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Hey everyone
Some of you might have seen my posts recently seeking advice and then on ordering my first pair of breast forms. Thanks to all those who offered advice publicly or privately 😘
Well today is an exciting day as I’m off to collect them shortly and was thinking whether to make a post (this one) as a bit of a live(ish) blog as I go to collect them (and other purchases) and unpack them and try them on for the first time.
All obviously will be PG as we are in a forum and whilst being naughty can be fun, it has to be the right kind of naughty otherwise Admins rightly get cross.
What do you think?
Isabel
x
@isabelcross
Go for it ... it's a fun idea.
However, it's always a good idea to keep on the right side of the admins 🙂
*Ellie settles down with notebook in hand to monitor the progress of the thread*
@isabelcross
Hey, Isabel, I know how exciting it is to go and collect stuff from shops or post offices when the assistants know nothing about what's inside.....or do they?
I'm sure we'd love to hear about your experience but I'm not sure why you'd want or need to couch it in a "naughty" way. It's not about admins getting cross, it's about maintaining the standards that keep us all safe and comfortable here.
But that's just my view, I expect others will let you know what they think too, that's the beauty of this diverse community.
Happy collecting!
Allie x
Well if anyone is interested I’m setting off now, dressed in yoga pants and gym top (long sleeved) that are a pretty tight fit with flat pumps and dark shades. I’ve slipped my bralette on as it’s the last time it might fit me, I’ve been led to believe!! xx
@isabelcross
*Ellie makes a careful note: 'So far, so good'. She sits back and continues to watch closely*
Ok girls, that’s it. Now or never.
*checks reflection in the mirror (again), adjusts yoga pants, practices feminine walk
Deep breath. And go xx
Should take 10-15 mins to get there so will update again soon.
So girls, I’ve arrived.
Just a couple of deep breaths then out to walk 100yards each way across the parking lot.
Wish me luck!
@isabelcross
*Ellie watches Isabel cross the parking lot and wonders where she's actually going*
Isabel senses she is being watched and makes sure to walk in a feminine way with the occasional bum wiggle in case someone is watching.
And Isabel is back. Of course it was in the bottom locker (dignified position adopted to open and collect)
The question is, does Isabel open her package and drive home with a more fuller shape?
Isabel x
@isabelcross
*Ellie realises that this is Isabel's first opportunity to be a little risque. She narrows her eyes and leans forward. Watching carefully, she waits for even the slightest violation of the site guidelines. She wonders: what will happen next?*
@isabelcross
Well I was going to say, of course you should! But, I go and put the kettle on and you've made your own decision. Good choice.
Allie x
@isabelcross
OK, that post was 6 minutes ago, so I am now wondering how you are getting on ...
Enjoying every moment of it I hope 😎 .
Hugs, Rebecca x
enjoy your new forms, it will make a huge difference in your completing the complete package of dressing up enjoy them let us know what your think and how you feel with them in
Well Isabel couldn’t resist so is about to drive home a fuller woman than when she left xx
@isabelcross
*Hoping that Isabel's new frontage won't affect her steering, and knowing that she has a 10-15 minute journey ahead of her, Ellie takes the opportunity to head off for a cup of tea*
*Jacqueline, hearing the kettle going on, opens a packet of biscuits, then sits down and waits patiently for developments*
*Ellie reaches over and takes a biscuit, discovers that it's a Bourbon, and then puts it down again. She glances at the clock. It's 5.17. Surely Isabel should be home by now? Maybe her new breasts DID affect her steering. She begins to wish that she hadn't made that comment, but realises that people have already seen it and it can't be edited now*
*Jacqueline sighs and opens a fresh packet of half-chocolate covered digestives*
*Ellie gives Jacqui a look of gratitude, and takes a digestive. She dunks it in her tea and continues to wait*
*Jacqueline smiles back. She looks at Ellie's cup of tea and wonders where hers is. Jacqueline doesn't say this out loud, of course. She's far too polite*
*Ellie returns to the kitchen and comes back with Jacqui's tea. She'd left it to brew for ten minutes, knowing that Jacqui likes it so strong that you can stand a teaspoon in it vertically*
@ellyd22 Anna realises she missed all the excitement due to having to nip to the shop.
