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Hi Girls, yes its that time of the week again! poll time!!
Now this subject is quite close to home for me and i think it's a natural progression in many of our journeys. To sum it up in a nutshell, yes, i would like to meet someone else who is a crossdresser, mainly because, they also know what it's like, unlike a non-crossdresser who might not have a clue. It would be nice to share stories, life experiences etc, with no sexual strings attached, just purely friendship. Now this i suppose, could be a dodgy subject, let's keep it clean!!! i dont want anyone to discuss any sexual motivations, just purely friendship and the fact that you would like to meet up with someone else and just talk, have a bit of fun or socialising. There, that wasn't so bad!!
Love and kisses. Fiona xxxx
I certainly would, for some camaradarie and to not be alone...
Fi!;
Sorry, had to answer Other, because the option I wanted wasn't there.
I HAVE joined a local group and it's been so much better than I could have even imagined. There are girls at all stages and it really really made a big difference to my mental state. I love the forums and the occasional times I get a chance to talk on the Chat, but having an evening a month to dress and be with other girls has been such a sanity saver for me.
I would answer 'Yes most certainly'; But I have noticed that some of the girls crave a little more than friendship. Still love the group, but a little wary of one-on-one type get together type invitations, so it's a guarded answer
Still, I must say it was one of the most important things I've done for myself, and it really cemented the "This is not uncommon" understanding in a way that this site couldn't do as well, or at least as quickly, with words
Thanks for your wonderful polls.
-Molly
Definitely. Would be awesome to be around someone who feels the same and to have a friendship with. Would help me to get mentally prepared to go out all dolled up.
I would rather meet women who are sympathetic to the cause and would feel more comfortable meeting their other CD friends. (does that make sense?)
Anyhow, I will be 70 in a couple of years and never met one yet so what's the chance of that happening?
Sally xx
A qualified yes... but ONLY for friendship and support. Anything more scares me!
Never say never Sally!!!
Fiona xxxx
I think it's the pipe and slippers that put people off Fi 🙂
Sally xx
I said yes definitely, because it would give me someone who knows exactly how I feel, we could discuss the latest fashion's and other issues, and maybe we could go out en femme to a venue or just for a meal, I'm sure it would give me more courage to step out of that closet door and face the world x maybe sometime in the future you never know what will happen xxxxx
Big yes. It can be hard to keep myself contained when I meet one in person, not wanting to break whatever they're feeling, ntm how much I would prefer to befriend one closer to my age. It would be such a relief to have that connection!
Sorry Fee! I added the last two options... as "Other" was just too generic. 🙂 Gladly, I have met lots of our sisters in person. Both presenting as Gaby as just going out for lunch with "the guys".
Definitely. Anyone who I could talk to freely in person with about this would be wonderful. Granted I wouldn't want to go in with any preconceptions for what I'd get out of it but even if it was just that I'd have another friend then it would be worth it.
Yes; I definitely would. Not necessarily for any sexual encounters but for friendship and mentoring. I would love to have a friend to share experiences and frustrations with, someone who could be a sounding board re; makeup, fashion, etc
Yet another great question, Fiona
My answer - 'I have already met one or many other CDs in person while presenting as a woman'
However, had you asked that same question just a few months ago, it would have been the 'Yes, most certainly' option.
I took the opportunity this year to finally get myself to a couple of events where I could dress for the whole weekend in the company of many like minded people. It was wonderful - it all felt so very natural and comfortable and certainly reinforced my feelings about dressing. So the plan now is to attend as many of these type of events as I can, which, for me, means travelling to the UK as unfortunately I have yet to find anything similar in Ireland.
Isabel xx
Thanks for another great poll! I am looking forward to this Spring when Gwenn and I attend a conference, this will also be my first time out unless something happens between now and then. So yup gonna get a chance to meet a few folks.