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I've noticed that when I write blog threads and add posts to them every so often, it's great for the first few updates, over maybe a couple of weeks. I certainly get the impression that what I'm writing is being reasonably well-received. But then it drops off a cliff and there's barely any reaction or replies to my later posts, even though in my current thread, I've been continuing to grow in confidence and push the envelope of my femme experiences in almost every one.
I don't mean to presume any interest, but given the level of engagement early on, I'm just puzzled by the sudden change as the thread continues. In my mind, things are only getting better and more interesting as my 24/7 time living as Fiona progresses. I'm wondering if somehow, people just aren't seeing the later updates.
So, I thought that I would post this thread to provide descriptions and direct links to the major updates in my 'Living the Dream' blog thread - hence the title. Follow them and you won't have to read all the way through the blog to get to that part.
May 17th - start of my Fiona time. Includes coming out to the Admin team of my car club, and a lovely sunset.
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/postid/515772/
May 18th - Round the charity shops and the supermarket, including lots of feminine interactions.
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/postid/515941/
May 23rd - A visit to my OH (in drab) and thoughts about our relationship.
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/postid/516494/
May 25th - Actually, not a lot happens in this one but I do order some new glasses for Fiona, en femme 🙂
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/postid/516886/
May 27th - A visit to the gardens of a local stately home in a favourite lightweight dress, and back via the supermarket.
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/postid/517205/
June 3rd - Communication re-established with my OH 🙂
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/postid/518188/
June 3rd - Coming out to my oldest friend and attending a couple of excellent concerts.
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/postid/518193/
June 3rd - Pride, my new glasses arrive, and an afternoon out in the park in a summer bodycon dress.
https://www.crossdresserheaven.com/community/postid/518209/
Perhaps you should be checking whether or not you are still getting views rather than replies. It seems to move with software updates, but right now it is at the top of the first page of the thread. If you are getting the same number (approximately) of views per update, then you know people are interested even if they are not replying.
If you have a significant update, you can also post it to a new thread.
Good point by Alison. I have followed your exploits for ages but don't necessarily have anything to say. Fiona too has a good point and perhaps you should start a new thread each time. I've only followed on from a long post a couple of times and it is true, once a thread gets too long people lose track and can't be bothered to try to catch up -- I've done it myself.
Becca
@d44 @alison-anderson @rebeccabaxter
Thank you all for your sage advice ladies 🙂 Alison, I hadn't even realised there was a view counter, that's a very good point and I'll remember to keep an eye on that in the future (although the threads are all public-facing so there will doubtless be 'bots and search engine crawlers in the count). But it would seem that new threads for new topics is the way to go.
Hugs to you all,
Fiona xxx
KayDee, many congratulations for making your debut out in the world honey * hugs *
That's wonderful to read, and very validating that I might have played some part in your journey to experiencing that glorious freedom to be yourself. Thank you so much for saying so 🙂 I wish I was in Toronto next week, I hope you have a lovely time!
I'm about to go away in drab for the rest of the weekend with my OH, in the campervan. A bit of a reset, I think it will do some good for our relationship and also my internal relationship with Fiona. I will be back during the coming week, maybe early, maybe later on. I will hopefully have something rather nice to share with everyone 🙂
Another vote for new forum topics. Fiona, you know I care deeply about your blossoming situation and so hope that things work out as well as you wish.
Hugs, Chrissie xx.