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Hi girls I saw this on a site that many would not find acceptable however I thought this post was worth sharing.
10 transgender tips to feeling confident and sexy when out in public.
1. leave your inner critic at home
2. Infuse your days with Joy
3. Go out at least once a week
4. Read something racey on the train,bus or carpool
5. smile very chance you get
6. Look others in the eye
7. Use a firm but gentle handshake
8. Show your sense of humor
9. Stand upright with your shoulders back
10. Accept compliments graciously
I need to follow these rules myself
Patty
Hi Patty,
Great post - makes you think 🙂
I suspect the first one is the most important and all too often is then thing that holds us back.
The rest are good too, with exception of no. 4. I don't really think that belongs in there.
No. 9 should maybe be 'Stand and walk...' Men and women stand and walk (and sit, for that matter) quite differently and it's something we all need to work on.
There are probably loads more people can think of, but these are a great thought-provoking start.
Isabel x
Hi Isabel,
You are probably right on #4 as it wasn't my list.
#9 I can see though as I have a poor posture and being tall I could see me not having a nice posture.
and not walking very ladylike.
all in all I thought it was a good list though..
Thanks for the reply.
Patty
Hi, Patty!
Thank you for sharing this!
I noticed a couple of comments about #4 - and while I certainly enjoy a tastefully written bit of erotica now and then...it could easily be replaced with: "Read something that supports and/or improves our feminine qualities"...for those who don't...
Hugs!
Shawna
Hi Shawna,
You are correct I think On #4 that is a good revision to the list.
Right on girl.
Isabel,You are right #1 is my biggest weakness in going out enfemme (which I haven't done fully dressed yet)
Thats the one that I see told over and over.
Confidence is the key to being accepted,It is my biggest weakness I am afraid.
Patty
I have to always remind myself to keep those shoulder back and chest out.
Hi Patty,
Thanks for sharing the 10 items. Love #2.
Alice
I wouldn’t mind infusing my days with Joy, but sadly she is already taken...
I am really sorry DeeAnn,
Patty
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Not a problem. It’s sort of an inside joke, but it does have a universal meaning...
