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🌺 hi girls, I hope you all are having a blessed day! 🍭🌼 I just wanted share what’s going on in my cd life lately. I’ve been getting out quite a bit, dressed. 🦋 Not just at work, which is usual, but I mean out in full public view ,🌸 and it’s wonderful, to just be me , Effie 🎀🎀 in general public living life as a girl 👩🦰.
But I’m walking a dangerous line, coming out to friends, going out.. all while my wife doesn’t know 😢.. it’s killing me inside. I cannot do this anymore without being open and honest with her. The good Lord has been opening little doors for me, to plant seeds leading up to this conversation I need to have with her 🌼🧚♀️ . As a matter of fact, my wife has come to me with secrets of her own lately, opening up to me about some of her desires..which I accepted and embraced with/for her. This gives me confidence that I can come to her, with my secrets too! 💜
So I’m going to open up, soon, within the next month I think..
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Good luck Effie!
I wish my wife would share some of her own secrets with me. I really hope she accepts this part of you. I had a nice moment a few days ago when my wife asked to let her see me in a white bodysuit I bought on Amazon. I asked if I could wear a black skater skirt with it and she said yes. I finally got to share a cute outfit with her. I hope you get to share too.
C
I think "almost" has arrived, Effie. Spouses shouldn't keep secrets, and you could be pleasantly surprised. My wife believes it is sinful for men to wear dresses, but she has embraced Bettylou, nevertheless.
💜🦋Thank you BettyLou! At the least , I just want her to know about this part of me.. it as you say, I hope I am pleasantly surprised! 🍭🎀
I would love to get to that point with my wife too Candice! 💐🌺🍭
Hi Effie
Good luck to you when you come to have the conversation with your wife, just be honest with her. Hope all goes well.
Samantha x
I hope it goes well for you..
Dear friend, I know you know that we're all here supporting you and what is coming. I know how hard that event is going to be. But you will come out the other side stronger, happier and better. Big hugs girlfriend 💕💋 Katie
. Best to you Effie. Hope all goes well when you reveal this side of you to you wife. How ever it goes we are all here for you!!
. Sandy
Thank you, I won’t bring up the recent outings! 💐🌸 tonight on my walk, it was a bit cool.. she offered me her little girly jacket with embellishments to wear.. 🦋🎀 ... you bet I wore it!! And she was grinning from ear to ear!! 🍭 hmmmmmmm.. gets me thinking ..💕🌼💐🎀
Katie 🌺 thank you so much!! I’m getting more and more hints that this may be easier than I expect.. 🎀💜 I just hope I’m reading all this correctly
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🌺 oh Sandy.. that means so much to me 🍭🌼💕 thank you dearly.. 🦋💐
I think you are there Effie. Not “almost”, you are there. I can’t wait to hear how well it goes for you.
Will be thinking of you.
Best, Clara
Thanks Clara 🎀 I’ll keep you all posted 🦋🍭
I think the time is right for you Effie. My prayers are with you for support. There may be an inkling that she might know a little more then you think. Just be honest with her. I believe you will come out stronger in the end. Wouldn't it be nice if she excepts and works with you on your journey. Lot of love your way and a big Huggg. Janice
