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Hello,
I am new to the group. My husband has always in one way or another CD but when our son turned 1 things stopped. Recently, things have been back to normal again and I see his gem side almost daily now. I love seeing how happy she is fully dressed and I want to keep her from going away again.
I was thinking of doing something special for her today. My husband usually works until about 7pm and when he gets home we have time for dinner then to put our son to sleep. Usually around 8pm we are alone for the evening. My plan is to set up a romantic dinner, with flowers, chocolate, and a new outfit. I want her to feel loved and special.
However, I am not sure how it will be perceived. Any thoughts or advice???
I can't see that being perceived as anything other than acceptance and love. At least thats how I would take it.
Xoxo, Kate
I think she would love it. For some of us, crossdressing is a stress reliever. To come home from work and be accepted as a beautiful woman would be amazing.
Xoxo, Dani
Well the difficult part is that while my husband enjoys CD sometimes he will shut down and say it’s not something he wants. He grew up in a very strict religious home. He wasn’t even allowed to listen to music that wasn’t from the church until he went to college. I tried getting him to join CDH but he said he wasn’t ready. He just only a few weeks ago allowed me to use fem pronouns when dressed. I’m only allowed to use his male name as he doesn’t want to have a fem name yet. He said maybe one day he will feel comfortable but for now just fem pronouns. I don’t want him to see it as mocking or for him to shut down. Trying to tread lightly but to show him/her how much I love her.
To be fully accepted is the best present you could ever give; it's a lovely idea.
Bettylou
Hi J Shore, Sounds lovely what woman would not want that. I went into hiding again for a couple of years and my wife would ask where Stephanie has gone. She said she missed Stephanie. I just said she is gone. We are a interesting group of people that is for sure. My problem at the time was denial, I just hated that part of me. I believe you may draw her out with your acceptance so she can begin to accept that part of her as real. Then she can begin incorporating who she is as whole. I believe you have someone special that can be a great husband and can be a special friend that you care share the fun things about being a woman. You have so much teach him if he will listen and learn. He has a lot to teach you if you will listen and learn. Sounds like a great opportunity for the both of you to have a long lasting loving relationship. Hope all goes well with your plans.
Luv Stephanie
hI J ,
what a wonderful thing to do .
If your concerned I would communicate with your husband your feelings.
I think your great
Patty
Oh my! It's still a good idea, but does make things "touchy". He has not been able to accept himself, because of his background. If he seems hesitant, remind him that he is doing nothing "wrong" or illegal, and that it harms no one. And that he is far from being alone with these feelings. Several girls here also come from strict church backgrounds and have had to deal with the same issues, if he ever wishes to talk about it.
Hugs,
Bettylou
I have brought up joining or even just looking at CDH and he says nope I’m not ready. He knows I joined and says it’s good for me but he doesn’t want to see it. I hope with more love and support I can make him feel comfortable.
Hello J....and welcome to CDH...
Reading your reply to Bettylou, it's probably going to be better if you suggest your idea first, instead of just springing it on her.
Deep deep down, I would be shocked if she did not love it....what you want to do is....amazing!!!!
and the bonus of being accepted by a wife or S/O is something that cannot be taken for granted. Lots of girls on here would die to be in her position......
Best wishes, grace x
Hi JShore nice to meet you and so so happy you joined us here as a GG woman you are a gem and fall into the same area as my wife she is 100% accepting and supportive but she does not have the confidence to join us here ?? She will come around someday .. And what a wonderful thing for your girlfriend/husband she would love it i woul;d hope as i would be so happy to be on the recieving end you are so sweet hope all goes well enjoy and let us know how it goes ..
Stephanie 💋
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Sorry Can’t speak for your husband but if you did that for me it would just mean so much to me, you are a very special person and I hope your husband knows how lucky he is.
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Bianca
What a lucky girl and you are truly a gem go for it he will love you for it. 💕💋 Katie
Hi J,
I would love for my wife to give me anything femme, panties, dress, jeans.
Paula
He is a super lucky girl. I would be so happy if my wife did that. She has given me things before, but just her leftovers. I don't fit in them respectfully as she is much smaller than me. I recently told her I need to dress more and she wants to join in. I am so happy that I have someone to dress with. You should dress up too and treat yourself to something.
