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🦋 hi ladies! I write this as I hope, an encouragement to others ❤️🦋. If me of all people, can begin the coming out process, then any one can. 🌼 Today I came out to 2 high school friends, both are ladies, and both accepted me completely.. they were excited actually. 🧚🏼 I am so great full for their loving kindness, their questions, their encouragement. Just taking this step, was like a weight being released from me! 🌹🍃 I now have 4 other high school friends I plan on coming out to soon, then, my best friend, then my inner most circle. 🌸🌻
it will take time, it’s scary, will I be rejected? Will I be laughed at? Will I loose friends? All these things swirl around my mind, but I have to do this, I have to be me.. no more hiding.. 🌸🌾
you can do this, at your own pace, at your own time, in your own way..🍀🌿
Effie,
You are an inspiration, dear girl! I’m so happy for you and blessed to be your sister! 😊 🤗
God bless,
Steph
Stephie, 🌸 you mean the world to me🌎
luv you girl 💐
Congratulations Effie, it's a different road and wish you well, unfortunately you may encounter many different reactions over time, but true friends and genuine people will accept you for the person you are, not your gender, as I have said many times before, its not how you dress that defines you as a person, but how you behave as a human being that does.
Thank you Amanda, 🌷 yes I expect there will be some negative reactions, but that’s ok.. I’ll be as prepared as I can for various reactions ..🌸🥀
Brave girl ..
What you are doing is so much easier to write than actually do...it takes someone special to look another in the eye and tell them a life long secret....whoever they are.
You will get acceptance and you will get ridicule..as long as you are really prepared for this, and SURE ...then you are as ready as you ever will be...
I'm just stating pure fact...
Good luck Effie...you are very special and when you get bad reactions to your disclosure....just always remember that you are....
Best wishes, grace ❤️❤️
I appreciate that Gracie💕 it’s a journey I never thought I wouid be able to take ..🌸 but each of us have a path to take. 🌾 and as intimidating as it can be, we gotta just keep moving forward 🧚🏼🦋
Effie, I wish you good luck in what you are doing. Most of what you are scared of is only imagined. Yes, some will laugh, some will be offended that you chose to tell them ( you busted their image of you), some will be down right hostile too.
But, you are going to find those special people who care and will remain by your side no matter what. Appreciate them, let them know what they mean to you. It will be hard and easy and all points in between, but YOU can do this for YOU!
Hugs,
PaulaF
Paula, 🌼 thank you girl!! All of you wonderful ladies are very special, and supportive as we share our journey with each other! 💜🌷
Amanda,
Amen. Simple, yet brilliant. Perfectly said.
Steph
Your courage is very inspirational!! So overjoyed everything went better than expected! 🤗💖💞💋💐
Thank you so much ! ❤️🦋🌸
Jamie, thank you sweetie !! ❤️🦋 it felt so good to start sharing with friends !🌼🌺
🌺🌼 I hope that doesn’t happen Laura but I have to be ready for that 🥲 ...
Love you darling!❤🤗
