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Fun play on words in the title, on purpose 🙂
Somewhat of a serious post however, that I felt compelled to share.
I'm quickly coming up on a milestone birthday. Over the last year I started doing more of what I like and feels good to me. Primarily crossdressing to the extent I can. I keep my legs shaved, my genital area is now smooth as is my chest. I am married w/grown children, and my SO is not accepting.
My message is to the younger set who may just be discovering their propensity to crossdress, and my message is this. Don't forego the opportunity in front of you.
Do not bury your desires, needs or impulses. Never feel guilty about what you may do and do not guilt yourself into purging. You will lose many good things, and maybe missing out on an experience of a lifetime.
If I "had it to go all over again", I would have (as a young man) gone further, dressed more, been more adventurous. Of course one has to be cautious, safe but do not deny your impulses. I may have not ended up married, may have had more m2m experiences and at the very least would have been fully Bi. I love what and who I have in my life now, but I do wish I would have done more as a "woman" when I was younger.
Best to all of you beautiful gurls!
R
Thanks for the wisdom, that is "pearls of wisdom an ruby's of knowledge".
Believe me, you are not alone
Oh So right! How many times over the last couple years I've thought "shucks lol, wish I'd known about that earlier in life". Not just CDing, I only tried m2m in pre-teen experimentation but with my new found broder knowledge find that I am receptive to the idea along with other things that I either have done or would like to. I feel very blessed. I believe a large part of my recent growth belongs to the current honest and loving relationship I'm in where we each feel very safe expressing ourselves. So yes, to the younger ones, be true to yourself without guilt and go try things that you may want to include in your life. Many others of us may have to enjoy it in part as voyeurs in your escapades. We have other people that we share our life with whos needs and feelings we have a responsibilty to maintain some balance. Jeopardizing the wonderful 'have' for the 'might be' fun must be considered, especially as maturity sets in.
Thank you all for the replies. You are all such beautiful and lovely gurls!
Love, R
You are so right, Rebbeka.
The sadness at missed opportunities is undeniable, but conditioning and nurture can be such strong influences, even much later, when we consider ourselves "free thinkers"
I'm trying hard to enjoy each "moment" I have - actually, some of those moments require effort only to stop myself crying with the pleasure they bring.
If I hadn't had such a hard journey to get where I am now, I know that I would not be experiencing that level now.
If only it could be that good all the time :0)
Enjoy the moments
Love
Laura
Thank you Laura!
I am living the moment, that is for sure!
Best to you, love and luck!
R