@isabelcross
Wait ... hang on a minute.
dressed in yoga pants and gym top (long sleeved) that are a pretty tight fit with flat pumps and dark shades. I’ve slipped my bralette on as it’s the last time it might fit me, I’ve been led to believe!!
Bralette that is too small to accommodate the forms?? Tight fit gym top?? So how did the forms get fitted ... what was going on in that public car park? Did the events violate site guidelines? And could you maintain concentration on the drive home with the position of the seat belt across your front 'dividing' your attention?
@isabelcross that extra weight does feel reassuring. I've not driven often en-femme but love doing so
When I read your original post I was about to throw my two penneth worth in & when I saw how many had already done so. You can definitely have too many suggestions sometimes so I kept quiet. I'm amazed that you decided so quickly & even more amazed that you have somewhere you can actually get them from. Lucky Girl! If my experience is anything to go by you won't want to take them off....Ever!
X
Sasha
@sashabennett It has been on my mind for quite some time and I thought what am I waiting for! xx
So girls, Isabel is home.
She only stalled the car once at a junction through lack of focus despite trying really hard!
OMG the feeling of the weight on your chest and the shape with your seatbelt snuggles between is incredible!
Isabel may have stopped on the way home to just pause and look at herself whilst the world walked by (well supermarket car park)
Time to breath then attempt to walk up the stairs xx
Thanks for all the support girls - it means so much!
Isabel x 😘
@isabelcross
*Ellie relaxes, knowing that Isabel is home safely. She wonders whether she will have deliberately driven over any speed bumps on the way home, just to feel the effect, but decides it's probably best not to ask*
@isabelcross
A member here once said that they liked to go on night drives while dressed, and deliberately drive down rutted country roads just to achieve maximum bounce 🙂
@ellyd22 Well it is a nice evening for a drive … be amazing to be seen and to be ‘validated’ in my new shape … and to enjoy the bumps and bounces too xx
@isabelcross
As a recent convert to bras and forms (I'm already browsing for the next size up 🙄), I know much of what you're feeling, and yes, it is amazing.
Fun topic 😊
Allie x
*Jacqueline also relaxes, then goes to make her own cup of tea*
*Ellie wonders why Jacqui would want two cups of tea. Maybe she's just very, very thirsty after a hard day down the pit. She sympathises; a life like that can be hard on a girl*
*Jacqui eventually returns, with a large mug of tea, into which she tips the contents of the small cup Ellie made earlier. She wonder why Ellie has such small cups for her tea. Maybe it's something to do with a life of raising turkeys*
*Ellie absent-mindedly stirs her rapidly cooling cup of tea with a Turkey Twizzler*
Isabel is keen to understand her new measurements and has found the tape measure. She wonders if the below is correct?
Hips / bum - widest part
Waist - narrowest part
Bust - under the breast and then over the fullest part of the breast
Hugs x
@isabelcross
Hip measurement:
- Stand with your feet together and find the widest part of your hips and buttocks.
- Wrap a flexible tape measure around the widest part, making sure it is parallel to the ground and snug but not tight.
- Take the measurement in inches or centimetres where the end of the tape meets the remaining length.
Waist: Measure right on your belly button, and don't unnaturally suck your belly in. You need a dress to be comfortable, so relax when you're taking the measurement.
Bust: Measured at nipple height.
Chest: Take this measurement just under pectoral muscle (2 to 3 inches below the nipples)
Hips / butt - 37”
Waist - 33”
Chest - 34”
Breast - 39”
No cheating and doing my best to balance in heels and with my new fuller shape! Might have to retry in a better bra?
