to be sure of my decision, the question would be this: this fantasy or lifestyle proposed to me, is satisfactory enough for me to give up the freedom to decide about my own life, my favorite activities and my identity male? Will this new lifestyle bring me long-term peace when my decision-making power is no longer in my hands but in the hands of my partner? ... Life and my God have taught me that the impulses and emotions only,  are not good counselors in many cases, but you have to put a little reason and think about the consequences, not only immediate but in the medium and long term ... being a feminized husband is my fantasy too, but I don't know if I would be willing to give up my right to decide about my own life, I think I would like more a flexible agreement where I could make my own decisions while being feminine and satisfy the wishes of my partner ... hugs, happiness and good luck and wisdom in your decision, tell us how you are doing princess, felicity

My dressing does not go past one piece swimsuits and breast forms, but if I had a girl in my life who accepted my love of swimsuits, I would cross that line if it made her happy. At the very least, I would then have a valid excuse of "My girl likes it and I like her too much to refuse" and I could still wear my swimsuits...but more often and maybe even fulfill my desire to go swimming in one during the daytime.

I would. But thats me. I already am trying to be en femme 100% of the time so i dont think my opinion applies. Good luck honey! Elizabeth

If it was only possible to become a fully feminized husband. She wouldn't have ask twice. I'm already feminizing myself in small but steady steps.

Hi Harietta ,

I'm not fully feminised in terms of maids outfit but I do crossdress , am gender fluid & I am my wife's housewife , I'm naturally submissive to her .

I may not fully crossdress all the time but I am extremely feminine in my posture , body language & mannerisms etc - she gives me the freedom to express this at home , in public , with it without her. I'm often called Princess or wife again in public or home. For me being feminised is more the clothes it's being feminine in either male or female mode. My jewellery , casual clothing , panties , gym gear is all feminine & I'm in it constantly...I enjoy being this way , it works in our relationship , neither of us would change this & are both happy & proud of my fluidity & crossdressing.

. I'm self employed & as such I can take the time to run our house , taking pressure off her at the end of the day / week. Her happiness is paramount to me 🌹🌹

No way!  I'm nobody's slave.  I refuse to have someone tell me what I have to wear, where and when I can go somewhere, how I have to look, what color my hair will be dyed.

I have lived as Alison for the better part of the last 8 weeks since this pandemic.  While it is fun, I still have to appear as my male self at times.  This is not something I want to do full time for the rest of my life.

This may be a fantasy of forced feminization fiction sites, but is this what you really want?  She is going to tell you you can't see your own friends without her permission?  Or your family?  Is she going to punish you if someone in your family gets sick and you have to go to help?  You can't worship the way you want without her permission?  You can't even choose your own clothes?

This sounds more like what a cult would do to cut you off from everybody else.  I'd run the other way as fast as I could.