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Hi Ladies, I hope this finds you all safe, well and virus free.
I had a lovely session with Jessica today, my therapist of 6 years. To catch you up, she's only known for 2 weeks about my 50 year journey as a CD'er.
I told her about my special Monday night where I got dressed to the nines' cooked dinner, sat in my favorite chair and watched the news. All as Jasmine. I'd never done that before. I've been suffering thru chronic back problems the last 4 months and I told I finally got fed up and decided back or no back I was going to get dressed. I made the offhand comment about "Do you know how tough it is to put thigh high's on when your back is killing you?"
OMG, it opened up a whole new convo with her. We laughed and she came up with an idea that I'd been using for a few weeks. She said "Last time I put them on, I used gloves so I didn't get any runs". I told her that I had some silk liners for my winter, photo gloves and was using those to cover up my rough hands. We laughed together and had girl talk the rest of the hour. it was awesome!
We communicated today on a level that I thought impossible just a few , short months ago.
Have a great day everyone and know that you all are always in my thoughts and prayers.
Lotsa Love,
Jasmine
It makes life so much more enjoyable when you are able to communicate freely with your therapist. It sounds as if the burden has been lifted and you are now travelling down a new free road of discovery for Jasmine. The world is your to enjoy.
Thank you Jasmine...that's a lovely story...your Monday evening sounded dreamy.
Grace.
That sounds wonderful, Jasmine, both the evening and the telling.
It is so liberating, when we finally disclose ourselves to another.
Keep moving forward girlfriend
Hugs, Regi👸💕
Greetings Requal,
What an eloquent way to put it. Thank you. It surely does feel like I am finally free to discuss anything with her. I don't mean to sound sexist at all but I am very glad that my therapist is a woman. I've always gotten along with them so much better than men.
I can't even imagine telling another man (who is not versed in this subject). When I was in HS all of my buddies GF's were good friends of mine. We would all go out together and they would gleen the inner workings of a guy (me) and always said "Why can't so and so be as understanding as you are?" I reveled in it and learned so much from them as well. I was the only guy I knew, who was permanently stuck in the "Friend Zone" and loved every minute of it. 🙂
Now I have someone with whom I can talk to, about anything, and that is such a blessing.
Take care and thanks again for your lovely comment,
Warmest Regards,
Jasmine.
Hi Grace,
I never have a hard time remembering your name as it's the same as my late mother. 🙂 You are so right. This last 6 weeks or so has been, and continues to be, a voyage of discovery for me. Every time I turn around, I'm thinking of another way to enjoy Jasmine. Sometimes, it's just little things. Having the time to actually enjoy CD'ing W/O worrying about kids or wives coming back early or barging in, has been the toughest part to get used to. But a very good problem to have! 🙂
Take care lady and I'll talk to you later,
Lotsa Hugs,
Jassy
Hi Lisa,
Well, I'm a late bloomer. I'm slow, but I get there in the end. lol Over the years, she and I have discussed the most intimate details of my life (sans CD'ing) from birth to present day. And for years I always felt like a liar for not telling her. (And I hate liars) But all I had to use for reference was the limited, interactions I had with each of my wives, over the years and just how badly that went. Those interactions, were ultimately responsible for me putting my urges on a shelf, waaaaaay in the back of the closet, for 50 years.
But I'm not a bitter person by nature and don't look on it as time lost. I view it as a learning experience and it gave me time to mature so that now, I have been blessed/rewarded with all the time I want, to do those things that bring me joy. And that's not a bad place to be. 🙂
Take very good care of yourself and thank you so much for your comment.
Warmest Regards,
Jasmine
Hi Regine, you are so right. I am smiling as I type this. 🙂 Liberating is the perfect word. At 62, I thought I had experienced all the "Suprises" that life had to offer. Boy, was I wrong!! lol Have a lovely day and thanks so much for your comments on this and other posts I've made. I sure appreciate it.
Warmest Regards,
Jassy
