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Hi,
I've just allowed Emily to reassert herself after many years of bouncing in and out of dressing. As I mentioned on my introduction, I came out to a guy at work one night when I was 22 and he simply ridiculed me (my fault, I misread the environment. He was a gay guy, being totally open with me, and drink had been taken...)
Since then, I've gone through the phases of dressing, purging and repressing myself - but I've come to realise that as Emily I am truly happy. I am married with a daughter, and know that my wife would absolutely not understand - so I have to be very discreet. But here's my biggest problem, and the thing that hurts most.
I am in the body of a 6'7" very Celtic (read hairy) man - I hate that this restricts my choices of clothes, and that for reasons of discretion I cannot shave. Are there any other girls on here of similar stature and situation who can share experiences and how you overcame the problems. I have made an enquiry at a dressing service in London, explaining the difficulties, as I hope that the lady there (who seems to be a magician!) can help to get rid of this hairy monster. I can't help thinking how cruel it is to give me these senses and feelings and place me into this body 🙁
Try studying female basketball players.....they may be able to discuss you issues!
Dame Veronica
Emily, Get a set of clippers and slowly reduce the amount of hair on the parts of your body that concern you most. Continue every couple months to reduce the setting. There is a good chance it will go unnoticed. Once, and if you get to the point of shaving your legs, you will never stop! The feeling with hose on is pure heaven. As for wardrobe, there are GG's with your stature also. Align with their fashion sense. You don't need to try to be a size 6.
