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An interesting hypothetical:
You are out with friends, CD, Straight or gay male or female. The establishment is a nice 'T' friendly club and your group has a nice dance floor side table. A couple of your friends have alerted you to a man across the floor has had his eye on you for a little while. He's not a Matt Damon or Brad Pitt clone, just an average male. You see him stand and walk toward your table and very gentlemanly asks YOU for a dance or two. The DJ is known to put a couple of slow numbers in the mix through the night, and it is approaching that time.
What is your reply to his request and if you go out on the floor with him, do you stay until the slow songs and make an excuse to go back to your table, or do you stay and dance until you both need a break? Do you invite him to your table or let him go back to his own table/group of friends?
Now ladies, think about it for a few minutes, let's hear the what if's, no's and yes's. Do you give him some preconditions such as no hands below the waist or 6" separation between the both of you, etc.?
I for one would definitely take him up on his offer and dance until we both needed a short break, fast and slow dances, maybe let his hand drop to my tush in the slow ones. It would definitely require at least one set to see his behavior, for sure, but no grinding, I reserve that for people I have known for a while.
Hmm, interesting question.
First off, I am not much of a dancer, I am also a happily married, straight male. I would certainly feel uncomfortable dancing with a man, but since it would be just for fun I would accept the invitation because I feel it is important to try things that make us uncomfortable, to step outside our comfort zone. Yes, and hands above the waist!! At the end of the night I would go home with my wife.
No, but thank you so much for asking!
If it's a GG, then it's a yes from me every time!
Love Laura
I love dancing! I would dance until we needed a break or the slow song came on. Definitely no touching below the waist or anywhere else his hands should not be.
i am honestly not sure. i don’t dance because of my clumsiness secondary to my neuromuscular issues and my amputation, but i would like to and i might be tempted to try a slow dance but no hands below the waist. i am not that kind of girl
Yes I would accept and stay until the end of the set or we needed a break, But I would return to my friends after all came with them go home with them that is our rules when we go out as a group.
Diane
Been in such situation a couple times. For me, being married doesn’t change when out as Gaby, so it would be the same the same answer I know my wife would have if she was in that situation. A simple “no, thank you”.
Ah sure, then the question may be “Why did you go to a party/bar without your spouse if you didn’t want to have fun?” Well, if I was there was only to spend time with friends, and after all, somebody has to keep an eye on the purses and coats huh?
Gaby
A wonderful reply, Gaby! Just because you are in a bar with dancing does not mean you are looking to dance 💃
Happened many years ago but I would say be careful. I was in a club and was dancing with some other CD's to a fast song. All of a sudden this guy came onto the floor and started dancing with us. Then they started playing a slow song. He asked me to dance but soon held me uncomfortably close. I was caught off guard but after the song was over I thanked him and went back to our table. A few minutes later he asked me to dance again. Told him no. Finally I had to tell him to leave me alone. I was upset with myself for being allowed to be put in this situation.
<p>I would definitely accept his dance proposal and would stay until I was tired. I don’t think I would mind at all if his hand dropped below my waist. I have done this in the last and it was fun and I will do it again.</p><p>hugs</p><p>K</p>
