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Finally the temps are in the 70's; I can turn off the A/C and have the windows open. Enjoying a button-front minidress today with pantyhose and all the fixin's. After a morning shower and dressing, I made my list of to-do's for the day. Most of which will include a full apron. Bathroom cleaned and scrubbed, 3 1/2 lbs of burger split up for freezing, then ordered a new dress & skirt, pink bath rug, and back to washing dishes. Then got the rose-flower bedsheets out of the dryer, made the bed, and felt the soft femininity of the room. All in beautiful pantyhose.
I'm sitting here, making this entry, because a few moments ago at the sink, looking out at the sunny afternoon, I realized once again, "Its a glorious life - I love my life now that I've recognized I'm a trans woman. Dani, you're here - alone & unfettered, at home, able to be fully dressed as yourself all day. Every day. You are as woman as you can be right now.
I can tell. I can feel it inside. The growth and healing I'm experiencing.
Coming into myself more and more each day. Like yesterday. Forgetting I had applied my lipstick earlier. (the 24-hour stay-on kind.). Then needing to run some errands. Slipped into guy clothes. I didn't remember it until today, when reflecting back on why somebody gave me an odd look. Whoops! It was the lipstick! Doggone it I should put a note to myself by the back door! Oh well, I'm good with it. Dani you're female. You're harmless, you pay your taxes, all your bills are paid, your cars don't even make any noise, you're a good citizen. No need to fret.
@danikiss22 Danni, so lovely to hear how comfortable you are as a woman. I have a long way to go 😂 xx.
@danikiss22 Sounds like in a great place. And I totally hear ya on the cooler weather means more pantyhose.
@danikiss22 so happy for you! Had to laugh about your lipstick incident.. almost went to work wearing eye makeup. 🤭.
jennifer
@danikiss22 “Pantyhose and all the fixins”…great line Dani. I will steal that one😊
@danikiss22 no need to fret is right. Many times I’ve forgotten to remove jewelry or mascara or bracelets and even lipstick! One time I wore a bracelet and in mid conversation with my wife she asked “Why are you wearing my bracelet “?
@danikiss22 I know that feeling. I know some days I want to be dressed as Sarah all day. I get a craving now to be in a skirt or dress with pantyhose around the house because it feels so natural and liberating.
@danikiss22 It's always pantyhose for me. I can't be femme without them. I became a crossdresser to wear pantyhose and show off my legs. No pantyhose means no Patty.
@pattyphose Basking in glory this morning. I wanted a black pair to wear under my clothes but not wear mens socks at all, since a previous attempt resulted in the pantyhose being ruined when the socks chafed a hole. Had to put them on this morning with a dress. Wow I LOVE these. They're just Hanes. But a 30 denier - and the panty portion is rather special with a unique weave where the stocking top attaches, but also a different curvy and glossy portion coming down where panty lines usually occur, and then the glossy part comes underneath, then up the front. Oh these look so nice.
Every time I am near a Target, I go in and browse the pantyhose pick up at least one pair, and while I'm there, browse the bras as well. Found a perfect cold weather pullover bra that I can wear underneath with a jacket for cover.
Anyway, today I need to go out later in guy mode --but not quite!!
Dani
@danikiss22 Before I began going out in femme mode at 17, at 13, I started wearing pantyhose under my pants with no socks. Then little by little, I began wearing pantyhose with shorts in public. That was a huge deal. I had been buying my own pantyhose and bras at 13. My femme dressing consisted of pantyhose, bra and shirt that looked like a short dress.
When I decide to go out, I added a pair of shorts and a pair of moccasins. To be out in public showing my legs in pantyhose and having breast shapes from my bra was such an insane thrill for this 13 year old boy.
So, from than on, I dreamed and fantasized about wearing little shorts and hot pants, mini skirts, short dresses, heels, have full ample breasts and pretty hair, all for the purpose of showing my legs in pantyhose.
I think I'm going to go into Target and see the pantyhose you are referring to. They sound great and very sexy.
@danikiss22 Dani That’s so funny you forgot about your lipstick but hey, if you feel like a woman, a trans woman, good for you you’re being your real true authentic self lot of us which we had courage to do the same. I’m so happy for your girlfriend.
I share your appreciation being who you are & feeling it's right with the world as Stephanie is full time me now..
I have started forgetting I'm in a mini, or dress, and just go about chores or shopping, & forget the lipstick 💄.
Lovely isn't it?
I have had a guy or 2 not appreciate me in femme, but picked up 3 Cis female friends who share tips & support, comment on my style, appearance over coffee @ local corner coffee shop several mornings a week
They like me better in maxi rather than mimi's, & complement me on hair style, ear rings and such lovely girly things.
That really sounds fab! I love those days and nights where I can wear pantyhose with a skirt, silky blouse and pumps. I take my time doing my makeup and fully enjoy being feminine. In the evening, it’s nice to have a glass of wine, take off my heels and pull my legs up under me on the couch and read. Heavenly. Enjoy!
We had a short spell of cooler air here 2 weeks ago and I wore stockings and a garter belt for the first time since spring and it felt great. To have your legs covered in nylon is such a lovely feeling.
I'm super jealous, I just saw the weather forecast & it will reach the dizzying heights of 59 today & that's pretty good for up here! Luckily I like my leggings & they get plenty of use. Enjoy your day.
I'm looking forward to the cooler weather too, I miss wearing silky pantyhose and tights...
I shivered in my skirt with bare legs last week here at in southern half of the UK. So I bought some tights at the weekend, but this week it's a lot warmer again! At least I got to try the tights out - 15 denier matte tan, I also got some 80 denier black opaques for more upscale outfits. The way they hug your legs is wonderful isn't it!
Actually I did have some 200 denier thermal tights last winter. But they were so thick, I don't remember getting anything like the same feeling from them.
