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Hi Everyone! I've been away from the site for a few months. Why, you ask? Well, I was conducting a half ass experiment to see if being involved with a site for and about crossdressers increased, decreased or had no effect on my desire to crossdress. So, I stayed away.
What have I learned? I learned that I couldn't wait to feel the gentle hug of a bra, the swish of a skirt or hear the click clack of heels. I didn't even slow down the frequency of my crossdressing let alone stop.
So, why stay away? There's no reason to stay away. I'm a crossdresser site or no site. Might as well try to enjoy myself a little.
Hugs all
Jillian
Welcome back after your journey of self exploration dear! We missed you and are joyous at your return to us.
Lady Veronica
welcome again and why stop, we x dress for a reason and that is to let our fem side out.
I just wanted, no needed to be sure that I wasn't being led astray by the fem-fatales 😉 here at CDH. Nah...if there's any leading being done, I'm leading myself.
Hi, I have done the same thing and came to the same conclusion; That my desire to crossdress did not diminished by staying away from this site. So I am here to stay.
I dressed a lot in college and had a very extensive and nice wardrobe of every feminine item of clothing you can imagine. After college I continued to dress but less frequently as time went by. Life intervened. New challenges and interests opened up. I donated or discarded most of my clothes.
Years later, kids grew up and went out on their own. That was incredibly tough. The wife pointed out, it's like we are back where we started. You can dress up all girly again if you want.
I went to my little stash of some of my favorite outfits I kept. I put one of them on. It was a bit strange wearing it, but nice. When I slipped on the heels. I was surprised at how comfortable and natural they felt after not wearing them for so long. I put on a wig. it was kind of tangled and needed some brushing out.
It was strange seeing an older me in the mirror. I was surprised I had the nerve to dress so sexy when I was young. Now it was time to wander out of the bedroom and show my wife like I had done so many years ago.
She looked at me, smiled and said, "you need some new clothes". We went out and bought a few things. I began wearing them around the house everyday. We kept upgrading and improving my wardrobe. I discovered Femme Fever and got involved with several of their events.
I dress everyday at home and go out as often as I can even for just short errands. It's scary at times but exciting and a thrill and rush I just can't get from anything else.
Our desire or need to cross dress and be and present fem doesn't go away. It's part of who we are. Don't fight it. Just embrace and enjoy it.
hello every one, i x dress no matter what its not a site i join that makes me want to dress up more, its my fem side that wants to dress up. so saying joining a site does not make me want to dress up more. i love reading others on how they started, learn what their wife's think and say, learn how to deal with wife to understand my fem side. learn how to apply make up better and most of all i can chat with others and tell my side and they listen and understand.
