Buying my first Bra today :-/

Hi TJ,

Great to hear you enjoyed your shopping trip.  Someone suggested a bra fitting which is a great idea.  You’ll find the European sizes are different than US or Asian sizes.  A 36 E is an American DD cup.  Everyone will be different.  A male chest and shoulders are broader than a woman’s so the band may not fit if your underbust measurement is 36 inches (if 35 one will round up to 36).

And the nipple to nipple spacing is also greater on a male so the cup to cup centering may  be off.  You’ll find as you wear your bras the band will loosen up and won’t be as tight.

Alice

Sounds like things went better than expected TJ, capital FUN. It is good therapy but we should have warned you about how addictive it is. Your a big girl now haha.

Thank you so much for the uplifting reply, I sure needed it today 😘

I am looking forward to wearing them, if only to explore how they work for me initially. Am being patient as its already a lot for Mrs TJ to take in and don't want to push too hard.

All good things come to those who wait 🙂

Getting the first bra is definitely a wonderful experience. I need to get a new one as my first one is a bit tight.

I have some extenders on order, otherwise I fear mine will cut off the already limited blood supply to my brain lol x

Sounds wonderful! Yes, like I said it won't be the only one you buy!

My wife somehow (!) makes do with about 4 in her rotation, but I have something approaching 20. She always says, "do you need another bra?" no of course I don't need one, but I certainly WANT one!

I go easy on my wife with the femme stuff, but if she is out for a while I will slip one on, even if it's only for a half hour or so.

Amy

I think shoes are going to be my danger purchases, I am an imelda marcos in waiting.

Although I have recently discovered 'boob tube' tops, really tight with support wire built into the fabric. A bra, but a top - I the Mrs can handle that. And we have a chuckle when I inevitability fall out of it lol 🤣