Any tips for going out in public ?

Best tip is to go out with an experienced friend if possible.

- Robyn

Practice your walking and build the confidence you’ll need. Walk with someone for safety and avoid being alone. Dress your best!

Agree with the safety points. Stay in well lit areas with lots of people. There's such a thing as anonymity and safety in a crowd. Make yourself a small list of little simple things to do out, like stop and buy gas, then go in and get something, anything. Stop in at a pharmacy and just get something simple that will allow a minor interaction, or if that's too much then just browse and leave. Or make out a route to take that will pass by something to challenge you, or so that it doesn't do that. Find what will make you comfortable ebony to want to go again.

Bridgette

Just be your self and don't be really nervous know sometimes impossible to do. But like others said go for little drive stop at a park or somewhere. get some gas go into a store maybe when less crowd at first. Then when get comfortable go into a store when little more there. If by self try to wear something that will not bring alot attention or looks little flirty.  Another is at home just go out walk around the yard on down the driveway.

Hugs

Donna

PS before know it be doing things and not even thinking about being dressed. Come natural.

Hello Chloe..

Most of its been said...good advice as usual from the girls...

Just be calm, deep breaths, don't think everybody is looking at you, your just a girl about town...

Don't rush, measured steps, obviously you need to be alert, but definitely don't keep looking everywhere nervously....just do YOUR thing.....

good luck....

Grace x

Hi Chloe, build up your confidence by going in our word but not obviously feminine items, like boots, jeans, jumpers, socks ect. you can also use these days to practice your walk on rougher outside paths.

Wear what the woman where you planning the go wear, if you want to blend in. I know we all love skirts and dresses, but unless it's high summer woman don't wear them often.

Like others have said, the importance of this one cannot be underestimated. Look confident. Chin up, it helps with balance and   smile.

I also agree with Gabriela, presume people can see though the illusion and you don't care. If it helps go somewhere where people don't know you.

With repetition it gets easier.

Love Trisha

I've been going out dressed since 17. That first time was so scary but one of the most exciting things I ever did. Then I kept going, getting bolder and bolder and doing more and more. Each time was scary and still is, but the excitement, thrill and rush is like nothing else. That's why I keep doing it.

Just be yourself,blend in if possible? Like if your going to the supermarket dont wear 9in heels and a mini skirt that barely covers the tops of your stockings? It gets cold opening freezers so dress appropriately or what you feel is appropriate. Act natural and blend in and smile 😃

Confidence comes with practice. Dress modestly at first. Interact with a barista, they tend to be more accepting of the individual difference between people. Avoid "Pick Up" bars. Try grocery stores, book stores, casual eateries.
Smile and have fun!

Hope they are good tips as i nearly made the mistake of wearing thigh high boots to supermarket once xx

Hahaha thanks I’ll make sure to avoid wearing anything over the top out

Thank you so much ! I’ll try to keep in mind those tips and tricks that you’ve talked about.  From what I’ve gathered mainly I just need to be more confident with myself and try to blend in.  Thanks again 🙂

Well said!

Hi Chloe,

I hear most of us start by going out at night or to spots with little to no people. To me if you want to go unnoticed,  go to popular places with many people and good lighting.  No one is going to make a fuss in a public setting.

My first time out Fully dressed was to a shopping mall, and to a fashion store, just after dinner.

I started out with just a little makeup out to dinner, then added heels to dinner. Once I had my wig, and brests, I was fully dressed walking through a mall shopping. Purchased a purse, a top and a skirt from 3 different shops.

If my wife was comfortable I would go shopping with her and try on things with her.  Alas she is not so that dream will have to Waite

Have fun be safe, and explore public places.

Paula