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Almost out at work

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Lady
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(@chris60)
Trusted Member     Hernando Beach, Florida, United States of America
Joined: 6 months ago

Well, I have all my clothes in a bag at work. I go in a few hours early and dress. Several people have seem me. Skirt, blouse and bra with breast forms. So a lot of them know. Just can't dress at home........yet

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Lady
(@harriette)
Joined: 2 years ago

Illustrious Member     Toronto, Ontario, Canada
Posts: 4016

@chris60 There is a lot going on behind the scene here.

You are out to some of your family but not your wife and you go in to work hours early. I have just one question.

How do you get to go in so early to work without making your wife suspicious of something? 

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Lady
(@chris60)
Joined: 6 months ago

Trusted Member     Hernando Beach, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 12

@harriette I've been going in early ever since I retired from the Marine Corps. Getting up early is just a habit I never got out of

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Duchess
(@michellemybell)
Joined: 4 years ago

Noble Member     Clearwater, Florida, United States of America
Posts: 624

@chris60 I found out my father was not my biological father when I was in my 40's.  My mother divorced when I was young and my stepdad adopted me and they had my birth certificate changed and never told me I was adopted.  What upset me the most when I found out about this secret was that so many people knew this information that was very personal for me and kept it from me.

I am sharing this because I fear if your wife finds this out about you and that others knew well before her it could be very painful for her.  Since the cat is out of the bag, it is likely she will find out at some point.  I really recommend that it come from you before that happens.

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Lady
(@kimdl94)
Joined: 9 months ago

Reputable Member     Blearmill, Texas, United States of America
Posts: 175

@chris60 are you planning to come out “officially” at work?   

What is your work environment like?  If several people have seen you, then you are out, but it would be wise to fully inform your management.   Otherwise, there could be undesirable repercussions.

It’s even more important to come out to your wife.   She probably knows more than you realize, and may be filling in the blank spaces in what she doesn’t know.

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(@geniv_cd)
Joined: 8 years ago

Reputable Member     Minneapolis, Minnesota, United States of America
Posts: 260

@chris60 Kris,

It seems to me that you may be in a very difficult situation already. 
I have mentioned in other posts in here about telling my wife after we had been married with kids in the mix and how that admission hurt her. However your situation it seems is a bit different in that you are out to a number of others. My two cents worth here is to heed what Michelle and Kim are advising you to do. It may hurt your wife to know about you. But it will hurt her more to know that others found out long before she did. I empathize with you and hope this works out in the least damaging way, for you and for your wife.

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 Lea
Lady
(@lea-jhene)
Joined: 9 years ago

Noble Member     California, United States of America
Posts: 1103

@chris60 Congrats on getting this far, mostly out!! I guess you found your work wife, you!! 

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Princess
(@erinb)
Noble Member     Ohio, United States of America
Joined: 5 months ago

I would absolutely love to work as Erin in the truck garage lol she be one hot greasy lady lol 😂 hopefully drivers would leave me alone 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Hostess
(@ab123)
Illustrious Member     Surrey, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 years ago

I hope it works out well Kris.

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Duchess
(@lizzy89)
Reputable Member     GreaterManchester, United Kingdom
Joined: 5 months ago

Good for you hopefully your colleagues are accepting of you being en femme in the work place. As my job in mainly working from home been tempted to perhaps wear a skirt on teams call (so its hidden). Although a side of me thinks what the heck turn up to the office fully en femme but appropriate for the work-place, just to see the reaction from my colleagues LOL. 

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