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How long after your wife, sibling, or children leave the house before your getting your girly clothes on?
A - As soon as the key is in the car ignition?
B - You patiently wait at least 15 minutes?
C - After checking both directions and an hour has passed.
D - I never do this because she already knows I cross dress.
E - As soon as I call her and see where she is at. I know she is not coming back home for a while.
F - I set a clock for one hour before she is scheduled to be home.
@vanityfair63 My wife knows that I dress every day, so not a problem.
However, if you pair your phone with hers, Google Maps can help keep your secret safe. It can help with other issues, too, but a quick glance might save your, um, bacon. It isn't always reliable (for reasons), so learn how it works first.
@vanityfair63 At least 30 minutes after she's left the house and change back an hour before she is due home. Tho she caught me fully dressed last year and now bless her lovely heart, she normally texts me to tell me she's on her way home.
Caty.
@vanityfair63 Not really any of them She knows and is fine with it but I still wait generally for her to go see her mom a few times a month. then its a full day process usually starting after lunch. Cheers RC
@vanityfair63 I would be slipping into my pantyhose the moment the car leaves the driveway
D. She already knows I crossdress
D thankfully!!
I'm now an empty nester including no longer married so the moment my toes hit the floor and step out of the shower my panties go up.
Sandy
Most days i get dressed in front of my wife. On days i want to get really girly for a bit, a few minutes after she leaves.
More because i dont want her tellying me i look silly.
Paula
I live alone. But for me it was the moment I moved out. It’s been at least Panties every day since that day. (With a few exception days here and there.) and after I moved out of state it’s been femme clothes of some kind almost every day.
However, before the divorce, though she new about my panties, it was the moment I saw her drive away and Jamie came out.
D! Thank God as long as kids aren't home.
Before coming out to my wife, the answer would easily be B. It wouldn't matter if I knew she was going to work, meeting a friend, I would wait a little bit just in case she forgot something.
When she went to work, it was easy to judge the time and get undressed before she came home. But if she went out with friends, went shopping, ... it was way harder to judge.
I was constantly on pins and needles, even if I knew she was at work. The slightest sound I was ready to rip off Wendy's clothes and change back. Or I would constantly check the front window to see if she was just "coming around the corner". Dressing during this stage was more anxious than anything else.
Since I came out, it doesn't matter anymore and transforming as Wendy has become a really relaxing and stress free experience.
Hi Vanity,
I live alone, but I still make life difficult for myself 😉 Two couples who live one 1 minute, the other 10 minutes walk away have keys to my house, and can knock on the door and / or walk in anytime. Then there's the neighbours or a postie who might have delivery (sometimes not even for me, but to take in for next door or whatever)
I'm not saying it happens all the time, but I couldn't be doing with that sort of stress. I'd be clocked within a month. I'm fairly androgynously dressed anyway, usually daily, so that's fine. I mostly save dressing up more girly for later in the evening.
Marti xxx
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Thank you for sharing this. It describes me perfectly
My wife knows I crossdress so the third one was my answer. Even though she know she doesn't want to see me dressed...not yet anyway. There's always hope.
As soon as she goes out I will try and change into something but last week I nearly got caught out when she cam home from work early. She doesn't know about the 'other me' so I had a mad dash to the bathroom to take a shower even though it was mid morning and I should have been working from home!
Before she knew, I traveled a lot. It was relatively easy to pack my femme collection for travel and get out while I was on the road. Hotel living can be challenging and fun at the same time.
Yes it has.
Since there is nothing to hide, it becomes routine and pretty easy.
Hi! Coming out to my wife and others has been the most liberating. My true self is Debbie Lynn and I am her 24/7 now. I was very scared to come out to my wife not knowing her response. She has slowly accepted me and makes efforts to be supportive. Coming out to our shared friends has helped her because she has been influenced by their open willingness to embrace me too. I’ve never been happier! Hugs, Debbie Lynn
