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Hi Girl / Ladies,
I have found that there are several ladies here in CDH that are wondering "How do I tell SO in SO that I am a Crossdresser. Well I found a way that is very easy to tell them.
If they are Gay, Lesbian, Bi that's easy just tell them. But if they are not or you are unsure then it is a little difficult to bring up the subject and tell them that you are a crossdresser.
What I have done on at least three different occasions is when you are feeling comfortable with this person is to ask them how they feel about or what is there opinion on the LGBTQ movement going on in the country. Now if you get a definitive negative answer, you drop the inquiry and leave it at that but if you get a positive answer you go deeper into the question and eventually tell them that you are a Crossdresser. If they ask why you asked just tell them that it's recently been in the news. It has worked for me three times in the recent past.
Kathleen xxxxx 💋❤💋❤
Hi Sandy,
I have heard this happen before sweetie.
It seems as Little girls they can put their dad's on pedestals of masculinity that makes it hard to accept I guess.
It would seem some conversations and logic would get them to come around.
I hope your daughter does .
Huggs Patty
It's a very good tactic as a gateway into a more personal conversation.
However, be careful of the Politically Correct response because that's what the person feels is the socially acceptable right answer to give, but not necessarily what they believe. If you know the person really well, and you'll already be 80% sure of how they'll respond.
Didu💋
Good tactic Kathleen. Just like swimming, you should test the waters first. One should always gather as much intelligence as possible before a mission. And coming out is a pretty big mission.