@isabelcross
Nice measurements!
I don't really want to interrupt the flow of your live blog, but here's some info on bras from something I'm writing:
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3.3 Bras
Regardless of trying to achieve a particular shape, some of us love to wear a bra purely for the ‘hug’ that it provides. Most of my days go by without a hug from another human being; it's comforting to know that my bra will always be there for me.
Of course, there’s a lot more to bras than just the pure ‘sheepdog’ function (rounding them up and pointing them in the right direction). It’s worth spending time and effort getting the fit right, and choosing styles that work for you rather than against you.
3.3.1 Determining your bra size
How your clothes drape or hang, how they’re going to fit, how they’re going to feel and how they’re going to look will depend to a very great extent on what you wear underneath. The correct bra (and breast forms that are proportionate to your height, weight and figure) is essential. But what’s all the ‘36B’ and ‘42D’ mullarkey? This is a combination of your bad size and your cup size.
Determine your band size. Use a cloth measuring tape just below your breasts and above your rib cage. You want to know a measurement in inches - 34”, 36”, 38” and so on. If the measurement that you get is an odd number, round up to the next even number.
Determine your cup size. Again using the cloth measuring tape, measure around the fullest part of the bust, then round up by one inch. Now you want to know the difference between this measurement and your band width. Every one inch difference is one cup size; a one inch difference is an A cup, two inches is a B cup, three inches is a C, four inches is a D, five inches is a DD and six inches is a DDD. As an example, if your band width is 34 but the measurement across your bust area is 37 then there is a 3” difference and your bra size is a 34C.
Measuring is not foolproof, and you may have to try on a few bras to find the perfect size for you. However, it’s a good start and will narrow your options.
3.3.2 Ensuring a good fit
You should check the following to ensure that your bra will fit comfortably:
- The straps should be firm around the body when they are on the loosest setting. This way, as the elastic begins to wear out during the lifetime of the bra, it can be tightened easily.
- You should be able to fit one or two fingers easily under the bra band.
- The bra band should fit horizontally around the rib cage.
- If you are wearing an underwire bra, then the underwire itself should lie flat against your body.
- Your breasts should be fully enclosed in the cup; they shouldn’t spill out over the cup, nor should there by wrinkling of the fabric in the cup itself as this will easily show through your outer clothes.
- When you’re looking in the mirror, your breasts should sit at the midpoint between the crook of your elbow and your shoulder; no higher, no lower!
If you wear breast forms in a standard bra then you may find that they move around, and can even slip out entirely when you bend over. You can try glue, but that doesn’t always feel particularly wonderful. The problem can be solved by buying mastectomy bras, which of course are designed specifically to hold silicon inserts. There are some very pretty ones on the market, so you won’t be limiting yourself at all.
‘Another clue to a bra that creates a shape is wide straps, according to bra experts. If you find a bra made of a thick enough fabric, with enough infrastructure, you could put a gerbil in it and it would look OK.’ (Charles Anders)
Congrats Isabel, hope you find them lovely and that they enhance your femme. i think you'll find that you'll spend a lot of time just admiring your new look in the mirror
Just to update everyone, I’m currently trying on bras (obviously!) to find the best fit! xx
Thanks for reading along xx
So, are you happy with your new boobs? Are they the size you were hoping for? No doubt you look amazing and we (at least I) hope to see the results soon.
Congrats Isabel, I read this amusing narrative whilst sipping coffee in a bra-sserie in the northern French town of Brest. Quickly switched to tea - not easy in France - just to join Ellie and Jacqueline, wishing I was more than just underdressed.
Isabel, any chance of some photos?
By the way, not wanting really to take the limelight away from Isabel, but Ellie, congrats to you too - great photos that you posted on your first(?) trip out - you and Isabel are ‘first out-sisters’
hugs Christine
Glad you enjoyed / enjoying it xxx Sorry but I’m a coffee girl xx
