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A Week as Lauryn

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Lady
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(@laurynvalentine)
Trusted Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 1 year ago

My wife is pretty supportive of me being Lauryn at home but I try to keep it balanced. it is about 30% during the day and 100% at night. She made a last minute decision to visit her mother for a week. With a lot of help from my therapist and a lot of work on my part I have realized that I identify fully as a female and if I would love to transition fully but more likely will find a transition place that fits with my life .

I am going to use this week to live fully as a female at home. Day and night. Waking up from my cute girl pjs and getting to head into the closet and pick out my outfit will be so wonderful. Time to go deep into the wardrobe and wear everything but the lovely wedding dress ( I hope to wear some day). My goal is fully femme whenever I am in the house and part femme outside the house. I have a huge girl collection and it’s time to wear it all, just not all at once lol.

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(@cdashley)
Joined: 5 years ago

Noble Member     Oshawa, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 1489

@laurynvalentine Enjoy yourself hun, sounds like a great week for you.

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Lady
(@denises924)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Massachusetts, United States of America
Posts: 210

@laurynvalentine 

This sounds wonderful Lauryn. I would welcome this opportunity more than a regular vacation any time. Best wishes for a lovely, feminine week. I'm sure it will be delightful.

Denise
❤️

 

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Ambassador
(@jacquelinelarkspur)
Joined: 1 year ago

Famed Member     Gateshead, Tyne and Wear, United Kingdom
Posts: 1497

@laurynvalentine 

Have a super week! You are fortunate to have an understanding wife, it makes a vast difference.

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Ambassador
(@lucyb112)
Joined: 2 years ago

Noble Member     Staffordshire, United Kingdom
Posts: 1005

@laurynvalentine 

Yes you’re lucky to have a supportive wife, but still, a week alone to be femme will be great. Enjoy x

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Lady
(@jwhite)
Joined: 1 year ago

Reputable Member     Fort Collins, Colorado, United States of America
Posts: 159

@laurynvalentine Lauryn, sounds like an exciting week. Please keep us updated,

Jamie

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Duchess
(@loneleycd)
Joined: 5 years ago

Famed Member     Roland, Iowa, United States of America
Posts: 2157

@laurynvalentine Enjoy your time as Lauryn.  Happy you have a supportive wife. 

Cassie 

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Duchess Annual
(@isabella22)
Reputable Member     Ottawa, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 6 years ago

Great for you Lauryn, even though my wife is very supportive, I enjoy more periods of time by myself where I can truly expressed myself en femme. Enjoy and post some of your accomplishments.

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Duchess Annual
(@blondsherri)
Honorable Member     Missoula, Montana, United States of America
Joined: 7 years ago

Oh boy Lauryn, sounds to me like some pretty good times to have for yourself. Hope we get to see a picture or two. What fun is to be had.

Sherri

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

You are lucky Lauryn to have a supportive wife. Enjoy your time and hope you find that area of transition that will work for you both.

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Hostess
(@cdsue)
Famed Member     Delaware, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Lauryn -

That is lovely that your wife is so supportive.

Enjoy your week, it sounds like you're planning on having fun. Please keep us up to date on how it's going.

XOXO
Suzanne

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Duchess Annual
(@robertaf)
Noble Member     Louisiana, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

A dream come true.

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Lady
(@ria)
Reputable Member     Saskatoon, Saskatchewan, Canada
Joined: 5 years ago

Wonderful news!

I have had several opportunities over the years to spend a week as a woman. I usually started preparing a few days early shaving my body, planning wardrobes and activities. 
My partner was always aware I dressed but was not supportive. She knew I would be dressed while she was away and that was ok. A week of letting my female side take over was and still is so calming and joyful.

I encourage you to find opportunities to do more of this.

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Baroness Annual
(@d44)
Famed Member     New York, United States of America
Joined: 5 years ago

Enjoy!

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Lady
(@dazzler)
Noble Member     Cardiff, South Glamorgan, United Kingdom
Joined: 4 years ago

I spend a lot of time as Cerys. I only work 3 days a week, so from thursday to Sunday night, I'm usually Cerys. I was taken ill last March. It nearly killed me, and I'm still recovering, hence only three days in work. When I came out of hospital I lived as Cerys for 5 weeks. My wife is fully supporting. Every minute of every day was spent as Cerys. I went everywhere as Cerys, Doctor appointments, hospital visits, tyre bays. 

After a few weeks, I started to wonder if I was actually trans. I felt very comfortable living as Cerys. I couldn't imagine not being Cerys. Not once did I want to wear male clothing. I've always considered myself as a man in a dress, yet here I was living full time as a woman. One day, I woke up, got out of bed and went into the shower. I came out and went back into the bedroom. I dressed as a man. 

I don't know why, but after 5 weeks of living as Cerys, I decided to dress as a man. Cerys didn't come out until well iver a week later, and then only briefly. This drove it home that I wasn't trans. Living full time as a woman wasn't for me. I need the option of switching back. I'm a crossdresser. I like to live as a woman sometimes, but I also like to live as a man. These days, I'm probably 50/50, maybe 60/40 in favour of Cerys. 
If you choose to transition, this means being a woman inside and outside the home, all day every day. Fromm what I read, you only want to be "part femme" outside the house. This tells me you are not trans. Be careful, once you come out as trans to the world, it's not easy to go back if you realise it's not the real you. 

Cerys

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Lady
Topic starter
(@laurynvalentine)
Trusted Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Joined: 1 year ago

Cerys. Thanks for sharing your experience and I am happy for you that you found your way. It isn’t that I want to present in public part time as female, it is I am still working on the social transitioning which as a lot of people find is very tricky. My goal is to present full time as Lauryn everywhere but that takes time and I am still finding my way. It may be that I do end up presenting as Lauryn only some of the time in public or in certain spaces but that is only because I trying to balance my gender identity with my marriage etc. I am taking a lot of small steps and a couple bigger ones and I hope that I find what is practical and I am happy. 

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