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Well, my pretties, my oldest son was here for a week or two, and tonight, his last night in the house, he says to my wife after I slip into the shower before bed that he wants to talk to me. I immediately had some suspicions.
So I go to his room and find out what he has to say. He starts all over the map, and I can see his nerves are jangled. Finally just add my internal monolog said he's about to come out, he says "when I cane out to Mom and some friends freshman year that i was trans, it was hard" I'd been waiting on this conversation for the longest time now, but I had to change enough for him to feel comfortable enough to talk to me about it, and I've certainly done a lot of that since I found Bridgette.
We had a nice long talk, she said her pronouns are she, her, hers, and I said that I respect that. She says she uses Natalie, and I asked if she wanted me to use it, and she said she did, at least when we're alone. I am going to have to get used to that. I told him about Bridgette, that I also am trans, non binary, and that I use he him his unless dressed as Bridgette, then she her hers.
We're going to have a much longer conversation when she's here next. But I was so excited to share the news with you girls. I'll have to tell her about the site too, I guess. Life just got more interesting. I suggested she'll have to tell her brother, my other son. Her mother's other sons accept her already, but i suspect this one of being a bit more... something. We'll see. I'm not telling my younger son until he finishes school, he truly doesn't need that distraction.
So, does anyone else have a child, or parent, or other close relative who's trans?
Bridgette, suddenly has daughter!
That is amazing! And the fact that your perspective is from an understanding angle, and that you were able to share Bridgette with Natalie is wonderful! 💕🏳️⚧️
Honey its lovely you daughter was able to come out to to you, and you were able you were able to do the same. I'm sure you'll be able to help her understand herself more.
My uncle fully transitioned from FtM. Haven't spoken to him since I've accepted my femininity as he prefers to be separated from the family.
Love Trisha
Hi my lovely
What a wonderful story and I think it's marvelous that you both sat down as Father and Son and had a wonderfully open and caring conversation. The fact that when it ended you had a daughter and she had a second mum is epic!!!
I must admit I am worried about one thing....can CDH actually handle TWO VonSmirffs!!!!!
Best wishes as always,
Grace xx
What a wonderful post, Bridgette, you must be over the moon!! I am so happy for both you,and your daughter
Hugs, Regi👸💕
Bridgette,
That sounds like it was refreshing to talk with your "new daughter" and I am sure she was quite relieved to be able to come out to her Mom. Think of all the fun you both can have next time she visits!
My 2 sisters are coming to town soon to take care of me when I get my total knee replacement surgery in August. I wish I could tell them I am trans. I wonder if they know? Perhaps the clues of shaved legs and body hair in the middle of the summer may be a sign? We shall see!!
Hope
Only time will tell, maybe dawn will have to update the sites sever allowence.
It was an emotional conversation, the first of many, no doubt. When we're next together we're going to go through a lot of stuff. So much is clear now that was a big mystery before.
Bridgette
It's hard to say what people do and do not pick up on. She told me for instance that she came out to her mother (my ex) freshman year of high school, and went all 4 years as a girl, and I never knew. There were things that made me wonder, but I never knew. Good luck with your surgery, my wife had that a could years ago and came through fine.
Bridgette
Hi Bridgette,
Congratulations on your conversation going so well. You must be elated.
Alice
Excellent news, I’m happy for the both of you. I’m sure her experience will be made easier with your guidance.
My wife and I are already planning the next visit to include time when my other son who lives here will be camping so we can include Bridgette and go shopping, and show her about makeup. Her mother, my ex, didn't do makeup.
Bridgette
Bridgette....big deep breath....hold it......now breathe out.yeeeeeeessssss!
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