CDH....please never change, i love you just how you are.....perfect!!!

I checked out a whole heap of channels and forums and blogs and stuff. I followed here for at least 6 months b4 joining.

Its the only forum I'm a member of. And the only place I discuss crossdressing.

A.) I like that its not a pick up joint.

B.) I like that its family friendly. I'm not suddenly faced with someones body bits (if you know what I mean?)

C.) The ambassadors do a great job of cleaning house. Thank you sheriff's and deputies. Your hard work is truly appreciated.

D.) The forums are deeply informative. (For the most part anyways.)

E.) The article editors for my recent article. You know who you are. They did a great job. They communicated very clearly what was needed. What they were doing. They kept me in the loop and asked my thoughts every step of the way.

It was a positive experience. If you haven't written an article, and have an idea for one speak to the editors about how to go about and craft your idea. 10 out of 10 points for this one.

I'm sure there is more...

Another wonderful post, Grace.
This home is so very important to so many of us, it brings me joy and comfort every time I log in, which is at least a couple times every day.
I truly don't know where I would be without our sisters.
Love you all,
Hugs, Regi👸💕

Congratulations sweetie 100up and more delights to come. I hope and pray that CDH never changes, and indeed the inspiration, drive and creativity of Grace is forever here.
Mental health is a huge issue in our community and it's amazing how this site responds to those in need of help with love, support and advice. It's a great site, well managed, and covers everything. It is what it is a heaven, a community of like minded people from all walks of life and indeed from around the world who can simply connect, build bridges, chat and seek help from an army of Cd's who have a wealth of knowledge and experience to share on an abundance of subjects from serious to humorous. Long may it be here for generations to come. Lol
Amanda xx ❤️

I am grateful for this site, and all the people who make it work. Those patrolling around, keeping it on track, to those writing all that I read, those asking and those answering. For those needing and finding support, and giving it. I love you all for an array of reasons. You've all in your own way helped me to find... me. I am grateful.

Bridgette

Hi girlfriend! I just want you to know that I really enjoyed your post about CDH! It is very well thought out and articulate as well Thank you for sharing this wonderful bunch of comments! Peace and love 😘, Lucia

Bravo 👏   you are so right.  And it is wonderful. I love 💘 me some CDH

Trisha

I so totally agree with you and most of the others Grace.  CDH isn't just Heaven, it is our Haven. (that's how I actually see the group name sometimes too).  Our Ambassadors keep the 'drudge' at bay that contaminates so many other sites and totally ruins them.  I know I have come pretty close to the edge of some topics, and the admin has been quick to point out what I did, but it was not so much a scolding as it was a reminder, and it was done in private too, not in front of the rest of you girls.

Even after so many years of being Paula, I can come here and have my eyes opened to a new way of seeing and dealing with the life we are making for ourselves.  Our views and opinions are here, for everyone to see without the fear of being flamed or segregated because of them. (as long as we stay in the lines, of course.)

As long as we all work and play together, we have someplace special that we can come to and be ourselves without judgement from general society.  Maybe that may sound a bit standoffish, but the way I see it, the rest of the world is just not ready for us, yet.

PaulaF

What a wonderful post Grace, I only discovered cdh 2 months ago after keeping my crossdressing a secret for 60 years, at my age of 73 I thought people would think it disgusting of me wearing beautiful soft lingerie , dresses and strappy heels,  but I find a large percentage of  us are nearer my age.  this Is so magical to me to be able to discuss openly all crossdressing topics with like minded people from all over the world, only for cdh I would never have thought of choosing  a female name, so thanks everyone for being here and supporting us, it means the world to me, xxx

Me name,

hello and thank you for all you said.  i am very thankful for this site also 100%  i am more at ease being a x dresser and knowing i am not alone in this world of x dressing.  i have managed to except my cross dressing and my wife is more excepting to a point. i dress up when no other adult child is home and my wife tells me i can do what i like to do. she knows about my collection of dresses, and nylons and perfume.   she even gave me some of her moms ear rings her mom passed away last year from cancer.  so know i have some of my mother in laws ear rings and some dresses from my mother and all that she left behind,. my mother passed away in 2013 and 68 days later my dad passed away so now i have my moms things. plus have the county land in war saw N.Y.  we plain on moving out there soon we hope. having a home built and installed, all we do is move our stuff in all the rest is done by the company that built the home.    i love this site were i love reading the articles and stories and post that people put up. with out this site i would be lost. i have lots of friends to chat to and we help each other out.  thanks again C.D.H.

Well said Grace! Congratulations on raising your 100th post!
Like everyone else I am very grateful for CDH. I have met so many wonderful ladies from all around the world I would not have met otherwise, like Grace!
CDH has also allowed me to share Stephanie's life and story without fear or shame which has been a real blessing.
May CDH remain for years to come.
Love and hugs, Stephanie 💖

Couldn't agree more, Miss Grace!  CDH is SUCH a wonderful and supportive place and the world is a happier place for it.  You being a part of it makes it that much better!!!

*kisses* tara 🙂

I also have suffered from extreme depression as a result of a brain injury. I would never have guessed how debilitating depression and anxiety  can be. That seems to be behind me as long as I keep up on my prescriptions.  But I see a lot of us have issues as does the general public but the  honesty and trust on this site along with acceptance has had a very positive effect on me. I'd like to thank all you girls for sharing and in Grace's case making me laugh .

Hi Grace Congratulations on your 100th. I truly enjoy all of your post. You have very unique way of looking at things and I love it. Without humor we are screwed. I like you have suffered from depression and everything else my therapist can think up. My confusion about my gender has been a life long journey I cannot believe I made it to the ripe old age of 67 without something really bad happening to me. I pushed every boundary. I found CDH while sitting in my therapist waiting room. I was on a quest to try and figure out why I enjoyed expressing my self as a female. Why was it so important to me? These feelings have been haunting me my whole life. When my therapist recommended voice therapy and possibly hormone adjustments to help me with my anxiety that I was feeling concerning my cross dressing. I could not believe the path she was taking with me. I just stopped going to her and joined CDH with some apprehension I must add. I could not believe there were so many people who thought the way I did. I was a member at a local CD/TG club in the past It was a lot of fun But we never got into the reasons why so many of us think the way we do. I just thought it was a fetish and I would just have to deal with it on my own The CDH members here taught me It was ok to think the way I do. I was not alone. It was not just a fetish. There were so many people from many parts of the world with different backgrounds and were brought up in different cultures. There had to be a more to it than just a fetish. Initially I thought there are so many people here that decided to cross dress late in life. They were not like me. I was looking for people that have been expressing there feminine gender there whole life and wanted to discuss all the violence and trauma that is very much apart of our community.  There is a definite reason i found out I did not like men back in my teens. I blamed my self for being out and about going to gay night clubs and showing off my assets if you will. It was just horrible experience that no person should ever have to experience.  There is a lot of sick F..ck weirdo's out there for sure any way I believe you get my point. CDH helped me deal with that issue also. That is why I always caution members not to engage with men if they are not attracted to men when they are not dressed. It can be fun but can turn into something they are not prepared to deal with. Sorry for ranting Thank you again Grace for your humor you have always bought a smile to my face. I do some times have to insert my brain after reading some of you post. CDH members are  blessing to me . Just to know there are so many nice, kind,empathetic lovely people out there that think the way I do brings me comfort that things are not as bad as they seem

Luv Stephanie

Congratulations 🍾 on your 100 posts Grace, what you do for us ladies is amazing, can’t wait to read your next 100. Dani👩🏻‍🔧xoxo