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Today as I sit here at work. I am as usual underdressed with my daily work uniform on over my panties, sports bra, and thigh high stockings. I can’t help but wonder if anyone else of the two hundred or so people that work here might have the same secrets that I have. I have been crossdressing for years but have just recently taken it to the level of underdressing at work every day. I must admit that it is quite thrilling. Mostly it makes me feel more confident as I go about my daily activities. I can only dream of a day where I can come to work as my true self. That will probably never happen but it is nice to dream. Where I live there is so many people that are just not the understanding type. Where I work on a daily basis I hear negative comments about the trans community and cross dressers. I just sit here and listen. To make a comment to defend myself would undoubtedly shed a light on my secret. At some point in My life I will leave this place and try to find a more accepting community where it will be possibly easier to be me. The struggle is real. I am just longing to dress all of the time. Keeping hope alive for now.
Ginger,
I work at a remote mine site there are 750 people there at any one time. I’d say the workforce 90% male. I’ve often wondered if there are other crossdressers.
We need an international signal or device in drab that alerts other CDs of our presence!!! That would be cool.
Caroline.
I only underdress in panties but I get the same girly feelings at work that you mention. Despite the fact that we have a lesbian at work I am not prepared to come out to co workers, but I would speak up if anyone talked bad about our lesbian lady. Not sure if I would defend cross dressing but maybe wear a dress to my last day of work when that day arrives.
I dressed like you Ginger for many years at work thinking the same.
Just panties when physically in the office.
Working remotely most days has given me freedom, always be mindful to check the webcam default is OFF for meetings!
Caroline...
How about a type of CDH badge???
I sometimes sit on the bus and wonder almost the same thing. As I sit in my boy clothes with soft comfy feminine things on underneath, I contemplate who else on the bus might be doing the same thing.
Then I wonder if any women are wearing boys boxers under their clothes.
Grace,
Love it!!
I’m ready to buy!!
Caroline
It's a shame Vanessa doesn't sell merchandise. I would love a diamante CDH brooch ...haha...
I poked around, and estimates vary from 2% to 10% of males are crossdressers. Of course, it depends on how you define CD. Do you include trans people? Transvestic fetishists? Drag Queens?
Even taking the low estimate, that means there's 9 other male CD's in my village. Or is it less likely in rural areas and more prevalent in urban ones?
I'd love to see more research on this.
Connie
xxx
It used to be that gg’s would all say no way to men’s underwear but if you look there are quite a few styles that might as well be men’s underwear and some that are exactly like men’s underwear except for a girly font on the label such as Hanes.
For me they are not just panties. They are my girly connection 😊
At times I wonder about that too. Hang in there Ginger.
Hugs, Liara
Ginger, your dream was once one I had. I heard the negativity around me and feared what would happen with my 'secret'. I held on to that dream and it became a reality.
Hold on to that dream.
Update. Was sitting in a meeting. Feeling rather girlie the panties are satin. Still wondering. If anyone in the meeting was a crossdresser secretly. Can’t wait to get in my car this afternoon and slip my heels on and drive home. TTFN.
