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This weekend hha been a real game changer for my wife and I. A little background. I have been wearing panties for over a year now after my wife busted me with some on. She went through the usual upset nature that seems to come from this kind of thing, gay, trans, how far will it go. To tell you the truth, I didn't even know. It was her idea for me to wear panties full time so she would be surprised every time she saw me in them. She asked me how far I wanted to go and I kinda hid that from her for a while. During that time I had also purchased 2 chemise and after her seeing me in them a few times it was agreed I would do it by myself but panties were ok anytime except while in the bed.
About 2 weeks ago I wanted to look in the women's section at old navy, this really upset her. She confronted me and asked when it would be enough. She then looked up stuff on the internet and explained that I was cd. I had all of the signs she just didn't know I already knew this but I think it was important for her to come to this conclusion on her own. I had told her I wanted to at least try to dress up all the way.
This was upsetting for a few days especially when she found the receipt for my best forms I just purchased.
The other day though she wanted to go shopping with me which isn't usual because I'm not a good shopper. We were there to make her feel better, I knew that, but I told her things I would like for me and what I would like on her. While we were checking out we were $15 dollars short of getting rewards points and she asked the question....
"Do you want that dress?"
I was shocked. It was the same one I told her I liked! I didn't want to assume so it wasn't till we got home I asked if it was for me or her. When she said it was for me my heart jumped for joy.
I tried it on by myself and I love it!
I think things are going in the right direction.
P.s. sorry it's so long but I'm excited!!!!
Nikki,
Wonderful and congrats. It is a journey, and can only be accomplished one step at a time. I agree that you are taking the proper course with your wife. My experience has been similar, especially with my wife. Good luck.
MacKenzie Alexandra
Nikki congratulations on a first step. I hope you and your wife continue in a positive fashion. Be careful and don’t push it to far to fast. She is also going through a transition with this and may want to set limits. Be respectful and work with her so she feels she has some control. I wish you both the best!
🍷C
I'm happy for you. Small steps forward is all we can ask. She needs her time to understand and for her offering a Olive Branch well things may be showing signs of compromise. Let the control be in her hands. She needs to move at her pace and you to control your desires. Following her lead as I have with my wife has been wonderful. She is slowly accepting me and has admitted that when we work together our relationship does become stronger . Congratulations and the best on your journeys ahead for the both of you. 🌹
Thank you Stephanie. My wife and I were just talking about that and she said she thinks we would grow closer from this. We are actually really close anyway but because of how "manly" I am it take through hey for a loop.
Nikki.....great story....I am happy for you. You are so lucky to have such a wife!
Dame Veronica
Nikki, that is wonderful to hear! I too am lucky to have a wife accepting and even participating. So congrats!
So happy for you, Nikki! My wife helped me pick out a skirt the other day, which was the first time she's directly helped me pick out anything girly for myself! It was a great feeling, so reassuring and exciting! Best of luck to you two in the future.
Jo
Congratulations Nikki! That sounds fantastic. Great progress and very encouraging. Make sure you give a nice treat or go out for a special meal this week and tell her how much you appreciate her! Xx.
