Being a masculine woman...

Hi Dani!  Sweetie, if I coudl create that x-pill I'm sure I'd be richer than Bezos!!  It seems like a lto of mechanics need this type of escape, which kind of makes sense.  There isn't much more masculine things than being a mechanic.  I love my truck and motorcycle and can't wait to start rebuilding my 1956 Chevy 210, but if I can get away with doing that in a cute tank top and some tight jeans and bra and panties, that would be amazing!  I just enjoy being me and sometimes I'm James, other times I'm Jamie and that's perfect for me right now.  If I had an actual house and money to fund all my hobbies then she would be out doing a lot of shpping trips in Vegas right now, but I'm happy with my camper and where I'm at and that's what is most important.  OH!  And making friends with such wonderful and sweet ladies like yourself!  I would totally work on muscle cars with while while wearing matching bra and panties and some makeup!

Love, Jamie xoxo

HI Daine!  I agree, the x-pill stories are very hot and racy and a lot of fun.  And I can totally see how embracing your feminine side can really improve your overall appearance and health.  Although as a man I try to eat healthy and workout as well.  I think I'm less of a soup bowl but more like two sides of the same coin.  To each their own of course, ever girl here is at a different level of comfort and life.  Thank you again for your comment!

Love, Jamie xoxo

HI Jenny!  Thanks for your insight!  The world has soooo many labels that it's easy to find one that fits you, or people just seem to create new ones to fit them.  I'm more traditional I guess.  I've got no problem with someone choosing a label they want, but as for me I'm happy to say that I am two sides of the same coin and I'm a masculine woman, or a feminine man depending on my mood.  I can be a man when I want and need to be and be a woman when I'm comfortable and around people I trust.  Thank you again for your comment and look forward to talking with your more!!

Love, Jamiexoxo

Hi Cherry, thakn you so much for your insight into this thread!  I agree that the masculine and feminine roles of yester-year are long gone.  Anyone can do anything right now and it's a wonderful time to be alive!  Personally, I will never be a full time woman, it's just not in the cards for me really, at least not dressing like one and looking like one.  When I do decide to dress and leave the house I Want to look as feminine as possible of course, but I don't have to be a model.  And when I'm in my own home I'm just happy in the clothes.  BEing able to make the switch works for me and I'm fine with that.  I'm a little envious of the ladies who can do this full time but unless some drastic things happen in my life I wouldn't be able to do it.  Thank you again for your comment and I look forward to talking with you again!

Love, Jamie xoxo

Jamie, I echo your sentiments in full.I, too, enjoy the guy side of me, and playing with cars, etc.I keep the two halves of my life fully compartmentalized. Gurl time IS a terrific de-stresser and something to look forward to at the end of some days

Hi Kelli!  Thank you so much sweetie.  Being a guy is fun and clothes are just clothes.  I'm glad it's starting to become more common that people are understanding that, even if it is just in bigger cities right now.  I love the stress release I get from talking to girls like you.  Once I signed up here Jamie just came out in full force and took over!

Love, Jamie xoxo

Interesting topic!  When I am my female-self, I act and look female and completely embrace a female demeanor.  Conversely, as my male-self, I display typical male traits.

That being said, I know of a few girls who are essentially guys in a wig and dress, nothing female about them, except they wear a dress and a wig.  Moreover, their male name seems to stick, even when they have a dress on.  I call them "Butch girls."

Sometimes I think I must be so totally mixed up, and maybe it's true, so it is nice hear that others are similar.

I love to dress up, and make myself look as feminine as possible when I do dress, which is once a week or so. Then I get into my grubby male clothes and do carpentry, cabinet making, and work on vintage cars. Though I love my female persona, and wouldn't ever want to change that, I do also love to be male as well.

Amy

Jaimie, I find that your description of who you are, also fits me  perfectly. I have to very distinct sides to my personality, one very male and the other very female with out much mixing of the two and I am happy  with both sides.  As a male my interests encompasses what most consider mainly masculine: hunting, fishing, cars, boats,building things, and attending sporting events, but what is more defining is just my demeanor and my overt sense of being a man. When my female side is on display, so to speak, my interests stay the same internally, but I change my demeanor as well as my looks. I become more flirtatious, my interactions with men become more adventurous  attempting to provoke interesting me as a woman. Desires that I never have in male mode.I never view men in an amorous manner while in male mode, but that suddenly changes when I adopt my female persona. I will still discuss my male interests with men while female but the focus is not what it would be while in male mode. There it would be merely for the joy of discussing a common interest, but as a female it is another tool to make them desire me. It's an additional affirmation that my female self needs. In both of my modes I enjoy  a flotation attraction the all categories of female.   In male mode I want to be a man, in female mode Want to transform into the most desirable and feminine woman I can be. There is no in between for me except maybe when I am communicating on here when I haven't been able to partake of my female form.

There are certainly "guy" things I do and the idea of doing them as Nancy never crosses my mind but might actually be fun.  Towing the RV and hooking it up in skinny jeans and boots, woodwork, landscaping ...

But I did stop in Cabelas the other day and I love some of the women's clothes they have there.

Jamie, we must be sisters from opposite sides of the globe. I’m currently rebuilding a 65 Holden. If I ever get over that side of the world I would love to work on your 210 with you in matching bra and panties, then go out shopping. You can fit a lot of outfits in the boot of a 210.                                                          Dani👩🏻‍🔧xoxo

That's awesome, I feel much the same way, best of luck and nice meeting you

Hi Amanda, thank you for the compliment!  Feel free to send a message whenever.  Have a great weekend sweetie!

Jamie xoxo

Hi Nancy!  I feel the same way, like when I'm elbow deep in grease and grim working on my truck, Jamie doesn't seem like the type of girl who would be doing this (although she totally would!).  I've got an RV as well, and wearing some leggings and a skirt  or skinny jeans and heels while driving across the country, getting gas and setting up camp would be kind of fun!  We have Bass Pro Shop here and yes, some of their clothes are so cute!  Have a great weekend!

Jamie xoxo

Hi Sara!  That was a beautiful way of describing yourself and that is exactly how I feel too, honey.  My guy side enjoys doing all those things and I don't want to change that at all, but Jamie like the experience I get from doing those things and being able to share the interest.  It's like James does all the work while Jamie gets the benefits of being able to talk about it!  I feel the same way about guys when I'm in male mode and when Jamie is in control.  The guy part of me doesn't find men attractive or anything at all, always about women.  Jamie might not find a lot of physical attraction towards men, but there is some attraction to them.  More like the part where she wants them to take control, you know?  BTW, Jamie would be more pan-sexual anyways, lol.  Back to the topic at hand, I love the fact that Jamie is a separate part of me.  It's like the analogy that a mans mind is made up of boxes and we pull the boxes out one at a time and enjoy them, then put the box back and move on to another box, etc.  But I can choose if I want James or Jamie to look in the boxes.  Each person has a different view on it.  Now, I may be sounding like a have split personality by now lol, but i think you understand what I'm saying.  Have a great weekend and thank you so much for your comment sweetie!  Feel free to message me anytime!

Jamie xoxo