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I’m relaxing on the couch watching a rerun of Top Gun. I’m not a big Tom Cruise fan but the flying scenes are great and Kelly McGillis was pretty cute back then. I’m wearing a one piece, hose, and beige pumps. Just wondering how you ladies relax. Let me know.
Glass of wine and chill music.
Forgot to mention.....estrogen helps a lot!
/EA
Panties and a bra
The wine sounds good. I like Steely Dan Aja.
I haven't listened to that in ages. I gravitate to electronica when I want to chill.
Most nights after dinner and a shower, I underdress in a bra panties cami and (in winter), heavy duty tights. Male Pj's on top.
I'm not a big television fan and I dont have any streaming services. My phone has a Nice Ladies" playlist, so I settle back in my recliner and doze off to the strains of artists such as Diana Krall, Roberta Flack, Grace Knight, Linda Rondstadt etc etc.
Once in bed, I insert my breast forms in my bra and head off into "la la land".
When away from home, usually monthly, "all of the above" except I'm totally femme from the start.
Caty.
Again, YouTube is my friend.
There is a video that I use to calm myself. If you are interested, search for Oh So Hum. You should see a chorus of people in red robes.
Also, I recently found that most any video with alpha waves will calm me as well.
My favorite relax is with a glass of wine, dressed and sitting outside on the patio with some smooth jazz playing.
To relax I will dress usually in a dress or skirt and blouse, wear one of my wigs and a pair of heels or sandals. I don't do make up all the time as there are occasions when I have to get changed to take the dog for a walk. There have been a number of times lately that my wife has suggested that I dress as she says it calms me. It's nice being able to do that and hang out and watch some TV with her.
XOXO
Suzanne
I relax by dressing everyday femme. I feel that it normalizes my female self. Going out as Lauren and doing everyday things just feels so natural to me and I'm very happy to blend in with other women. This isn't to say that don't I love my dresses, skirts and high heels. I love getting dressed to the nines and stepping out.
The best way for me to relax is just to be feminine in some way or another. Today is one of those steamy summer North Carolina days, temperatures in the 80s (30s C), so I am staying in wearing as little as possible, bikini panties, short shorts & a sports bra. Got to be decent and cool, right?
The big E hummm maybe I should try some. I listen to everything from George Jones to Pavarotti . But to chill, Mozart, concerto for clarinet in A. Not at all a snob, it is soothing. Just Lorraine and her mutts on a dark chilly evening.
This might be odd but when I have the house to myself and I want to really relax I so love putting on some nice lingerie, pouring myself a glass of wine (or a beer in a wine glass) and relaxing on the couch while watching scary movies.
I know they don't all go together at all, but that's a perfect evening for me when I'm just by myself.
I was torn with this one between dress up and curl up on the couch. I have never had the opportunity to curl up on the couch (which I chose) but for me it would be one of the best ways I could feel relaxed. We're as full dress up is something I have done (not very often) and also feel relaxed doing.
I enjoy getting up in the morning and putting a bra and panties and just relaxing for a couple of hours now that’s relaxing to me
